you were by far the best person to follow on the show!!! funny and honest. or as honest as you can be on tv.
posted on April 24, 2008 at 6:51 PM
jane wrote:
Jill,
You have come across as such a real and loving person. For all of the viewers out here in TV land I really hope you decide to do the season 2. You are passionate and truly care about your family and friends. You and Bobby would be the type of people anyone would be proud to call friends.
posted on April 24, 2008 at 6:53 PM
Mary wrote:
Hi Jill! I was wondering if you were going to post a blog after the Reunion show and I am so glad that you did. You are my favorite housewife!! You are so real and put some of those pretentious women to shame. I really like how you care so deeply for others and are willing to be a connector to help others out. It's fantastic how you admit you're not perfect, but try your best not to hurt others' feelings.
I give you a lot of credit for putting up with Ramona and all the negative things she has said and/or done to you. Doesn't that woman understand that everyone who watched that episode knows that she blatantly lied about why you weren't at her cooking party? And OMG she still expects you to share the tennis balls you got as a gag award because she played against you? Get over yourself, Ramona!!
It is so obvious how important family is to you. You brought tears to my eyes with the wonderful things you just wrote to all of your family members. Besides watching the great relationships you have with Bobby & Allyson, I loved watching you and Bethenny! Laverne and Shirley are the best part of this show!!
Have a great summer and I hope everyone in your family gets healthy soon.
posted on April 24, 2008 at 7:14 PM
Todd wrote:
Enough about the family already...Did you see the blog where they called you Jill Streisand?? TOO FUNNY!!!
Jill Jill Jill, what can I say, You talk the talk and walk the walk. I may not be family but I too am proud of you. There are so many dimensions to you and they are all genuine. I am sad to see that you won't be returning for season 2 but like you said it straight up, family comes first. I can't agree with you more. You have been an absolute delight to watch and I wish you and your family health happiness and a super bright future. Congratulations on the up-coming arrival of your first grand-baby. What a wonderful gift from above. Your family is lovely and please remember you are loved all over America. Take care and God Bless.
posted on April 24, 2008 at 7:30 PM
quinn wrote:
You are a joy - and your daughter is a gem. all the best, thanks for sharing your life.
posted on April 24, 2008 at 7:53 PM
Donna wrote:
J. - when I saw the reunion show, I literally felt as though I was saying goodbye to some dear friends. You, my dear, are a love. Your honesty, your ability to reason & not hold grudges, the sincere love you have for your family, as well as your friends is God-sent. And luckily, you're pretty damn funny.
I'm not a star-struck or tv crazy person, but I have been GLUED to your show. (And could spank Bravo for airing the marathons, as I've missed countless appointments w/my trainer, my friends and even left a few of my sons baseball games early!!)
My father instilled in me a strong sense of people perception and you are top notch in my book. (I also adore LuAnn and Bethanny (although she needs to show more discernment at times)....I think Alex is a very good person at heart, but just a little off balance with what is most important. I do believe that her family is her priority, but her comment on the first episode about being in St. Bart's where she "doesn't have to look over her shoulder to see if there is anyone she has to impress". SAD. As for the 5th housewife, I literally am going to pray for Ramona and her family. We all have character flaws and while she has acknowledged such (bull in a china shop), she does nothing to temper the flaw. I honestly hope she will come to the full realization that many of her actions are inappropriate, otherwise the one who will suffer most is Avery.)
Take good care....I may just pop into Zarin Fabric next time I'm in NYC.
posted on April 24, 2008 at 7:55 PM
Suzy wrote:
I, too, wondered why the heck Simon was at the Reunion Show. I think he and Alex are the most irritating of all couples I have ever seen! They are the epitomy of "Gotta keep up with the Jones's! You, Jill, are a wonderful lady and I would love to be friends with some one like you. You were fun to watch! Love Ya!
posted on April 24, 2008 at 8:03 PM
Cathy wrote:
I see a wise woman in you Jill. I think the saying "Keep your friends close and your enemies closer" could almost apply to Ramona.
My mother also used to say "With friends like that, who needs enemies".
I think anyone on Ramona's hit list would be very wise to follow your example and just glide on through is with a chuckle, a grin and a
posted on April 24, 2008 at 8:13 PM
more_fab_than_brad wrote:
Jill,
at first i did not like you, but you are the most caring of the housewives, and I think a really good person. I want to replace Brad as your gay husband. I'm great looking but not flamboyant, in fact, not noticeably gay at all, but still fabulous. I want to take you to brunch at the fab Metropolitan Club at 60th & 5th and dish with you. And unlike Simon and Alex, brunch will be my treat. You can tell Alex and Simon, it is a private club founded by JP Morgan, and they can never gain admission! Luann would probably insult one of the workers there. Ramona is just a freak. So they are not invited. I love Brethanny also, but for the first brunch, just you and your new gay husband.
Jill, you rule, and as most others on the blog would say, thanks for being real and kind!
posted on April 24, 2008 at 8:39 PM
Laurie Fronk wrote:
Lovely Jill,
You were by FAR my absolute favorite housewife. Kudos to you for your honesty and kindness. I live in MN in a completely different world than you, but I so related to you. I too have a Ramona,Rameina in my life. I have to say that I've learned restraint from you on how to react to my Ramona's actions. Thank you I wish nothing but the best for you and yours. Can't wait to learn from you next season.
posted on April 24, 2008 at 8:42 PM
Mary wrote:
Jill,
Someone needs to tell you that "Team...Whatever" is soooooo yesterday. You just appear stupid by keep saying it over and over and over and over and over. The whole concept is over and over and over. That just shows how out of touch with reality you and the entire cast is with everyday life on planet earth. The only one who is remotely close to having a reality check is Bethenny. I think the whole season was stupid and I won't be watching season 2. I hope someone from Bravo reads this and keeps track of viewers who have had enough of self-indulgent, greedy, mean-spirited old ladies.
posted on April 24, 2008 at 8:50 PM
Darlene wrote:
Hi Jill,
I guess this is not just on this last blog, but on a whole. I really admire you so much! I know you said it hurt your feelings when Bethanny yelled at you at her b-day dinner. Yet you were so calm and cool, and you even said it must be all the drinks, and nothing else was said. I think I took it as "what a great friendship" and knowing that you just let it go. I myself am way to sensative, I would of been crying or running out! I guess what I am saying is you and Bethanny seem to still be very good friends! I love that you forgive and move on.
I love the show because of YOU & Bethanny, you are the best team, Love it Love it Love it!!! Can't wait till next season. Have a great time off.
ps. I love your family too, Bobby is GREAT and Ally is beautiful. I hope to have a family like that someday.
posted on April 24, 2008 at 8:51 PM
corrienemiller wrote:
Dear Jill,
I really loved you on the show! you were so real and warm. To me the show revolved around you. You and Bethenny were my favorites. Ramona is so trashy I don't know how she got on the show. The "countess" is too full of herself, and Simon and Alex, I don't know! They seem sweet but there is something kind of Gomez and Morticia about them. Hope to see another season of the show. I loved it. Good luck to you and your family, your lovely daughter, kind husband and best of health to your stepson.
posted on April 24, 2008 at 8:52 PM
Evonne wrote:
Jill - you are my favorite on this show. You are so "real" and unpretentious. Calm too. I wish you all the best.
p.s. I shopped at your fabric store when I live in NYC (my hometown in fact).
posted on April 24, 2008 at 9:00 PM
Anonymous wrote:
I hope this means you're leaving the show you lying hypocrite. "I don't care where I sit." Uh huh.
posted on April 24, 2008 at 9:02 PM
Liz wrote:
Jill, you make it sound like you're not coming back for Season 2...PLEASE say you will be back! You and Bethenny make that show, you're both funny and down to earth, I just love the relationship you two have. By the way, I think you handled everything just perfectly on the reunion show. I personally would have liked to put my fist through Rameana's face, but when you asked her if she was a moron, I about fell out of my chair! Ramona needs to get a grip and read a book about class and manners, I don't think she should wait for LuAnn's book to come out, she needs one now and she should read it, remember it and LIVE IT! You are a saint for putting up with her, but I completely understand, I too, have a friend that is like that and if she wasn't so funny sometimes, I don't think I could tolerate her. Anyway, I hope you do come back next season, you are the QUEEN OF MANHATTAN! You also seem to have a wonderful family, and great friends (with the possible exception of Ramona-but I am sure she has another side to her), and it is a shame more people don't think like you and thank God every day for what you do have, money isn't everything, family and friends are! Good Luck to you and yours.......Until Season 2 REAL HOUSEWIVES OF NEW YORK CITY!
posted on April 24, 2008 at 9:03 PM
carmen jo wrote:
Jill,
My friend Kar and i totally love you, in fact your the main reason that we watch the show. Your so funny and outgoing, and we love your voice, it is soo New york. We love ya girl!! Go Team Jill!!
I am a Jill fan! I wasnt sure I would like you but by the second episode I was hooked on your warmth, humor, and sincerity. Alley is a gem and Bobby seems like a fantastic partner.
I also really like Alex and have been so saddened by the absolutly brutal comments by some very ugly and tacky people on her blog. I understand that the cameras have captured some of her thoughts that might be considered controversial and not everyone will be comfortable with her brand of sophistication, but half of her blog responses are very mean spirited. (The other half are quite supportive.)
The reson I mention it to you is that I know that with your huge heart and your obvious generosity of spirit, I am imploring you to defend her or do what you can to mitigate these distortions of character. I know that the show is over and the editors have cut some of your comments that were in support of her. Im not sure what else you could do unless you do continue your blog.
Id LOVE to see you both on season 2. I hope Bravo takes a pass on the revolting and tacky Rameana.
with warm regards, Chris. (big gay Jill fan)
posted on April 24, 2008 at 9:08 PM
Patty wrote:
Jill,
Your blog made me cry! But in a good way. But you forgot to thank Ginger!
You are one of the most generous, sincere people on earth. Allyson is lucky to have such a great role model, just as you are to have your mother.
You made me laugh so hard during this season, and I thank you for that. I was pretty skeptical about the show at first, as I thought it would be just a bunch of whiney society wannabes (well....we did have the Van Kempens to prove me right there!), but I really enjoyed the show and look forward to a second season.
Finally, love and prayers to your stepson, let him know he has an entire "Bravo nation" rooting for him.
Let us know when the baby comes, and post pics on your website. Thanks again.
Patty
posted on April 24, 2008 at 9:11 PM
Liz wrote:
Jill...I think you are FABULOUS...and I appreciate your sense of honesty. I can't understand why Ramona got all over you when you said she shouldn't be wearing the same things Bethenny does, because of the age difference. She kept trying to say to you that there wasn't a difference, but she is 51 (according to the 1992 wedding announcement for Ramona Mazur and Mario Singer, ages 35 and 38)and Bethenny is 37. Your point was well taken and Ramona should be proud of her age...She looks great for being 51!
Hope your stepson is doing better. He is in our prayers....
posted on April 24, 2008 at 9:22 PM
Nancy wrote:
Jill,
I thought you were the most honest and real on the show. You are a little out there most of the time, in all that you spend on material things, but you do not act like a brat and are not rude. I see that you are trying to give Allyson a good work ethic. I believe you and Bobby do work very hard. I could not believe how rude Ramona is to you and others and that Alex didn't remember saying some of the things she said. Why didn't you play it back for her?
posted on April 24, 2008 at 9:27 PM
lilah wrote:
Jill - Let me be the first to tell you that you are fabulous. You seem the most real to me. I loved watching when ever you and Rameana got into it. Thank goodness you put her in her place someone had to. She really doesn't get it or much of anything else for that matter. Rameana has no class or style. Class cannot be bought you are born with it. You my dear have class and style. Hope to see you in S2.
Dear Jill,
You are such a warm and earnest person...You're a good girl. I don't blog...but was so taken with your good nature and sincerity...I just had to jump in. I actually live in the East 60's and have to say I'm fortunate enough to have a few "Jills" in my life. I think everyone should be blessed with a friend like you. Hoping to run into you in the 'hood.
Can't wait for the next season!
posted on April 24, 2008 at 9:47 PM
Sylvia wrote:
Jill, you have been my favorite since the first episode, and my friends will back me up on that! I love your loyalty to your friends, your generosity of heart and pocketbook, your sense of fairplay which is balanced by your ability to forgive and to nurture even those who have hurt you. You are a great example of the precept that love poured outward flows back to you. You deserve your wonderful life and I hope you and your family have all the health, happiness and success that life can bring.
posted on April 24, 2008 at 9:54 PM
lois wrote:
you, my Jill, are a class act. I enjoyed you the most..and love your feisty attitude that is filled with truth and laughter. Rock on girlfriend!
posted on April 24, 2008 at 10:02 PM
Kristina DeLeo wrote:
Dear Jill - I have loved this show not just for the fun, glamorous side, but for the people whom Bravo allowed us to "hang out with" on Tuesdays... since I've been home on maternity leave, it's been a great way to pass the time while nursing and in between caring for my munchkins.
That said, you were one of my favorites - for your frankness, good heart & vulnerability... you share a lot of the same traits as my business partner (also a true yenta at heart) & I've been working on her to watch the show - at least in re-runs!!
I loved that this show mirrored real life for the rest of us - the "bigger budget" of our Real Housewives counterparts simply magnifies the good and bad of real-life situations we encounter on a daily basis, from friendships to family relationships to social issues. LOVED IT & loved peeking into East Coast life, too!!
All the best to you and your family. Can't wait until the next season!!!!
posted on April 24, 2008 at 10:12 PM
sonja wrote:
Hi Jill,
I think you're great...and a hereo for putting up with Ramona who is without a doubt the most immature woman past the age of 14 that I've ever seen. Truly, she's odd in the way that she reacts to every situation like a 12 year old...her daughter has twice the maturity and her husband is a DREAM...wonder why they're together...I have my theories...I'm sure you do, too.
What's the DEAL with the countess? Um...hello, why doesn't anybody call her OUT on her highfalutin' "the Count" this, "the Count" that? Pathetic in this day and age...and where the hell did she come from anyway? I'm sure her familee didn't donate the State of L, prolly lived in a double-wide, but she sure does put on a show...and she sure acts like she's from a lineage that aint stinky... Please put her in her place...you're so honest and a great asset to the show. I can tell you have a great heart. Keep rockin! xo GreenwichRichBitchw/xo
Just wanted to say that you make the show! Without you there wouldn't be a show, you are a connector.
But you are so much more, you are the only one on the show that I can say has really done any work on yourself. By work on yourself I am talking about character building work, not superficial stuff like Romona, uh, that poor daughter of hers. You have a beautiful daughter, the only thing I would recommend is that you love her exactly as she is.
We cannot change what we cannot acknowledge, and I think that is where your frustration comes from with the other housewives (and one househusband). Hehe. Because you do acknowledge yourself and who you are and are willing to change any character defects, has brought you the woman you are today. I see a strong woman but not because you shoot everyone else down but because you can rise above everyone shooting you down. It takes a great deal of humility to forgive and you do it graciously. But rather than get so frustrated and infuriated with all those who cannot be evolved such as yourself, understand that everyone is not on your level and it doesn't have to be your job to make them see the light. Just be a light, and people will radiate to it, and want to have what you have.
You were my favorite because you are real without being out of control like Ramona. With all so respect, you react too much to Ramona. Ramona is acting out because of her own insecurity issues. There is some reason why she gets under your skin and I can't put my finger on it. Any time a person reacts in extreme to another's comments, there is usually some other issue that causes that intense reaction.
I wish you the best!!!!
posted on April 24, 2008 at 10:45 PM
Karen wrote:
I have to say that you were one of the kindest people on the reunion special, but it wasn't hard considering the other couch of ladies were so angry. The verbal beating Alex received was not much unlike the physical beating that poor teenage girl in Florida received. Women are always their own worst enemies - and that was proven on the reunion special. However, you rose above it, and I applaud you for it.
posted on April 24, 2008 at 10:55 PM
Melissa wrote:
Jill-
You strike me as the most down to earth, most caring and fun person on the show. You are my absolute favorite! You tell it like it is and don't mince words either. While LuAnn takes her role as countess a little bit too seriously, I like that you take being a "connector" more seriously. People like you help all those around you, and it's the most selfless thing a person could do. What makes it even better is that you do not flaunt your connections. Hands down I think the Real Housewives of New York is a lot more interesting and entertaining than Orange County. I find my mouth wide open for half the show, which is good. Anyway, I love your personality, you're like a friend in my head! Thanks for being you Jill.
posted on April 24, 2008 at 10:59 PM
holly wrote:
Jill,
You are amazing!
You are a lady and will be a lady with our without the money, status, title and all that jazz.
Your heart is true and you are true to your heart.
I wish I could meet you in person, because you are my true role model.
You never hurt anyone, always forgive, help, advise and support.
What more could any friend as for?
I wish you and your family the best.
You deserve everything and then some.
posted on April 24, 2008 at 11:02 PM
Renea wrote:
Jill! We watch because of you! Please come back for Season 2!!!
posted on April 24, 2008 at 11:05 PM
Jill wrote:
Jill,
Love, love, love you, you are my favorite housewife from NY as well as the OC wives, when I think east coast I want to believe all girls are like you!!!!!!
posted on April 24, 2008 at 11:06 PM
Cissy wrote:
Delightful...you truly are. What a neat lady you are. I would love to meet you sometime...you are fantastic! Seems like you and Bethenny are really friends...she is awesome! best of luck to you and your daughter.I was especially interested in the arthritis..and how you handle this with your daughter. You, ma'am, are a lady.
Jill, you are the best. You are way too nice to be friends with Ramona. I hated that she tried to put you on the spot for leaving the LUCA LUCA show. I think she was trying to turn the tables on you for the heat she got about the 'girl's night'. It didn't work, leaving a public event is not the same as a private dinner party.
and she did lie to you about the invite...it seems she was trying to cozzy up to the countess...who said "next time invite Jill too".
You are a fabulous Diva, Yenta, whatever...Please keep being nice and avoid letting Ramona walk all over you....She is crazy and I would hate to be in the same room with her...meanwhile I am dying to meet you!
I am on Team Jill
posted on April 24, 2008 at 11:19 PM
Lynn_In_RI wrote:
I Love You! Simply as that. You kicked ass and took no prisoners. I am going to miss you until you grace my TV screen again next season. Have a great summer. Lynn in RI
Jill - I wrote this same blog yesterday but for some reason, Bravo decided not to put it on your site.
I am totally house bound due to a serious illness; therefore, I would like to thank you for the hours of entertainment. I wrote initially on the 18th setting forth my feelings about the show; stating I would not watch Season 2 if Alex and Simon are on it. If you are not going to be part of it, there really is absolutely no reason to watch. I don't ever blog, but like so many others, you touched me. I was worried yesterday because you had not updated your blog. I thought something might be wrong with you or your family. Do you see the kind of generous feelings you instill in people? What a wonderful quality you bring to all who meet you (personally and via the TV medium).
I understand and appreciate that your family must come first (as it should be) but have you absolutely decided not to participate in Season 2?
My best wishes and prayers are with you and yours.
posted on April 24, 2008 at 11:46 PM
cindy wrote:
you are classy, sweet, generous, honest...a good wife, mom and friend....oops, daughter and sister too.....thanks for sharing with us....
posted on April 24, 2008 at 11:52 PM
cindy wrote:
you are classy, sweet, generous, honest...a good wife, mom and friend....oops, daughter and sister too.....thanks for sharing with us....
posted on April 24, 2008 at 11:54 PM
cindy wrote:
you are classy, sweet, generous, honest...a good wife, mom and friend....oops, daughter and sister too.....thanks for sharing with us....
posted on April 24, 2008 at 11:56 PM
Anna wrote:
Jill,
I love you Jill! You and Bethenny were my favorites. From the get go, I liked you.. and then I liked Bethenny. Luann is cool too, but lost some points for how she treated the driver. I thought you were real, genuine, down to earth, funny, just a class act. You're secure and comfortable in your skin, which is why I think Ramona is so threatened by you. Forget her, she is crazy, a real looney tunes. :) Her dauther is embarassed by her and I don't know how her husband puts up w/her. Ick. Enough about her. I loved how you just kept it real, money or no money.. you brought humor and grit to the show and showed people, wealth doesn't mean you have to fit some cookie cutter mold that "society" expects. You are a class act all the baby! Much love to you and your wonderful family!
posted on April 24, 2008 at 11:57 PM
Anonymous wrote:
your such a nice person.you were one of my favorite houswifes.i just could not stand Ramona she is so rude, im glad im not friends with her
posted on April 25, 2008 at 12:04 AM
Brandy wrote:
Loved you on the show. You seem true to who you are and I love that you call out everyone on what they say and do, especially Ramona. You and Bethany together are just so fun to watch and hope your coming back for another season. I wish you and your famiy all the best and all our prayers to your stepson on speedy recovery.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 12:39 AM
Judy wrote:
Jill,
I too found you to be the most likeable character. I also concur and respect your insight into the importance of your daughter learning the amount of hardwork that goes into maintaining your lifestyle. I laughed until I cried when you and your friend were making the prank telephone calls to her while she was answering the phones.
Your daughter is a beautiful sweet girl and Bobby seems like he is very sweet man and they both are very good sports. It is so obvious that he and the other husbands, with the exception of Simon are doing this because the love their wives and their wives wanted to participate.
You are a jewel and I look forward to seeing you, Bethany and Luann next season!
posted on April 25, 2008 at 12:47 AM
cyndi wrote:
Jill -- you are MY FAVORITE!!! I love your personality and how warm & funny you are on the show. Can't wait for Season 2!
posted on April 25, 2008 at 12:54 AM
Susan wrote:
Jill, you're wonderful. So funny to see the face behind Zarin fabrics. I think my couch and several other pieces are covered in Zarin. You have beautiful sincere eyes. God bless you and your sweet daughter. But that little dog has got to go. (Ok I'm prejudice against Chiwawa's). I'd really like to know the name of that designer you went to. I'm big-chested too (born with it), and it really irks me that all the great designers work up their dresses on models with no boobs. Oh where can I find the name of that designer. Can you post it? I'm in NY... will definitely patronize the place.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 12:58 AM
Julie D wrote:
Hello Jill
OMG your amazing in this show!!
My sister and I went to camp with Ally and when we saw her on TV, we were like "Holy crap!! That's Ally"
Anyway,
You, Bethanny, and LuAnn are my favorites!
posted on April 25, 2008 at 1:12 AM
michael wrote:
Jill, as a 42 yr.old male in Phoenix.......your husband is a lucky guy!
Best wishes for next season.
Michael
posted on April 25, 2008 at 1:17 AM
Linda wrote:
Jill
You are my favorite housewife. Is there going to be another Real Housewives 2? I hope so! You are inspirational.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 1:22 AM
Lada Corbett wrote:
Please Please Please come back for season 2....I refuse to watch it if you are not a part of it...You are the main reason I watched it this time....I love you dearly and in my world, YOU make this show what it is....Please please please.......I Love You....
Lada
Oh, Miss Jill... you are truly an inspiration! You are funny and honest! You appear to have it all, a loving and devoted husband and a beutiful and loving daughter. I must say though, the only fault they showed on TV is that you're friends with Ramona... what is with that woman!!! Other than that minor flaw, I am a "Team Jill" fan through and through!!!
posted on April 25, 2008 at 1:41 AM
Jocelyn wrote:
Jill,
You are my second favorite, to Bethenny, on the show! I absolutely loved watching you two! Y'all's friendship reminded me of me and my best friend! Especially when I was watching you talk to her while she packed! Oh man! My best friend and I laughed sooooo much!
You are a genuine person just like Bethenny! I hope both of y'all are on season two! I would be disappointed if not! I probably wouldn't even watch the show!
Best wishes to you and your family!!!
Jocelyn
posted on April 25, 2008 at 1:49 AM
mama wrote:
I must say all of the children of the New York house wives put the Orange county 'kids' to shame. Much nicer, pleasant and quite mature acting. I'm talking about the older ones of course. (Not Alex and Simon's boys). Jill you have the least comments...take it as a compliment most people didn't have any 'gripes' about you.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 1:50 AM
sarah wrote:
Why so hostile about Simon? I'm not part of the show but I have the sense to know that it may have been to Bravo's benefit for the whole "Alex, Simon, Ramona" none sense to air again.
Don't be a Ramona. You are much better as you.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 1:53 AM
Bev wrote:
Jill, you are great! As I stated to Bethany, it was VERY refreshing to watch you and Bethany.
I think you should know that my perception of you is: if you are their friend then you can definitely count on you for anything! With Jill; What you see is what you get! Way cool! My husband likes you also.
I mean let's face it, you and Bethany are the two upfront, and REAL people on the show! The very reason that many of us turn on to watch!
And please... I also want to know; "why was Simon there?"....He is like a bad penny. He keeps turning up.
Looking forward to Season 2!
Bev
posted on April 25, 2008 at 1:57 AM
Jenn wrote:
I so wish I were friends with you in real life! I really admired you as I watched the show, especially the way you treat your family and friends. I wish you and your family the best. Your stepson is lucky to have you during this difficult time!
Sincerely,
Jenn
posted on April 25, 2008 at 1:58 AM
Jessica S. wrote:
I will tell you Jill what I told Bethanny, I love ya, I love ya, I love ya. I could watch you and Bethanny. You guys had me in stitches! I love how real you two were. I love how you call people out. I think that is great. Can't wait till season 2. Love ya! I am on Team Jill.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 2:01 AM
Angie wrote:
Jill,
I love the fact that you are doing work with the Arthritis Foundation. I was diagnosed with Ankylosing Spondylitis (arthritis of the spine and hips) when I was 8 years old. Arthritis is a terrible disease that affects more people than others realize. I thank you from the bottom of my heart for your contribution to the foundation.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 2:07 AM
Boston Hottie wrote:
Jill,
I have to say....you have a heart the size of NY. You are the most caring and involved person anyone could ever hope for in a friend. You are so kind and always seem to truly be looking for a way to help someone or jump at the chance to do something nice for them. You truly came off with a lot of class. Well done.
I have to say...Ramona. I just cant stand it. There is something medically wrong with her. Psychologically, when you see the white around someones entire iris, that is usually a sign of mania. I hope we arent all using her imbalance for entertainment purposes. But God help you. With friends like that, who needs enemies....or misbehaved chihuahas!!
Love You
posted on April 25, 2008 at 2:07 AM
katie wrote:
Jill! You are the most down to earth out of ALL the housewives.
I'm glad you can stay real and stand your ground when Ramona forgets how to be humane.
Just be yourself. You're good at it.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 2:54 AM
Jen wrote:
Jill, I love, love, love you!! You speak your mind, you are real ... and you treat people the way that you would like to be treated! What I saw of you was a lovely woman who always desired to do the best for everyone that crossed her path, reaching into your depths to give to others! And I love how you loved your dog ... the good, the bad, and the ugly! You ahve a lovely family! Best wishes to you all!
posted on April 25, 2008 at 3:16 AM
Pearl wrote:
You were the greatest!! I love you brutal honesty and admire your success. Your daughter is well grounded that’s to you. The name fit you right… REAL housewife! And disregard what Ramona says about you, after all she a horse on crack!!.. Can you blame her?….ha-ha..
posted on April 25, 2008 at 3:22 AM
Kenny wrote:
Jill I think you are adorable!! I was born and raised on Long Island Oceanside the 6th of the 5 towns. You are everything I remember of my friends moms keep up the good work.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 3:35 AM
Kenny wrote:
Forgot to tell you my friend Julie Budd ( you sound and look like her) lives by you if you ever need an entertainer for your events give her a call
posted on April 25, 2008 at 3:49 AM
Nick wrote:
I liked you at first but you showed your true colors on the reunion show. You couldn't wait to attack Simon & Alex. I believe you ladies are jealous of the fact that they have a very close relationship, unlike you and the other ladies, excluding LuAnn. LuAnn you're pretty cool! Jill, first of all, Simon was obviously there because the producers asked him to be there. Duh! Why didn't you ask the producers or the host that question?
Secondly, for you to say that Alex and hubby are trying to benefit off the show is hilarious, especially when you were on there wearing a "team Jill" T-shirt and donationg 10% to charity. LOL, 10% to charity. What an insult.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 5:38 AM
Nina Boyden wrote:
Hi Jill, First of all, you and Bethany are awesome! You two are my favorite, and I love watching you, like the host said, watching you two is like watching Lucy and Ethel!! Second of all, I do feel like all of you ganged up on Alex and I didn't get that at all. Maybe I missed something, I don't know, but I don't blame Simon for coming out to talk and so what if he did? Whats the big deal about that? And if they want to try and grow into ""HIGH SOCIETY"" so what?? Who gives a ""rats behind""? The rest of you were doing the same thing in your own way, they were just were more blunt about what they wanted out of life and what their goals in life were. At first when I watched the show, it was almost too much for me to handle, they were such ""pseudo intellectuals"" but actually you all were, you all just did it in different styles and in your own way. However, with Alex and Her husband, I felt really bad for them on the reunion show. I felt like they were treated unfairly by the rest of you, I truly do. I wondered to myself if the rest of you were perhaps jealous that Alex has a husband that she is a true ""soul mate"" with. I won't lie, I was jealous watching it. I'm 52, I have been a caregiver
since June 2002, live in a hick town in the Missouri Ozarks, population , maybe 3,000, not sure, don't care. My dad passed on in Feb. and I still live in the family home, that our family has lived in since 1948. Nevertheless, to make my point, it made me a bit envious and jealous watching you women have husbands, and children that are attentive, etc. I say give poor Alex a break. I mean, until we have walked in her moccans, let's let her do her own thing. And if Simon wants to do it with her, let him. Oh, and one more thing, omg,omg,omg,omg,omg,who in the ""F"" does Ramona Petunia think she is? TO WALK OFF STAGE??!!! when the mention of nude photos are mentioned??!!?! I saw those photos and they are not nearly has indecent as Ramona's dancing in that night club that she ""only attended with her girlfriends"" You all need to stop the judging and take a look in the mirror. I felt sorry for Ramona's daughter with the way she acted. Ramona in no way, in no way or shape or form has any right to judge ANYONE on conduct, etc. omg, you all have got me started now and I can't shut up!!!And the weird thing is Alex was my least favorite during the airing of your show, however, I just couldn't stand seeing that poor girl ganged up on like she was on the reunion show!! And that goes for everyone Jill, including ""THE DUCHESS"" I hope there is a chapter in her Etiquette book about ganging up on one guest during a ""girl's night out" OK, I have said way more then I planned on saying, I don't usually even mess with this show. Anyhow, I do wish the best for you Jill, you were my favorite on the show by far. And your husband and daughter are awesome too, and I love your friend too, I'm sorry I can't remember his name. The friend that helps you shop and decorate for your party. I NEED A FRIEND LIKE HIM!!! Have a great summer Jill!!!! """THE SQUIRRAL56"""" from the Missouri Ozarks!!!
posted on April 25, 2008 at 6:46 AM
Tam wrote:
I just finished watching the reunion show where you mentioned that you responded to blogs! I am so excited and hope that I can get some advice from you. I LOVE the housewives show and I am a housewife myself in the deep south. Recently, I have been interviewed for another reality show on Lifetime with a similar theme to the Housewives. I have thick skin, but following your blogs and press reports is brutal! People can be so mean and it amazes me how "serious" people take all of this. After having done in-home interviews I see how easily one can say something stupid or something that is easily taken out of context. Did they use any of the footage from the pre-show interviews? Do you have any advice?
Hi Jill
Your blig brought tears to my eyes, you are one classy lady! I hope this doesn't mean you won't be back assuming there wil be a season 2?? Please don't say that - we need you.
You are the best!
God Bless!
posted on April 25, 2008 at 9:51 AM
Anonymous wrote:
I cried when you said about Ally :--"My FIrst, My Last, My Everything". I waited for you my whole life.
I feel the same way about my kids. I'm so glad you put her and the other kids first. Bravo Jill
posted on April 25, 2008 at 9:52 AM
annie wrote:
Jill - definitely come back for Season 2! You are so funny. We need to see more of Bobby!!!! He's just the sweetest, classiest, nicest man. . . and it's clear he loves you very much. What a great couple!
posted on April 25, 2008 at 10:03 AM
mamcita wrote:
Jill, You rock! I hope that you will return for another season. You are truly an inspirational woman. Thank you for showing us all that you can be a down to earth family woman, and still be funny AND fun! Many happy thoughts to you and your family!
posted on April 25, 2008 at 10:55 AM
MJ in TX wrote:
Jill - I would want you to be my friend anytime! You tell the truth, take charge, and would rather apologize for doing something wrong than do nothing. I can't wait to see you next season. Please know that all the Real Housewives in Houston, TX, love you!
posted on April 25, 2008 at 12:02 PM
Patti wrote:
I just want your team Jill tank. I need a x-small and or small. How can I get one?
posted on April 25, 2008 at 12:03 PM
Sabrina wrote:
Jill,
I just want to say first how much I admire you as a mom, a wife, a daughter, a sister and a fabulous friend. I loved you on this show - you gave it the class and honesty it deserved and am sure it showed the "Real" you.
I am a mom going it alone - with "My first, my last, my everything" in my daughter. She is the love of my life. You give me so much hope in watching the love and respect between you and Bobby (and I would LOVE a gay husband too).
Take care and am so glad your son is healing and getting healthy.
Sabrina
Not a housewife-but mom from TN!
posted on April 25, 2008 at 12:25 PM
Ann Stallings wrote:
Jill, I never thought I would watch another reality show but I was home one day cleaning & thought it would be a good backround. I must say I got into it & was sad to hear about your daughter & son & their ailments. I have a product that is really natures miracle. It is called MonaVie & it is a delicious and evergizing blend of the brazilian acai berry, one of nature's top superfoods-and other beneficial fruits. Developed with philosophy of Balence-Variety-Moderation, MoneVia delivers the phytonutrients and antioxidents you need to maintain a healthy and active lifestyle. People who have taken this product reported the relieve of arthritis pain just to name one. My website is www.thegreatproduct.com/benatural I would love to help you, your children & everyone you know live a full and healthier life. would love to talk with you or through e-mail. Have a wonderful day. Ann
posted on April 25, 2008 at 12:50 PM
Beth wrote:
Jill-
First- KUDOS to you! You are an example of what I want my girls to be! You show a social obligation to your heritage and being an American. At the same time you are soft and caring. Thank you for standing for a cause and not making excuses for it when it is not easy. Next- I truly hope that you all complete an second season. I believe that you have the chance to a platform to reach many people. While that does not have to be the cause in the forefront, you all can show that you are valuable members to our society.
I cant figure out how to put in my URL for you to reply! However, love and blessings to you and your family.
Regards,
Beth
posted on April 25, 2008 at 12:53 PM
Jannette wrote:
Jill,
Why did it bug you that Simon was there? Were you in charge of the reunion? What's the big deal? Wasn't he asked to be there. Don;t you have bigger and more important things to worry about? Seriously? And why did you lie about the fashion show? You didn't want to sit in the second row because Ra-mean-a was in the front row. God forbid anyone think you're beneath her! Tell it like it is. Isn't that what you preach? You were mad because she had better seats than you - boohoo. I can't stand Ramona but come on Jill, pull yourself together. You made yourself look like a toddler throwing a temper tantrum. Have some class. You're so much better than that. Don't be a whiner.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 12:59 PM
Joy - CA wrote:
Jill, you really did provide a lot of enjoyable entertainment and I found many traits in you that were warm & inviting. I enjoyed Bethenny equally as much; however, where I feel you both perhaps cross a line is where you each state you are "brutally honest" but "who am I to judge," while you both proceed to judge rather unrelentingly. There is a difference between being honest and then being brutally honest, where the emphasis is on the brutal part. You & Bethenny were utterly brutal at times, sort of like watching wild dogs rip apart raw meat, and I don't find that in keeping with your other finer qualities nor with being a good role model for Ally. While I rolled my eyes at Alex & Simon's behavior a good deal, at the end of the day they are good people, kind & caring, and I don't understand why all of you can't put more focus there rather than on their negatives.
Aside from that, absolute kudos for continuing to be friends with Ramona as I cannot imagine most people even desiring to do that. There are no words to describe her self-involved, childish, petulant,rude, obnoxious behavior. Oh, I guess there are words!! Best of luck in all your endeavors and hopes.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 1:06 PM
Jennifer wrote:
Jill - I noticed you wearing a pair of sunglasses in an episode that were black with a large gold star on the sides. Who's are they and where can I get them? I love them!!!
posted on April 25, 2008 at 1:14 PM
Mathilda Gritzmacher wrote:
Jill, you are just too much! (and the best). I fully enjoyed your total honesty and down to earth attitude. Hope to see you next season -
posted on April 25, 2008 at 1:52 PM
Cindy wrote:
Jill: I'm writing this because you seem to have a way to speak to Ramona. About her walking off stage when the nude photos were mentioned, please remind her that during one show she was prancing around in a bathing suit and talking with her Playmate friend (playmate=nude!) about MILF's and pole dancing - all in front on her daughter. Then she spoke on camera about meeting Mario and how he'd come up to her asking if she was the one who wore a black g-string with green ruffle and she responded: "Yes, that's me". She seemed so proud! So her moral high ground comes across as hypocritical. Ramona already looked foolish for so many reasons (the age-inappropriate clothing, dancing, physco rudeness, all her lying, and trying to be 30 when she's 50). She doesn't have to like Simon and Alex, but she should at least be civil.
I know everyone gave Simon and Alex a bad time about Simon's involvement over the course of the show and especially the reunion show. But I do have to question that obviously the Bravo filming and editing and production persons included Simon. Doesn't it seem that they, if anyone, had the authorization/power to tell Simon that this is a show about the women and keep him in the perifery with the other husbands?
Thank you for coming back for season 2.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 2:24 PM
Heidi Crist wrote:
You are so funny and enjoyable. You could teach Ramona how to have an opinion without serving people on toast. Heidi C. Griffith In. Go Team Jil!!!!
posted on April 25, 2008 at 2:56 PM
mia wrote:
WOW! I just finished reading blog entries from all the girls and Jill I gotta say, you are truly loved! I hope that makes you proud. You really were genuine and funny and real. The love you show your family and friends is truly awesome. I never detected an ounce of negativity with you and that is hard to do with cameras in your face, I'm sure. Too bad you are not coming back. The rest of the girls could use your presence in their lives. But I suspect you will still have contact with all of them, especially Bethany. You two are a great combination. Take care and I hope your family enjoys some good health and much happiness.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 3:42 PM
Alison wrote:
I don't understand what business it is of yours why Simon was there. Maybe you didn't get an answer to your question because he too thought it was none of your business. You come across as extremely opinionated, in a heavy handed kind of way. Not classy at all. I could go on, but I'm not going to bother. Just one last thing, and I'm trying to be helpful here, you can obviously afford a makeover, I would definitely invest in one. If you had a different hairstyle, shorter and softer, I think you would look younger and more attractive. Also, lighter makeup would give you a more youthful appearance. Seriously, it would take years off. You could come back for series two and wow everyone!
Hi Jill, I have written to each of the other housewives and now it's your turn. I'll start with the only thing that i thought you could have done differently. When asked about leaving the Luca Luca show you said you were not going to sit behind Ramona. You also said that you had confirmed front row seats. After watching you I have no doubt that you had other things going on etc., but I still think you were peaved about the seating, which I don't blame you,if you had made prior arrangements. You should have just stuck with that explanation on the reunion show. No big deal. Now the positive stuff!I found you to be my favorite of the housewives. Ramona talks about honesty, but what she does is not honesty, its mean spirited and just out and out lying. You have the ability to be honest without hurting ones feelings. I like the fact that you remember where you came from and are willing to help others navigate their way through New York experiences (helping Alex and Simon with the school situation). You even said you remember how it felt when you 1st started out. I also appreciate the way you tried to bring everyone together, reguardless of who they were or think they are. Your a great mother, wife daughter, sister and friend. I thought you extended the olive branch to Ramona more times than you probably should have. You always take the high road and that is admirable. I do however think you ought to just cut Ramona loose. She has disrespected you personnally, your home, your guests, and talked about you behind your back.You can only put yourself out there so much and then it becomes fruitless. She obviously doesn't really want you as a friend or she would make some effort. The way she talked about you having no class at the Luca Luca show is beyond me. Everything she critisized you about is her normal behavior, maybe that's how she recognized it. She was just trying to score pts. with LucaLuca. You gave all the parties and get togethers and the 1 time she could have envited you (the cooking party) she deliberately excluded you and threw gas on the fire by enviting Luann. She wasn't friends with Luann at the time, so her motives were obvious. It takes alot of energy to be as spiteful as she is. I don't know why she feels the need to treat you so poorly, but she does. I guess she is just jeolous of you and I can see why. You have a wonderful marriage and family and lots of friends to boot.Your funny and interesting and people enjoy being around you. Instead of resenting you, she ought to take a look at how you conduct yourself and try and emulate you. I'm not saying she shouldn't be herself and try and be you, just that she should look at your good qualities, they are obviously working for you and her way of being in this world is not working for her. I am hoping and praying for a cure for Alli and your stepson's illness's. I heard you were not returning next season, please reconsider. I think it would be a great way to bring awareness to their diseases. Please continue to try and befriend Alex and Simon, I really think they could use a good friend. Even when attacked by everyone, they did show some class, by not retalliating in kind. They didn't once resort to name calling or belittling anyone else. They remained composed at both the reuion and your dinner party. Your a lucky woman to have found such a loving husband. You are beautiful inside and out. GOD BLESS AND KEEP YOU AND YOURS.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 4:05 PM
teamhill! wrote:
i love you jill! i guess you're the most level-headed and classy woman in the show! you know when to talk and when to shut up which is a very respectable trait. i look forward to this kind of reality shows since it inspires me as a housewife to try to be successful and your personality is by far the most inspiring one for me! keep on putting ramona in her place and hopefully you could do the same to bethenny cuz her failed relationships is keeping her close to becoming another ramona which is sad! she compensates her insecurities by attacking people! i appreciated your kindness to alex and simon and their children. that only showed how flexible and level-headed you are! cheers to you and all the best jill! can't wait for more stories about you on season 2!
I love you Jill. Don't change a thing, well except maybe just leave Bethenny alone!
posted on April 25, 2008 at 4:28 PM
Julia wrote:
Hello, Jill!
"Housewives" is a guilty pleasure for me, and one that my husband has begged me to refrain from ever watching again. He asks me, "why would you want to know about those people?" It's surprising to me how your lives and your dramas can suck in an audience, a bit like a soap opera might. Maybe that's why.
It has been said that reality shows are a way for "ordinary" people to feel better about themselves. You know, the 'rich people have troubles, too' attitude. I am grateful that the show has a personality like yours who demonstrates real humanity. I loved the episode when you had lunch with your sister and your mother and all of those powerful and successful women. I think people can really connect with your feelings of 'do I belong here?' and 'do people like me?'. Ramona may give the show a lot of excitement, but you are the person most women would love to have as a friend (or a Mom—how sweet of you to offer that to Betthany!).
Thank you for making it seem like a REAL reality show, and I hope you can continue to keep your composure with Ramona.
Julia
posted on April 25, 2008 at 4:46 PM
Kathy O' wrote:
My first blog comment! Throughly enjoyed you and Bethenny. I totally agreed with Ramona about girls night out, Simon did not belong---he didn't wear a dress as promised! I thought that whole thing was Alex's fault--she is clueless in my book. I am not sure about Luann. At times she seemed snobish and other times very compassionate--jury is out there. New York was so much better than California.
Best of health to all your family.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 5:03 PM
Sara wrote:
Jill I think your fab!! You by far are my favorite housewife of NY, I think your social circle is lucky to have such a great person as a friend. I think it was great you finally let loose and gave it to Ramona, i was waiting for that all season. I do have to say you truly have class because you bit your lip quite a bit when it came to her. Obviously I don't know her, only what T.V portrays but she seems not quite right. Like you said you never know what or who your going to get:) Your family seems very nice as well and looks like you all have a lot of fun together. I hope you come back next season. Again i think you are a great person and it's been fun watching you.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 5:04 PM
joan wrote:
Jill:
I would love to meet you some day - your down to earth and you tell it like it is. I like that in a person. Loved your quick wit and your passion for your family.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 5:06 PM
jada wrote:
Jill,
I read that no one has reupped for the next Season.. Would love to see you and Luanne and Bethenny return - Ramona.. no.. In fact why would she care to after what was said about her on the blogs? She is a nightmare! And Simon and Alex, poor souls, misguided and obviously crazy if they reup.. I am sure they destroyed any social standing they might have had in the first place by such pretentious behavior.
The h Real housewives of orange County were so Orange County( what can I say>? I live in LA!) The loud clothes, the hair, the drinking, the boobs! I was hoping for some intelligent NYC gals. Boy was I embarrassed by Ramona.. As a Nyer, I am saying Ramona is NOT A REAL NEW YORK woman.. she is unsophisticated, loud,and phony..has horrendous manners.. She lacks empathy, is self-absorbed and needs to be the center of attention.. a Narcissist..
My advice would be to stay away form her. YOU do not seem like friends.. friends are so much more than that as you well know.. Best wishes
posted on April 25, 2008 at 5:30 PM
jada wrote:
Jill,
I read that no one has reupped for the next Season.. Would love to see you and Luanne and Bethenny return - Ramona.. no.. In fact why would she care to after what was said about her on the blogs? She is a nightmare! And Simon and Alex, poor souls, misguided and obviously crazy if they reup.. I am sure they destroyed any social standing they might have had in the first place by such pretentious behavior.
The Real Housewives of Orange County were so Orange County( what can I say? I live in LA!) The loud clothes, the hair, the drinking, the boobs! I was hoping for some intelligent NYC gals. Boy was I embarrassed by Ramona.. As a NYer, I am saying Ramona is NOT A REAL NEW YORK woman.. she is unsophisticated, loud,and phony..has horrendous manners.. She lacks empathy, is self-absorbed and needs to be the center of attention..she is narcissistic.
My advice would be to stay away from her. You do not seem like friends anyway,really.. friends are so much more than that as you well know.. Your mom and sister and hubby and daughter are great... you are fortunate. that is what life is about..I can tell you are loved right back. Best wishes
posted on April 25, 2008 at 5:42 PM
Roni Barnicki wrote:
You rock Jill!!! I have enjoyed watching the show and you have such passion and love for people...OK Ramona drives me nuts I can't watch her just don't know how you do it she is such a freak of nature I would have knocked her out for being so disrespectful...You are a strong woman! My friends and I are so Team Jill...God bless you and your family! Thanks for doing the show...
Where can I see the finale.. I missed it and don't have Tivo :(
posted on April 25, 2008 at 6:56 PM
Vicky wrote:
Dear Jill,
You are by far the classiest woman on this show. I have never written on any blog before, but you stood out so much in this show that I had to write. You took some "hits" from the other women over the season and you were amazing in the way you let it roll off and just kept on going.
Thanks for your work for the Arthritis Foundation. I have two forms of arthritis and would have been interested in knowing more about your daughter and her struggles. The little that viewers saw will help all of us with arthritis who hear, "You're so young to have arthrits." or "Was it from a sports injury?"
Many thanks to you and your family.
Vicky
posted on April 25, 2008 at 7:17 PM
miss shrieen butcher wrote:
from England London
Hi Jill
your great what are the others like really no class money cant buy that you come across really honest just wonted to let you no i love the show
posted on April 25, 2008 at 7:31 PM
Marcia wrote:
Jill,
I loved you the best out of all the Housewives!!! You seem to make the room light up. I wish there were more people in the world like you. We really need it. You said Bobby said by to everyone for the last time after the reunion, does that mean you all are not going to have another season???
Best wishes.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 7:43 PM
KT wrote:
I love you! I had alot to say about self absorbed Ramona, a little to say about Alex and Simon, who I also love, but for you I can only say I love you. How you can hold it together with class around Ramona is so inspiring. I love you!!
posted on April 25, 2008 at 7:50 PM
meko wrote:
Jill, Loved the show. Cannot wait for the next season. You and Bobby and Ali were so real..showing the trials and tribulations of a blended family. Your love provides the glue that keeps your family and friends together. You supported Bethenny despite her attack-(and I adore Bethenny) you overlooked Ramona's rudeness and her half apologies and lame excuses. You are the Best! Cannot believe that you described yourself as unpopular in HS. Wow, they missed out!
posted on April 25, 2008 at 7:58 PM
A viewer wrote:
Jill,
You were SO great on the show! You were definitely the most real! I liked how you dealt with Alex - you were fair, and asked appropriate questions. But you also challenged her and Simon to be accountable for their words and actions. I knew Alex when she was in college, and she's just the same now. Even then, Alex was so into her much older European boyfriend that she wasn't interested in friendships with women. It was no surprise to me that she wanted to make her own rules and bring Simon to your dinner party. She prefers the company of men, and always has.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 8:01 PM
Susan Paquette wrote:
Hi Jill,
I truly enjoyed the Housewives. I found you all by accident one day, and have rewatched the episodes many times. I think you are a very loving, and loved person. You are passionate about what you believe in and it's obvious you don't like being lied to, as none of us would.I love the way you cart your "gay husband" Brad all over with you.I understand that Bobby is a more reserved person, but would like to see more interaction with him next season, so as to know the "at home" Jill. Your wit and charm are wonderful to see.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 8:10 PM
Valerie wrote:
I have to say Jill, you are the quintessential New Yorker.IF this Country had royalty you would be our Countess. I enjoyed every minute of watching you, your family and your interactions with the other housewives. You were middle of the road (in a good way) throughout the entire season. You're the only housewife I can say I agreed with at all times. Keep being grounded and down to Earth....its an endearing quality.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 8:30 PM
Joan K. wrote:
Hi Jill,
You have everyone else beat on this show, you are the only real person there, well maybe one or two other girls but you are the best.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 8:31 PM
Bridget Kemling wrote:
Jill,
I have to tell you you're such a good mom. I have R/A and know what you guys are dealing with ,its tought .You & I Bobby are a good match . i think Ramona is a little bio-polar and it seems you on some level must relaize that becasue you contine to be her friend. I can't wait till next season
posted on April 25, 2008 at 8:45 PM
trying to help alli wrote:
This is for allison. I have Celiac Disease and have just read this great book about autoimmune disfunctions. There is a great chapter in it about arthritis. The food you should eat and NOT eat. I know you sent her to a wellness center but you didnt go into detail about her diet. I'm thinking though you said she gained the weight back b/c it was just water weight she lost that this is better for her, hopefully. Anyway check it out. Like me I know when you hear something anything you want to look into it to see if it works or at least helps. Its a not an easy diet but with a mom like you you'll be there for her cooking and buying the right food. I also wrote and asked Bethanny if she had any recipes or suggestions for gluten and wheat free food. The book is THE GLUTEN CONNECTION BY SHARI LIEBERMAN, PHD, CNS,FACN with LINDA SEGALL. Good luck cant wait for season 2. GO TEAM JILL :) !!!
posted on April 25, 2008 at 8:45 PM
Tiffany Barlow wrote:
I love your strong personality! You say it and own it. Anyone can respect that quality. You can look at yourself in the mirror and know that you were honest. Your conversations are never disheartening but just truth. There are a lot of people who dont want to see themselves as to who they really are in this world. Keep the class and taste going. You are a good friend to them all.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 8:54 PM
Ceci wrote:
Jill
You are classier and more intellingent than Ramona, she seems to lack any education
posted on April 25, 2008 at 8:55 PM
kathy wrote:
Jill,
I can't believe that I am responding to this blog except to say that I am so intrued by you and so appreciate your persona.
STILL... I saw the season finale and don't understand why you are donating 10% of the proceeds from the sale of your t-shirt. You obviously don't need the $$ so why not donate the total amount to a worthy cause? Maybe the Arthritis Foundation?
Kathy
posted on April 25, 2008 at 8:56 PM
Kim wrote:
Jill, did your daughter see a Lyme Literate MD & was she tested for Lyme Disease & other tick born co-infections? Curious & hope she's doing better.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 8:58 PM
Teera wrote:
You're so real Jill. That's what I really like about you!
posted on April 25, 2008 at 9:01 PM
Dia wrote:
Jill,
I sat mesmerized by the first show and couldn't wait for the following episodes. You are such as "class act" with all that drama going on. And certainly have the patience of Job to deal with Ra-mean-a. I think you're much more qualified to write about manners and etiquette than the Countess. No presense with you - what you see is what you get. Thank you so much for letting us peek into your busy life. Continued success for you and your family!
posted on April 25, 2008 at 9:07 PM
Jenielle wrote:
I was wondering if any one knew anything about jills daughter and her arthritis.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 9:08 PM
Jessica A wrote:
Jill I am a 33 yr old who had Juvenile Rheumatoid Arthritis From age 5 till about 13. I know have degenerative (Osteo) arthritis and have to have hip replacements probably both and probably a knee also. But all in all i cant complain. I can walk and am fully functional. I am happy to hear your support for the Arthritis Foundation. And I wish Allyson the best. I have weight issues also since a child starting with the medications and all I can say to you and her about that is just try to keep it under control there is no need to be "skinny" men like some meat believe me. Its okay but it puts pressure on your joints as I am sure you already know. Anyway you are a beautiful girl and sweet as pie. I thought u were the most well behaved and respectful child on the show. keep moving keep the joints in motion as much as u can bare. My email if u ever have any questions is Demeter909@aol.com.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 9:08 PM
nikole wrote:
does anyone know what the inseam is on jill's team jill yoga pants?
posted on April 25, 2008 at 9:09 PM
carmen wrote:
Jill,
You set an excellant example for today's young woman...you can be beautiful and independent without being trashy. It is nice to see a woamn acheive sucess without using or showing her body. Go team Jill!!!
posted on April 25, 2008 at 9:15 PM
Sheila wrote:
Jill i really love your way of life i was the same i pretty much bought up myself and i think you were right to be pissed at Ramona she act like she isbetter then everyone else i may be poor but you and Bethanny were funny can not wait to see you next season
posted on April 25, 2008 at 9:17 PM
Louise wrote:
Miss Jill,
Thank you for keeping it real all through the entire Season 1.
What has been the most surprising revelation you experienced since this show aired that you may not have known if you had not "done the show"?
How's your step son doing?
What does your sister think of the show now that it has aired? Any chance you will be a guest with her again on her radio program?
What do you real best friends think of the show?
How long do you think your friendship with Alex will sustain when the camera's are not around any longer?
God Bless to you and your family - hope to see you on Season 2.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 9:18 PM
Nancy wrote:
Just want to know what kind of arthritis your daughter has. I have rheumatoid arthritis and wondered if she has the same. If it's not too personal, what kind of treatment does she take and any advice that has worked for her? Didn't really know where to post this, but thought I would give it a try. Thanks a bunch! Love you on the show!
posted on April 25, 2008 at 9:22 PM
Irine wrote:
Dear Jill,
I really enjoy watching you. I think you are great and your relationship with Bethany is one of the kind.
I really feel that the only real people on the show are you and Bethenny.
Ramona is a really psychopath and talking to her is like beating a dead horse. I understand that it is very frustrating to prove you point to her although the proof is on national TV. It seems like she is a liar and she can not even admit any wrong doing ever. It’s obvious she lied about not inviting you to the dinner at the Hamptons and also she never told you she needs to leave early from your dinner party. She is very selfish and she really doesn’t care about anyone but herself.
Alex and Simon are just ridiculous, Bethany couldn’t describe them better. They were trying to back petal their actions but it’s too late. They are who they are, pretentious and fake and definitely trying to be high society.
Regarding LuAnn, I feel that you know that she loves being a countess too much. I think she mentions it too many times as well and doesn’t let anyone forget who she is.
She married a Count from another country and she sometimes forgets that she is in Unites States of America and we do not have royalty here. All people are equal. She definitely thinks she is royalty, which I find it pretentious.
Regarding the incident with the driver, I felt that by her not shaking his hand and correcting you on how she should be introduced to the driver was very disrespectful to the driver and to you. She holds no regard to people.
After the driver incident she decided to check herself and do some damage control, so she ran to the SOHO project to help a homeless woman. It was a ridiculous show and I am sure people see her for what she is, which is a person who thinks of themselves as royalty and does not have any regard or respect for other people that she thinks are not in the same class as her.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 9:23 PM
Diane wrote:
Jill,
I've seen every episode of the show and I have just watched the rap-up or reunion gathering again. You are my favorite house wife by far because I believe that you are the most "real" individual without too much background baggage or nonsensical issues to contend with and the least amount to gain personally from putting your life out for public scrutiny. Ramona is truly a psycho bee-och. She is definitely like a small child and the most self-centered. Everything revolves around Ramona, yet, like Kramer, you can't look away. She is completely defensive because she has no defense, so she attacks. She purposely lied about the cooking party to you and the Countess simply because she wanted the Countess to herself. Just like a small child...she demands alot of attention. Keep her in check....
posted on April 25, 2008 at 9:25 PM
jenn wrote:
I am disappointed- i would have loved a team jill t- shirt but you din't make them in plus size ...
posted on April 25, 2008 at 9:42 PM
shandi wrote:
Hi Jill Zarin... I just love who you are and your honesty.. Your fun loving and don't take no crap, the very least a real friend owes you is honesty and loyalty, I like Ramona but I dont think she knows what a REAL friend is and thats so sad.. Anyway if your ever going to make a apperance in central Florida i would so love to meet you..
Shandi
posted on April 25, 2008 at 10:02 PM
Brielle wrote:
Hi Jill! You are so fabulous, thank you for a great season, I certainly hope you come back for more. You are a such strong person and it shows, and now you have all of Manhattan rooting for the health of your son. And your daughter is so beautiful, she should act. Take care and thanks for being a real rolemodel. Love you!
posted on April 25, 2008 at 10:03 PM
Anonymous wrote:
I would much rather watch you than Ramona. You seem to be a very honest and nice person. I was surprised that you're leaving. Ramona should leave...she only makes a fool of herself and sadly, she doesn't even know it. Goodluck to you and your family. I will miss watching you on the show.
I saw the rerun today of the Girls Night Out episode. There are so many faulters there during that episode that I observed, that it's really not fair to put the blame on anyone, yet everyone is to blame.
First I think it's unfair to the other husbands who did not attend the girls night out dinner to have one husband attend. If one husband is allowed the priviledge than all should have the same prividedge.
Next when it was understood that Simon was to actually attend, it would have been in all fairness to warn the rest of the group beforehand that he would be attending. It wasn't fair to the other females expecting to come to one function and finding another entirely different situation.
But in life nothing is perfect and sometimes things turn out as we would not expect it. Some women just grit their teeth and make the best of a bad situation without saying a word. Some women just go along but have viscious things to say behind others back about the bad situation, placing blame and judgement on others. I say Being prepared for any situation that life throws us whether pleasant or not, enables us to comport ourselves with dignity and acceptance.
You have the ability to sustain your composure and elegance in the worst of situations as you so demonstrated time and time again. That is what most evolved and mature adults ascribe to. Your mother taught you well. And you've picked up some still along the way as well through this journey we call life. You clearly have principles in which you live by.
Next case in point is that we learn from our mistakes, this was clearly a mistake to allow Alex to take control of your dinner party by her requesting her husband to attend an all female event. You can't fault a person for trying to manipulate a situation to accomodate their agenda. But you don't have to give that control to them, and you don't have to give up your power. I remember you saying in your talk to the camera that you didn't know what to say to Alex that you couldn't tell Alex not to bring Simon, but I beg to differ. I hope you realize now that you most certainly could have and should have said to Alex that it was your and bethenny's intention to host an all female dinner party. Saying it in a loving and gentle way, but affirming your stance and control of the party. When you're the host you most certainly can set the tone of your party and what you want to create for it.
As far as the other women who knew Simon was coming, it was apparent that they were all laughing and poking fun behind Alex's back before they even arrived to your apartment. It was misleading to Alex saying that he could come, then talking badly about her and her husband behind their back.
I know that we gossip because it can fun, but really gossiping is a negative engery and can only bring negative engery to the gossipers.
I think this show for you can absolutely be a growing experience. For we cannot change what do not acknowledge.
It takes a great deal of humility to forgive, but forgiveness is the backbone to healing, without it we cannot grow. And you've shown us how to grasciously forgive others who have hurt us.
Rather than get so frustrated and infuriated with all those who cannot be evolved such as yourself, understand that everyone is not on your level and it doesn't have to be your job to make them see the light. Just be a light, and people will radiate to it, and want to have what you have.
Best wishes for your whole family and espcially to your very special daughter, good work Jill!.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 10:16 PM
Brielle wrote:
Hi Jill! You are so fabulous, thank you for a great season, I certainly hope you come back for more. You are a such strong person and it shows, and now you have all of Manhattan rooting for the health of your son. And your daughter is so beautiful, she should act. Take care and thanks for being a real rolemodel. Love you!
posted on April 25, 2008 at 10:19 PM
Rachel wrote:
Thank you so much for calling Romona a "moron".
I have thought that from episode one. I give you
kudos and i must say out of all of the housewives
you are by far my favorite.
:]
posted on April 25, 2008 at 11:30 PM
Becky wrote:
Jill - This is a first for me! I have never responded and/or written to any show before now, but after watching the reunion show and reading your blogs, I felt compelled to do so. After watching the Orange County version (after all, I was born and raised down there, but fortunately now live in the SF Bay Area), I had to laugh uncontrollably since they truly portrayed the housewives for the shallow, selfish, and self-centered money-seeking individuals that they are! I was so looking forward to the NY version, since I've been to NYC several times when working,and absolutely love that City. I'd move there if I could, but I don't think I can convince my husband that the winters in NY aren't so bad (compared to the weather in California???).
All that being said, I thought that you were definitely the epitome of a NYC housewife, not necessarily a "socialite", since I'm still not sure if that is a putdown or not! But, I do believe that you, out of all of the other housewives, truly represent NY for what it is ---- upfront, tell-it-like-it-is with no apologies, but doing it with the utmost class and even with a great sense of humor. Given that we only see what the producers want us to see, it's hard to make harsh judgments of the others. But after watching the reunion show, my mind is definitely made up about Ramona - not surprising! I can only hope that she takes some lessons from her daughter before it's too late or she will turn Avery into a stepford-NYC housewife like herself! Either that, or instead of investing in skin treatments so she feels comfortable wearing dresses that are 2 decades too young for her (!), she should take some time to get therapy to salvage what's left of her marriage and her daughter.
I'm sorry you won't be there for next season, but hats off to you for deciding (rightfully so) that family is much more important than getting "face time."
I'm hoping to find time to stop by Zarin Fabrics when I'm there this Fall to see you, Bobby (what a great guy he is to put up with all of that bulls***), and Ginger. I'm sure she'll be "trained" by then! My only regret is that I can't convince my true love to move East; I'm sure I would have much better success with my gift basket business with friends like you and your "gay husband" and "friends" than I have right now!!
Stay true to yourself! Thanks for making me laugh. I had spinal surgery earlier this year and it literally hurt to watch you guys on TV!
posted on April 26, 2008 at 12:43 AM
karen wrote:
Jill, you are madly loved. TRUTH TRUTH TRUTH and more truth...hahhahaha Your every assessment is perfect and your every response is priceless. You are a 1 hour vacation. You handle it all perfectly. It is the glue of you that is making the entire show radiate.
I hope all is getting better with the FAM!
Enjoy yourself. You deserve this.
From a Jersey girl stuck in lovely Upstate ... God, I am so bored up here; you have no idea.
posted on April 26, 2008 at 1:26 AM
Laura wrote:
Jill, I have made a comment on every other wives blog that contained either criticism or support, and saved you for last. Why? Because I have no criticism whatsoever to make of you! I don't like to be critical, but I felt so bad for Alex and Simon I had to call everybody out on their cruelty and hypocrasy. You, however, stand head above everbody when it comes to class, including the Countess! You should be the one writing a book about class! You truly seem like a wonderful, positive, caring human being. I'm counting on YOU Jill, to teach everyone else on the show next season how to be classy and be respectful of Alex and Simon, even if they are joined at the hip, have an unfinished house, or overdulge their children. Don't tell me you don't overinduldge YOUR children, husband, friends, even your dog. It's just called love, having a big heart, and I know you do. And with all of that class, you are humble as well! God Bless you and your family, and I hope your son is well!
posted on April 26, 2008 at 1:34 AM
Katie wrote:
The funniest part of the entire season was at the reunion when you said "Cher, call me! Call me Cher!". I laughed my ass off.
posted on April 26, 2008 at 1:43 AM
Sandra wrote:
Jill,
You're the yenta/Mother Theresa ... and you're terrific! Love your accent. By far the best one on the show!!! Hope to see you back for more seasons. Good luck and health and happiness to you and your family!
posted on April 26, 2008 at 3:01 AM
Linda wrote:
Jill,
I just finished watching the reunion show. I think they should get rid of Luann, Alex and Ramona(she's way to scary for me) and just make it "The Jill and Bethanny Show" the two of you are just to funny. The clip of you two going back and forth was great, THANKS for the laugh!!!
Speaking of the reunion show, there was another part of the show that busted me up. I don't know if you have seen the show yet or even if you have I just have to point out this part. When Simon and Alex were asked about the nude pictures, did you happen to notice the ever so graceful way Ramona got up from the sofa??? A woman who claimed to know the true meaning of "class" gets up from the sofa with her legs spread apart. Not good!!! The fact she had to leave because she didn't like the talk of the nude photo's and pulled something like that. "CLASSY move there Ramona" Did she find the rest room???
I look foward to next year!!! I hope Ally and your stepson are doing well. They are lucky to have you!!!
p.s. I'm will be a first time grandmother this summer. Congrats!!
Linda
posted on April 26, 2008 at 7:35 AM
jay wrote:
Jill
You are the classiest woman on the show because you are real,i just don't know how you put up with that fruitcake ramona
posted on April 26, 2008 at 8:28 AM
laura wrote:
Dear Jill
It is plainly obvious that Ramona is not well mentally. Therefore I can truly understand you forgiving her for her actions. It does not due anyone any good to bash her, everyone should wish her well. You truly are an incredible woman, like your mother and your daughter is an incredible woman like her mother! Wishing you and your nothing but happiness and love. Look forward to seeing you in Season 2.
Laura
posted on April 26, 2008 at 9:07 AM
Laura wrote:
Jill!!!! I really hope you are back for another season of the Real Housewives! I LOVED you and Bethenny on the show! You two really do make it with your humor and comments!
I will definitely miss you if you aren't on season 2! :(
You were my favorite. I felt like inviting you to my beach house for a glass of wine and laugher. Hope you come back.
posted on April 26, 2008 at 10:26 AM
Dora wrote:
Jill,
You and Bethany are by far my most favorite to watch!
You both are so funny and entertaining! I just love watching the two of you together. I can not wait for season 2. Team Jill all the way!!!
Hi Jill, I just wanted to say that I love you and think you are such a doll and a beautiful person. I just hope that you will be back next season because you are the one I enjoy watching the most. I love that you are so sincere, kind, and honest. I don't understand how you could even want to be friends with Ramona or even extend any enery being her friend because she is not deserving of a friend like you. She doesn't think beyond herself and is very self centered. By the way, I love your hair. Take care and the best to you and your family.
posted on April 26, 2008 at 11:56 AM
Sarah O wrote:
Jill,
You mentioned your stepson on the show and I wanted to write and tell you that he should go see
Dr. Kenneth Liegner in Armonk, NY- he is expensive but worth it. I have wanted to write you before about
your daughter. My daughter had arthritis and that turned out to be Babesiosis, a tick borne disease like Lyme disease. There are many TBDs that even expert rheumatologists do not know about- there are strains of Babesiosis, strains of Anaplasmosis, that can test negative. MDs will sincerely tell you it can't be Lyme or other TBDs but often they know little about it- a good site for TBD expertise is ILADS.org I would really urge you to get your stepson and Ali evaluated by a TBD expert- Kenneth Liegner or Richard Horowitz are both excellent- Liegner is in Armonk, NY. The tests for these diseases are not accurate- false negatives are common. My daughter is in full remission and has no pain and hasn't for years- it is great. It is MORE than great.
Often people in the same family get infected- not just because of shared tissue types which is a factor- not in your case as your stepson & Ali are step related, not blood- but also because of shared physical geography and exposure to ticky areas. All of NY is a ticky area- including the Hamptons!
I enjoyed your spirit very much and hope you will
do another year of the show.
Take care,
Sarah O.
Aptos, CA
1-831-662-2895
(I do a TBD hotline from my home phone for Californians, so you or anyone reading this who suspects a TBD is free to call)
posted on April 26, 2008 at 11:58 AM
Kathleen wrote:
Jill,
You are without a doubt my favorite person on the show. You are honest, without being hurtful, kind and seem like the type of person who would give the shirt off your back. Ramona is rude and hurtful and she did LIE about the cooking party. It was obvious she didn't want you there and I truly believe she is just a jealous wretch. I also really enjoy your interactions with Bethany---what a riot! Can't wait to hear and see more about you.
posted on April 26, 2008 at 12:16 PM
Nicole wrote:
Jill,
You are by far the most genuine and grounded person on the show. You are a loving mother, wife, sister,daughter, and friend. I loved watching you and often wished some of the other ladies would take a page from your book in how to relate to others. Your genuine care for friends and family showed and I think you have every reason to be proud of how you live your life. While you have financial wealth it is also apparrant that you have a wealth of character as well. Were I to appear on such a show I would hpe that iwould see in myself the traits you displayed. as for the definition of class...I think you are it. Looking to seeing you in season two.
Nicole from Chicago
posted on April 26, 2008 at 12:27 PM
J wrote:
Jill,
I thought you were great ... however, if ever there were a time for you to walk away or out of something it should have been when B threaten to stab you in the eye with chop sticks. It appeared that everyone at the table were appalled by that statement.
posted on April 26, 2008 at 12:33 PM
Helena wrote:
Jill,
Why not admit that you do care about sitting front row? Jill your "Team Jill" yoga pants are on fire. Your calendar may be full because you spend money at the charity events etc and I think you're a laughingstock amongst the real "socialites of NYC" who'd never invite you to an intimate dinner party. You're loud and gauche.The next time you're not invited to a small dinner party, please don't whine. You're not that popular and it's ok. Life goes on. Without you.
posted on April 26, 2008 at 12:51 PM
Jackie wrote:
Jill
You are my favorite on the show you keep it real and you care. If I was you i will surround myself with real friends. Ramona makes the ugly in you come out so she is too insecure person with double personality. She has so much growing to do i cannot believe that she runs a business when she does not know how to communicate. Jill don't change always keep it real that is what makes you stand out.
posted on April 26, 2008 at 1:36 PM
Bryan wrote:
Definitely an LA member of Team Jill!!! Love you! I'm moving to NYC in the fall! Find me an apartment!
posted on April 26, 2008 at 2:21 PM
Zak wrote:
Of the five women on the show, I was impressed by JIll the most. Here's a wealthy woman and socialite, but she's very down to earth in the sense that she doesn't wear her status like a badge. She never came across that way to me, as I viewed the show. In that respect... she seemed the most grounded of the group. I remember when being interviewed by her sister about "isn't that a bit like keeping up with the Joneses?", her response was perfect... stating that yes, that was probably true in the begining, but now I don't feel compelled to keep up with the Joneses, "I am the Joneses!" And, it wasn't said in a conceited way. It was just a simple way of saying, I don't still feel the need to pursue being like the Joneses, I've acheived my level of success... and I'm very comfortable with where I am at this point in my life. To me... that response was very succinct, honest and "real." And, i fell in love with her... immediately.
posted on April 26, 2008 at 2:27 PM
JT wrote:
Wow - saw you in the reunion and WOW! you look very HOT
You were always glam for me (gay guy) but you ooozed sexuality (in classy way) in that reunion
GREAT JOB, HOt Mamma!
posted on April 26, 2008 at 3:58 PM
Laura wrote:
Jill...Jill....Jill...hahahahaha...you are the kind of woman I could call a "real friend." I am so impressed with your honesty, your passion for life, your humor and, especially, your genuine love & concern for the people in your life. You have a spontaneous generosity about you...I saw it! I only wish I could sit down and talk to you. We could compare notes about life in New York and LOUISIANA...the heart of Cajun Country. You would love it and we would love you! Be at peace! Laura
posted on April 26, 2008 at 4:04 PM
gail grant wrote:
Jill is the Bomb! I love the way she speaks her mind she is the kind of woman you would like to has as a big sister or best friend you can go to her and she'll lays it on the line.I wish actully knew her so she could keep me in line. And her husband seems perfect for her
posted on April 26, 2008 at 4:11 PM
Karen wrote:
I am definitely on your side when it comes to your bud Ramona. She is soooooowound up!!!!!!She constantly makes a fool out of herself with her comments and actions. She does not have any class or style when it comes to her wardrobe and behavior. I don't understand how she landed her hubby he seems like an alright guy.
Jill, You seem like a down to earth type of person. Alex and Simon do not belong with you and the rest of the cast.
posted on April 26, 2008 at 4:15 PM
Sofia wrote:
Yes, Jill, I do believe you were the best one on the show. I really admire you and I'm definately on Team Jill!!!!!!!
posted on April 26, 2008 at 4:22 PM
Kayshauna L. Thompson wrote:
Dear Jill,
Throughout this season I have grown to love and appreciate ur personality and charisma. U always put ur family first and aalways try to be a helping hand to others. That is what is most important... family, friendship, humbleness. That is probably why u r so blessed and the others (Ramona and LuAnn) have problems connecting with the outside world. (Because believe me, ur lifestyle is one that everyone would love to have.) I honestly wish I could invite u over for a glass of Reisling, u r just such a joy. (Dont worry my house doesnt look like Alex's, lol. Much, much cleaner!)I will be praying for u and ur family and hopefully, you will change ur mind about Season 2. Jill U R THE BEST. Continue to be the blessing that u r to the world! Smooches! xo
posted on April 26, 2008 at 4:30 PM
Becky wrote:
Jill,
I really enjoyed watching you. It seems like you'd welcome anyone you liked into your fold--not just the affluent--and that's really great!
About Bethenny's "skewer in the eye" comment: I think she might've been trying to stop you from going toward the "maybe next time it'll be a ring" conversation. Just guessing, but she seemed uncomfortable talking about that stuff in front of Jason, and maybe it's a sore spot with him.
Re: Ramona...she's so erratic and unapologetically rude! I get the sense that you really don't like her very much, and wish you'd've said so, even if "owning it" might've made you look bad. (I don't think so--she's just a shrew!)
I hope you are back next season. I like your positive energy and willingness to laugh at yourself. Best of luck to you and your family, and I will be keeping your daughter and stepson in my thoughts and hoping they are well.
Thanks for sharing yourself!
posted on April 26, 2008 at 4:35 PM
Ksmitty wrote:
Jill,
You rock. I love the advice your Mother gave you in the car. You can tell she had a terrific influence on you. Honestly, I dont blame you for walking out of the show. You were outfitted in his design - it must of been humiliating. Also, I loved when you beat Ramona in tennis..
posted on April 26, 2008 at 4:43 PM
Angela wrote:
Jill,
You and Bethany were my favorites. Ramona reminds me very much of a squirrel wearing a blond wig - what's with that. I am glad that you two kept them honest at the reunion show. Alex and Simon are too strange for words. As for class - I am not sure how to define it - but the honesty, humor and intelligence that you and Bethany exhibited through the show has to qualify. All my best.
Angela
posted on April 26, 2008 at 4:52 PM
Lisa wrote:
Hey Jill...What is the Jewish term for 'saint'? You are one to deal w/ Ramona (Rameana)! You exude tact, class and humor. I was SO glad you won the tennis match. TELL ME IT ISN'T SO....please come back for Season 2! I just love your New York accent! By the way, every girl needs a gay male best friend (husband). Mine surely has better fashion and decorating skill than I.
Lisa
posted on April 26, 2008 at 4:56 PM
Angie wrote:
Hello Jill, I really love your honesty about how you feel about people and their actions. I have two things in common with you. The first is your beautiful daughter and dealing with with her rheumatoid arthritis and your stepson and his Stills disease. I was shocked to hear you say that your stepson had Stills Disease. I am a 49 year old female and was diagnosed 2 years ago with Stills Disease, as you well know most people has never heard of the disease. The disease attacks my muscles and joints. This disease has changed my life so much for the good and the bad. May God bless you and your family much health and happiness.
posted on April 26, 2008 at 4:59 PM
Caligirl wrote:
Jill-Please quit shilling your crap on the websites. You do not need more money, and besides it makes you look a lot like Ramona.
I do not think you are mean and backstabbing like Ramona and Bethenney. I think you are weak and sometimes shallow and very insecure, though. When you notice something wrong you don't say anything. You need to get more self-confidence. Example: When the other "ladies" were insulting Alex about her house-you were the only one who didn't chime in. Kudos. But, you didn't say one word in her defense either. This happened quite a bit in the series. LuAnn was the one to bring Ramona in line at your party when it should have been you.You are too much into the whole society and pretentious stuff. You have it in you to be a better person than all that.
posted on April 26, 2008 at 5:06 PM
LJ wrote:
Jill, you are a really nice hypocrite. You totally lied about NOT being upset at sitting behind Ramona at the fashion show. The two of you deserve each other. It is no wonder that the more refined LuAnn and Alex got along better. Just because some people have elegant mannerisms DOES NOT mean they are snobs. A truly secure woman would not be threatened or made to feel uncomfortable because someone can speak a foreign language. YET turn around and criticize them for not traveling in the PROPER SEASON- even quoting the PRICE OF THE ROOMS! Whose a SNOB now! Oh and a truly nice person would not offer to help someone get their child into a prestigious school and turn around and call them a Socialite Wannabe for doing so. All I have to say is one of your faces is very nice, BUT that other one is NOT!
posted on April 26, 2008 at 5:13 PM
Lisa wrote:
You are such a neat woman! You, Bethany and LuAnn are my favorite wives. I don't do reality shows, and I couldn't watch the Housewives of OC (I have a vacation home in Lake Havasu - somebody needs to tell Califonians that they forgot there manners). I needed to watch women with some class. With a one exception, I think that four of you have that. It was nice to see the dynamics of the all five women's relationships and how it matchs to the other four women that I hang out with. All the love, struggles, fights, hugs and laughter is there no matter where the place. I really look forward to seeing you next year! Hey, see if you can get Bravo to do a "Win a Trip with the Housewives in your area to meet the Housewives of New York City" That would be fun!!!
I just finished watching the episode where you go to your sisters house and you said you were from Woodmere.
Did you go to Lawrence and if so what year did graduate? You semm very familiar to me and you are the only real person on the show.
posted on April 26, 2008 at 6:14 PM
Vicki wrote:
Jill,
I love you. You are stunning, smart, funny and just a pistol. You remind me of myself minus a tv show and all your money. You and Bethenny are awesome. Hope to be watching season 2.
posted on April 26, 2008 at 6:50 PM
Meggie wrote:
Jill as a former New Yorker you are such a breath of fresh air, you say what you think and are so open I love it. I lived in NY actually on LI for many years, you go girl. Love how you are so independent and honest. Bravo to you.
Meggie
posted on April 26, 2008 at 7:08 PM
Shel wrote:
Jill, you are great on TV!! I loved watching your & Bethany's opinion. You two are way better than Laverne & Shirley!!! And liked that show way back when...
I absolutely don't blame you about Ramona - she was way out of line.
God Bless & take care!! I hope to see you on season 2, providing there is a season 2...
posted on April 26, 2008 at 7:18 PM
lynn wrote:
Jill,
You were the most "real" of all. I loved your segments, and loved the show
posted on April 26, 2008 at 7:20 PM
Deana wrote:
You are by far my favorite 'Housewife'. If I were you, I'd tell Ramona to take a hike. She seems like such a useless person. The only negative thing I really have to say about you is that I'm suprised you joined in on the berating of Simon and Alex. I agree with alot of the points made at the reunion show. But it wasn't fair for everyone to come down on them like that. I would have expected you to defend them. Team Jill!!
posted on April 26, 2008 at 8:13 PM
Hilary Levine wrote:
Jill, Loved the show!!! My mother and I couldn't get enough. I also come from people where it may not be pretty but it is what it is ~ own it...oye Ramona, enough said!
I am a decorator and am passionate about fabric, before babies worked for R. Allen. Weeks ago when my husband was in NYC for business I just had to go to the Lower East Side and take a look. (when I called my mother from the cab she just about fell down). The whole thing was so surreal...David was very nice. You have the most beautiful and impressive selection! I'd love to shop there for upcoming projects. Can't wait for season 2.
My heart and thoughts are with Jonathan....
Hilary - Color Wheel Design Co
posted on April 26, 2008 at 8:22 PM
Eileen Morrissey wrote:
Dear Jill,
You mentioned that you are involved with the, "Arthritis Foundation". I don't know if you are familiar with Dr. T. Colin Campbell's work, "The China Study". I heard him on a radio show called "Coast to Coast AM", It aired on Dec. 3, 2005. Dr. John McDougall and Dr. Neal Bernard, in my opinion, are also two Physicians that I would check out. I hope this is helpful for your daughter and your family. Take care. Sincerely Eileen
posted on April 26, 2008 at 8:29 PM
Jay-Jay wrote:
I have total respect for you. You are one stand up lady. You keep it real. I admire you for that. I hope to see you in the 2nd season. I also want to let you know that I am quite sadden to hear about your son's health. I wish you and your family the best.
P.S. I would have done the same like you if I had to sit behind that person I wasn't liking that week. So need to to explain yourself, I think all the viewers "got that".
posted on April 26, 2008 at 8:38 PM
Marge in Charleston, SC wrote:
Jill! You are so famously adored down here in southern belle land! We all want a luncheon with you! I liked your sister as well! I really wanted you to punch Ramona for me! Verbally, that is! How much class you have over tinsel toes tacky! I think you deserve a show all your own. Come on down to Charleston, SC and let us regale you with questions and queries! Bring your lovely daughter! She is an upandcoming. Bring your MaMa! Come on Down!
posted on April 26, 2008 at 8:47 PM
Angela wrote:
Hey Jill,
The reunion show cemented a lot of things. What a shame Ramona didn't take the opportunity to redeem herself. Bethanny has FINALLY shown her less abrasive side. The Countess is, well, the Countess. And Alex? She's less than doomed - she's hopelessly common.
As for you - I remain impressed. People take offense when you stand up to their nastiness, but you always come out on top.
Ally - you have an awesome mom. Bobby - you have an amazing wife. Hope to see all of you next season.
Angela
posted on April 26, 2008 at 9:01 PM
Sharon C wrote:
I am a professional woman in my mid forties from Boston and have traveled to NYC quite a bid. I truly loved this show and all the intersting woman. I have always accepted people for what they are as each person is different and variety is the spice of life. I am hopeful the ladiees will allow us a 2nd season !! and it comes FAST. Thanks for such a great season !!
posted on April 26, 2008 at 9:43 PM
mariko bradley wrote:
dear jill you are one of my favorites I love your frankness and loving nature, you are truely a woman of class and devotion to your family and friends. anyone who has you for a friend should count their blessings,thank you for showing everyone watching the real housewives ny that people who have your wealth also have a loving and kind soul and are not totally caught up with the wealth. may god bless your stepson and give you all strength during these trying times. I know about life threatening illness I was diagnoised with stage three breast cancer 3years ago and I am a survivor I have had my left breast removed and am still struggling with the emotional stress and feelings of not being whole. So keep the faith your daughter is adorable and of course so are you.
Dear Jill,
someone else wrote:
(i wanted to comment on her post)
"Jill,
Someone needs to tell you that "Team...Whatever" is soooooo yesterday. You just appear stupid by keep saying it over and over and over and over and over. The whole concept is over and over and over. That just shows how out of touch with reality you and the entire cast is ...."
posted on April 24, 2008 at 8:50 PM
blah, BLah, bLaH...
I plan on buying one..especially when I heard a portion of the proceeds are going to charity! I was reading through and saw this post and thought it was so ironic. I found it humorous that someone who is talking about how much she despised the show...took the time to comment on your blog. How lost and broken you will be from her proclaiming not to watch season 2. Speaking of...
Read in another post that you aren't going to be a part of Season 2....hope this is incorrect.
You and Bethany are perfect chemistry and a joy to watch! I love your firey personality and I wish I was more assertive like you! You all seem so confident and beautiful. In fact, I imagine that your confidence is part of what makes you all so beautiful...a little part ;-)
I love watching shows with such intelligent and confident women. As a young-ish 30 something...lol...I find it very inspiring!
I'm usually quite the opposite but maybe I will pick up some pointers from you girls!
That's why you HAVE to come back next season!
Hope the family is well and that your step son has gotten better!
Have a great summer!
e.
posted on April 26, 2008 at 10:18 PM
Tracey wrote:
Jill, you are truly wonderful. You are honest but you sugar it with love, laughter and joy. I love that you called Ramona out. Ramona is truly someone that would drive me crazy.
posted on April 26, 2008 at 10:35 PM
Anouska wrote:
I have to admit it: at first I thought you were the absolute NYC stereotype. Your voice, your personality..but I've really warmed to you. You may always want to have the last word, but that's because you ultimately want to make sure everyone is loved and taken care of. If there's one vibe I've gotten from you it's warmth and love. It's a rare gift in this world anymore. You even have the grace to actually want to be around Ramona after her tactless behavior on numerous occasions. If that's not winning you points in heaven I don't know what would. Your daughter is so unassuming and sweet, a real doll. You have obviously raised her well. The other children on the show seem like little divas and divos in training. Thanks to your humor and loving nature, you've made the show much less shallow and more fun to watch.
posted on April 26, 2008 at 10:50 PM
Caroline wrote:
I was mortified at the way you all treated Alex and Simon on the show. Like a pack of hyenas, showing their teeth, and getting ready to eat the wounded prey. You all kept just beating them to death. Okay, we all know they are a bit pretentious. So what? Why'd you all have to embarrass them so much on national tv? True class would have been to let them off easy and have some dignity. They never did anything mean to any of you and yet you could not do the same in return. I think we all know now who may just have the most class.
posted on April 26, 2008 at 11:18 PM
Danielle wrote:
Hey Jill. You are my favorite NYC Housewife! I'm visiting New York City for a couple of days. I can tell why you love it so much here. I can't get over how awesome it would be to actually live here. My dad and I were down at Times Square last night and I saw a yellow Ferrari pass by and I was like "Dad that might be Jill." lol who knows it probably wasn't but just to think that it could have been is cool. Well maybe I will get lucky and see you walking down the sidewalk while I'm here. If not gave a great summer and can't wait to see you in the next season!
posted on April 26, 2008 at 11:27 PM
Rita wrote:
Jill your honesty is so funny to me. I have always been the one that you either like or you don't, because of my honesty or my option on things. It was nice to see someone else out there that is on the same wave length. I also loved how you are making a point to show your daughter that if she wants to continue to have the life style that she is accustomed to, she will have to work for it. I am raising daughters myself and I drill that in there heads everyday. Especially when you see so many women today depending on a husband, boyfriends or whom ever to take care of them. You are great! Keep doing what you are doing and have a great time. My prayers are also with you and your family in regards to your stepson's illness. Remember god never gives you more then you can bare. Be strong, you have friends out here that are praying for you and your family.
posted on April 26, 2008 at 11:35 PM
caroline wrote:
jill, you by far are the best on the show. you and your jersy accent are hatericall. your daughter, alley, is gorgeous, your dog, is so funny to watch. i would kill to see a season 2 of the real houswives of new york city!!! i don't are what anyone says, you rocked this show, my mum is like in love with you, bobby is soo funny, brad( your gay husband) was sooo funny, and sounds like a good stylist! and last but not least alley, is soo cooll, i am 13 and would love to meet here and luanns daughter victoria.. thanks and best of luck to you in the future!!!
:)
I Love you Jill. I just bought 2 t-shirts for your charity. You are like me, honest, charitable, compassionate & strong. My cat licks my ear and I love it! Don't stop getting affection from anywhere you can get it!. Ali is so great! All I see is what is on tv, but you made me laugh so hard when she was working there! I almost pee'd my pants (I'm going to be 46 in July and I don't need depends yet, but that was close). I don't know if you really read all of this but I think Ramona is Bi-polar. There is something about her eyes - you never see the white's of someones eyes unless they are manic or on drugs. You handled yourself with composure, tact... but were strong. I can't believe I am actually writing this, but, I think you are great! I went to NY last November, and coming from Seattle, I was a little afraid. I had the most wonderful time!! I love NY! I can't wait to go back!! Probably would never happen, but I would love to meet you some day. My son's Godmother is the mother in law of the musical producer of Saturday Night Live(Leon Pendarvus) - Jill Armsbury is his wife and and my adopted little sister that has been battling lung cancer(Mesothelomia). She's amazing! Jill still sings and if you ever want something latin, Jill is the one!. Especially after the strike. If you can help my friend Jill, I would appreciate it it, but she can't know. Jill, you are amazing. I don't know if I will ever meet you, but it was a pleasure seeing you and your honesty. Most Sincerely, Shirene Rabideau (shirenerabideau@comcast.net) ps. I meant what I said, when I will donate hand blown glass items to your charity! Shirene
posted on April 27, 2008 at 12:53 AM
Kathleen wrote:
Growing up an Irish Catholic in Brooklyn, I had many, many wonderful Jewish girlfriends. You remind me of a few of them and bring back such fond memories. If I were fortunate enough to be wealthy and in your social circle, I know we would be true friends because you are a completely honest and faithful friend. Alas, now that I live in Lancaster, PA, I only get into the city about 6 times a year to catch Broadway shows.
By the way, I know you are a forgiving person and you mention often that you and Ramona are again friends, but I would caution you to be wary of her. She is a conceited, deceitful liar and even she can't keep track of her lies. I am mystified as to how Mario and Avery are from the same family. It's obvious that she has very little formal edication because she is constantly mispronouncing common words. She's like a bull in a china shop, and maybe that explains why she's a good businesswoman.
Jill- I thought you were great on the show,you had fun and seemed like you were a great support to the other ladies.
The only thing Alex and Simon came off as fake,I don't care how much they say it was the editing, please. Why do you keep defending them?
Take care you were all real joy to watch on the show.
Girlygirl.
posted on April 27, 2008 at 4:52 AM
Dana wrote:
Jill, you and Bethenny are my favorites. I like LuAnn too. But you and Bethanny are the most real and honest and I love you for that.
I seriously don't understand why any of you bother with Ramona. She is an idiot! That is the truth. Is it any wonder that her daughter is constantly embarrassed by her? Even she is more mature!
I was so happy to see Alex and Simon (LOL) called out on being the phonies they are. Although I do believe Simon to be kind-hearted, but that's the only good thing I can say about them. And let's face it, Alex looks like a scarecrow, and no expensive outfit will change the fact. Anyway, they disgust me. End of story.
I will be looking forward to Season 2 to have you back. Best wishes to you and Bobby! I hope your stepson will be okay. And congrats on your first grandchild! xo
posted on April 27, 2008 at 7:21 AM
Leslie wrote:
Jill,
What you see is what you get. What I see in you is nothing but excellence. Loyal friend, mother and wife. I just loved it when you don't let the other housewives get away with anything. You call a spade and spade.
Jill without you this season the show would have been a flop. Please say you are coming back for season 2.
Good luck to you and your family.
posted on April 27, 2008 at 8:12 AM
Capibarra wrote:
Jill, it appears that in spite of the cameras you managed to be genuine. You are funny, honest (without being a total freak of a b-word, which is a reference to Rameana) and gracious. Thank you for doing the show, you are a real inspiration and a beautiful person, inside and out.
posted on April 27, 2008 at 8:14 AM
Joy wrote:
Jill,
You are just an amazing lady. I was so impressed by your lack of pretense and your giving warmth. You have a great sense of humor and seem so very real. Your friends are all fortunate in having you in their lives. Your mother and sister are marvelous. Kudos to you for keeping it real and warm!
posted on April 27, 2008 at 9:42 AM
mara wrote:
Jill,
You seem like a good person, generous and kind to your friends. You really don't need someone like Ramona who, based on the show, seems like a 40-something Catholic schoolgirl. She's self-centered, crude -- quite frankly, a jerk. She makes for good TV only because she's so annoying. Please, please, please don't let her get under your skin. As for Betthany's outburst, you really should have pulled her to the side -- I hope you did -- and told her off. There was no excuse for that outburst. She could have said, "Let's not talk about that now," which would have been much more effective.
Anyway, good luck with Season 2. I'll be watching.
Happy Passover.
posted on April 27, 2008 at 10:31 AM
Cameron wrote:
Jill - You had me laughing this morning!! Why was not getting a "straight" answer from Simone a surprise????? *LOL* You're the best, Jill !!!
posted on April 27, 2008 at 11:55 AM
Judy wrote:
Hi Jill,
Count me in as part of Team Jill. You are gorgeous, down-to-earth, funny and warm. I can see why you make friends and "connections" easily. Anyone who is your friend is extremely lucky.
posted on April 27, 2008 at 12:38 PM
Erinn wrote:
Hey Jill,
You were by far the best person on the show. I hated how Ramona didn't invite you to her cooking party. But, You played it cool. I can't believe that Ramona expects you to give her your tennis balls after beating her like every time. She needs to get over herself.
posted on April 27, 2008 at 1:38 PM
MJ wrote:
Jill you are the best, you made the show! Hats off to you and your family, you definitly seem like a "real" person.
posted on April 27, 2008 at 2:12 PM
JACKIE wrote:
JILL I LOVE YOU AND YOUR FAMILY, I'M PRAYING FOR YOUR STEPSON AND ALL YOUR FAMILY. PLEASE COME BACK A SECOND SEASON.
posted on April 27, 2008 at 2:49 PM
Kathie wrote:
Jill....I love, love, love you and your family. You are a strong woman. You are honest, warm, loving and kind...I know you would be a wonderful friend to have.
I for one, don't know how you keep your cool with either Ramona or Alex.
For the record could you please tell us in your blog why Simon was on the reunion show? You all must have discussed this further. It made them both look like the ridiculous people they are.
Hope you will be back next year....the show would be so boring with you!!
posted on April 27, 2008 at 3:16 PM
marti wrote:
Hi Jill
What fun it was to watch you on this show. I have a very good relationship with my mother and sisters and I loved watching you interact with yours. I really think the reason you are so popular is because you are true to yourself and your friends. what a great leson for all of us to learn. The truth only hurts for a little while! You and Bethany should do a spin-off on your own. The two of you are so funny! Thanks for a great few weeks of entertainment.
All the best to you and your famuly and I will keep your step-son in my prayers. PS loved Ali and Bobby too!!
posted on April 27, 2008 at 3:17 PM
Amanda wrote:
Hi Jill - I am from Orange County, California. I must say that I love (and prefer) and real housewives of New York City. I am a professional, divorced mother of 2 beautiful children. I would like to know how old your daughter is and what role her father plays in her life. Being a single mother, I am always curious about women with children who marry again and the affects it has on the mother and child. I was very young when my mother married my step father (whom I adore) but it was not always easy growing up. I would like to know how you and your daughter are doing and how she is feeling these days.
I appreciate you and Bethanny for your "tell it like it is" honesty. I particularly loved the scene with your sister during the radio interview. That was very touching to me - as I adore my sister too. I am not fond of reality shows but I loved this show!
My 21 year old daughter and I enjoyed every episode together. We were born and raised in Orange County but WE LOVE MANHATTAN and plan to live there part time some day.
I would like to thank you and Bethanny for making the show what it was funny, heartwarming, brutally honest and most importantly, forgiving.
We are looking forward to the 2nd season and hope to see more of you and Bethanny in particular.
Amanda1359@aol.com
posted on April 27, 2008 at 4:10 PM
callen wrote:
You are awesome Jill!! You are my favorite! Straight forward and honest and so mature and open minded! I dont know how you put up with Ramona! You are so much more mature than her - she acts like a child in alot of situations. You put everything out there and are so honest and if someone asks YOU a question you shoot a straight answer - cant say the same for others on the show! You're fab! :)
posted on April 27, 2008 at 4:14 PM
Amanda wrote:
Hi Jill - I am a professional, divorced mother of 2 amazing children. My charming son (15) and beautiful daughter (21). She is my first, he is my last and they are my everything! We were born and raised in Orange County, California and I must say that the "Real Housewives of Orange County" are nothing like the REAL women (and families) in Orange County. I was ashamed that the West Coast women (and their families) were represented in such a way. It was good television with the drama, etc - but absolutely not an accurate description of who we are in California.
I must say that I loved (and prefer) the New York version. Particularly the honesty, accountability - quick wit and banter. Gotta love New Yorkers!
I would like to know how old your daughter is and what role her father plays in her life. Being a single mother, I am always curious about women with children who marry again and the affects it has on the mother and child. I was very young when my mother married my step father (whom I adore) but it was not always easy growing up. I would like to know how you and your daughter are doing and how she is feeling these days.
I would also like to know how your step son's health is. I am sorry to hear about his health issues and pray that his health improves.
I appreciate you and Bethanny for your "tell it like it is" honesty. I particularly loved the scene with your sister during the radio interview. That was very touching to me - as I adore my sister too. I am not fond of reality shows but I loved this show!
My 21 year old daughter and I enjoyed every episode together. We love Orange County but have spent a lot of time in New York and hope to live there part time after my son graduates high school.
I would like to thank you and Bethanny for making the show what it was - funny, heartwarming, brutally honest and most importantly, forgiving. You handled yourself with class, style and compassion.
We are looking forward to the 2nd season and hope to see more of you and Bethanny in particular.
Amanda1359@aol.com
posted on April 27, 2008 at 4:56 PM
Cindy wrote:
Jill,
You are my favorite of the housewives. You are a beautiful person with such grace and good manners to not tell Ramona what a real goof-ball she is on so many occassions. Ramona is pathetic and doesn't deserve you to be her friend. I appreciate your truthfullness. I cheered when you and Luann beat Ramona at tennis. I was shocked when Bethanny told you that she would poke you in the eye if you said another thing about material things at her birthday dinner. I started out liking Bethanny, but after that and all of her protecting Ramona she has become my least favorite after Ramona. Even though Alex is a social climber, i like her next after you. Luann is in the middle.
posted on April 27, 2008 at 5:06 PM
Mike Schweitzer wrote:
Jill,
One of the best things to come out of the show was, for me, the introduction of your sister. What a brilliant, talented and beautiful person. I don't live in the CT/NYC area but love that I can listen through the internet. I am a father of a beautiful 3 year old daughter and I am wondering what did dear old Sol do right to grow these incredible women? Does dad have any tips?
posted on April 27, 2008 at 5:21 PM
amy c wrote:
Sorry..but, the show would not be as good without you!
posted on April 27, 2008 at 5:33 PM
D. wrote:
Jill,
I absoultely love your personality. You keep it honest. You would be invited to any cooking party anyone would host. I unfortunately have been watching alot of T.V. these days due to cancer surgerey and chemo, fortunately I found the show. It gave me something to look foward to. You, Bethenny and Luann definitely gave a new positive perception of New York social life. Being from the south we have a preconceived notion that New York housewives are more like a simple life star, shop, shop and giggle with very little substance. Ya'll showed a life style we would all aspire to have.
Thank you for sharing your friends, family and life.
posted on April 27, 2008 at 5:49 PM
Rosie wrote:
Jill,
You are the real deal...if you don't return for the
next season..neither will I....you are New York
City....also, if you're not there, who will finally
expose Alex and Simon?
posted on April 27, 2008 at 6:04 PM
betty maDOFF wrote:
JILL
I THINK YOU ARE VERY NICE DOWN TO EARTH AND I CAN IDENTIFY WITH YOU..LOVE YOR HAIR AND CLOTHES...
posted on April 27, 2008 at 6:08 PM
rhoda wrote:
Dear Jill:
You are so upfront and canidid on the show - frankly, I do not know how you maintain any kind of relationship with Ramona. She calls it being a "sexy Mom"- I would call it dressing inappropriately for your age.She arrives late for everything and usually leaves early. She is argumentative and difficukt. You should have been invited to the cooking party!!!
As for your dinner party and the reunion show, Simon should have NOT attened either. Girls' night is just that - no men. However, Ramona's reaction was way over the top. As usual she was very loud.
Alex should not have even mentioned bringong Simon - you made it clear that is was a grls' night. What doesn't she get about that?
Lastly, I think Alex can be very pretentious - naming
the children Johan and Jacque - Is it Jacque - now I'm not sure. If she wants her children so steeped in the French language and culture, she and Simon should up and move to Paris.
Anyway, you definitely are my favorite. Then, LuAn -the countess - a very classy lady. My least favorite - Ramona
posted on April 27, 2008 at 6:18 PM
Holly wrote:
Jill,
You, Bethenny and LuAnn are the ones with "class" on the show - the rest, to me anyway, wanna be's! Have a great summer! Can't wait to see what happens next!
posted on April 27, 2008 at 6:19 PM
Leo wrote:
I love you Jill (you really DO seem like a normal, down to earth person!!!), but you spent the first episode talking about all your invitations to society functions and how much money and work it takes to get your name on the invitation list. You then seem to look down on Alex for hoping to one day hold the same social status. Yes, some of the things Alex said on camera made her seem a bit calculating with her friendships, but she doesn't strike me as someone who would trade her integrity for a connection. And concerning her house - renovating a home in stages is a NORMAL thing. Most people can't afford to remake their entire home at one time. There's no reason for shaming her for not having the money to do the entire house at once (and most people don't drive econoboxes and wear fashion from WalMart while their homes are under repair, which seems to be LuAnn's remedy). Has it really been THAT long since you lived on SI??? I still love ya, and if you ever need a gay husband in South Florida, just let me know (I can even talk cars with Bobby for hours!). But you (and to some point LuAnn) are the leader of this pack, and Alex seems to deserve a little more respect.
posted on April 27, 2008 at 6:21 PM
diana wrote:
Hiiiiee.
You were EXCELLENT when you kept asking him why are you here!!! He gave that dopey, kinda went around the subject anwser bc he cant really own up and say, i really dont know why im here. You were soooo great! I love you, bethanny and Ramona. You 3 are hilarious, very cool and say it like it is. I enjoyed it. I love how you talk, reminds me of me and my friends from Brooklyn. it's great. Hope to see another season.
:)
Diana
posted on April 27, 2008 at 7:09 PM
Julia Racin wrote:
Hi Jill,
You are my favorite person on the show, with Bethany as a close second. You come across as a true friend. It's apparent that you love your family, and have a real connection to your friends. Both my daughter and I love watching this show and I hope you stick with it. I especially love that you call "a spade a spade", and don't pull any punches. You go girl!
Julia
posted on April 27, 2008 at 7:14 PM
Robin wrote:
Jill, I think you and Bethenny are terrific. As far as Simon not answering the question as to why he was there?--It was one more time for him to put Alex and himself on camera one more time--as if we really wanted to see them. I am looking forward to a Season 2
posted on April 27, 2008 at 7:35 PM
Kathy W. wrote:
Simon was not going to answer your question & you asked him 3 times why he was there, I kept thinking I wish I were the one asking the questions, there were so many things I would have loved to have answers to.
Why do Alex & Simon have selective memories on certain things, why did Ramona really leave the dinner party & the reunion & was so late to your party? She does have issues & not only with Alex & Simon.Hope to see you , Bobby & Ally next season.Love your handbags you carry on the show, I am a purse fanatic.
posted on April 27, 2008 at 7:41 PM
Deborah wrote:
Hey Jill,
Just wanted to say i love you on RHNY. Hope your back next season... Just see if you can get Bravo to change the background music to match NY excitement... Its to slow... Maybe I cant give you anything but my love (by the stylistics), just the music not words... the music they have now is from the oc version and NY is alot faster and more upbeat so the background music should be upbeat... see whatcha can do about that.... bye
posted on April 27, 2008 at 8:23 PM
Alice wrote:
Hi Jill,
You have a very open and honest personality which I loved on the show. I was also very happy to hear you plug the arthritis foundation. My three year old daughter also has JA (diagnosed at 10 months) - and it's a disease not many know about in regards to how it affects children. So I was happy you were open to talk about it. We're also very involved with the foundation in Connecticut. I wish you and your family much health and happiness.
Alice
posted on April 27, 2008 at 9:20 PM
Kyle wrote:
Hi Jill,
I just wanted to let you know how much I enjoy watching you on the show. You are beautiful, smart, funny, good hearted and grounded. You MAKE the show! Your a real person and you live your life everyday making a difference to the people not only in your life (family), but to those people lucky enough to be around you. I wish you had your own talk show, or maybe The View can use another smart cookie, who has a lot to offer on the show!!
Thank you for being you!!
posted on April 27, 2008 at 9:21 PM
Octavia wrote:
Jill, you were the absolute best and you made the show a joy to watch. Bethanny was pretty cool too - so down to earth and honest about her problems. Luanne was nice, but awkward with people who weren't of the same social stature. Ramona was amazing. I've never seen someone so narcissistic, yet oblivious. An hour late to dinner because her professional makeup and hair artists weren't done with her? It must be hard to relax and have fun when you are so concerned about your looks.
I was startled when I saw the state of Alex's home, but the behaviour of her children with no attempt at control was outrageous. And Alex is a liar about the photos. She had numerous photo sessions with several photographers and signed releases on all of them. Google Alex McCord and the word Liar and you'll find them. South Florida was clearly being promoted for something!
posted on April 27, 2008 at 9:41 PM
toni wrote:
You are the best of the bunch! Your daughter is your first concern, and you are a loyal friend. Get away from all those fake bitches :-)
My only concern is your husband does not do enough (communicate ect.) for your daughter. Make sure you are always there for her-becasue he is not.
posted on April 27, 2008 at 10:19 PM
Catherine wrote:
Jill,
With friends like Bethenny, why would you need any enemies? Why would you agree to let her talk and treat you like that? She clearly does not respect you or your husband. Get some self respect and drop her!!
posted on April 27, 2008 at 10:50 PM
miranda wrote:
you are the definition of a true friend. You have everyones best interest in heart befroe yourself. I pray for ally's health. you are a true example for all women i hope that people look at your ways and actions and learn how to be a better person. i have watched you and fill like i am one of your friends you are a great person and thank you for letting me be part of your life. xoxo
posted on April 27, 2008 at 10:55 PM
miranda wrote:
where can i get the "team Jill" shirt, i have to have it.
My best to you and your family. You are a beautiful, hilarious woman and it's evident that you have a big heart. I love watching you on the show. It brings me back to my college years in NY; although, I lived a far less glamorous life which included Gray's Papaya, shopping at Century 21, and staring at the tents during fashion week, as I interned across the street and hoped one day I'd make it inside. (It hasn't happened yet, but I'll get there someday!)
I will be sure to say an extra prayer for your stepson. Enjoy your down time and I hope to see you in Season 2!
simon didn't answer your question, because he had no good reason to be there other than his own ego. it was obvious they had practiced answers to some of the questions. i'm sure that they are nice people, but they come off pathetic.
whatever happened to francois getting into claremont? i'm very curious.
posted on April 28, 2008 at 12:01 AM
Lisa wrote:
Love You Love You Love You! I enjoyed all the women on the show but you are the one to model after.
Your daughter is drop dead beautiful and shouldn't worry about her weight!
posted on April 28, 2008 at 12:17 AM
Charr wrote:
I agree with the majority of post, you were by far more down to earth and in touch then the others. Although I think you could have better retained your image of honesty by admitting that the real reason you stormed out of the fashion show was because of the second class seating arrangements, which obviously was the really issue. Also, the only other irk was when your sister asked about status and you stated; "it's not really about keeping up with the Jones, it's about being the Jones". That to me seemed a bit pretentious. Your sister even had to correct you when you stated or implied that you have always lived in that lifestyle, which is apparent to me that none of the ladies on the show were actually born into wealth but rather acquired a comfortable lifestyle later in life. That probably was clear to everyone watching. Nevertheless I really think you are down to earth, caring and sincere.
You are the best. I have email before but never left my URL. Thanks for the tip! I always have been infatuated with New York City and I wish I could walk down the streets of NY and run into you or shop in your store! I hope you can email. Thanks for a fun season and remember Ramona started it all!!! ;O)
posted on April 28, 2008 at 3:09 AM
Debra wrote:
Jill,
You are truly my favorite, from the first episode I liked who you are. You are truly the stable wife, mother and friend we've all come to love. Tuesday nights are not the same without you and I can't wait for Season 2.
As aloof as Bobby seems I still love him, he and Allyson are a reflecion of you and show what a loving family you have.
posted on April 28, 2008 at 4:02 AM
california fan wrote:
Jill,
You are my favorite out of all the women. You have class, finesse and always good intentions! I admire a woman like you!
posted on April 28, 2008 at 10:59 AM
Kimberly wrote:
I have had the splended opportunity to catch the show and the reunion and I think the reason that you did not get a straight answer is because Simon is afraid to go head to head with you. He preys on the weaker and submissive woman much like his wife.
posted on April 28, 2008 at 11:19 AM
Lala wrote:
Jill, does this mean you won't be on Season 2? I really won't be able to enjoy the show if you are not on it. Still, because you seem to be such a wonderful person, I can completely understand why this would be your time to step down. You are awesome and inspiring. Best wishes to you and your family. Mazel tov!!!
posted on April 28, 2008 at 11:43 AM
Sherry wrote:
Loved you in the show! Pleeeeeeease come back for Season 2...wouldn't be the same without Laverne and Shirley to play off each other...your hilarious! I was so glad to see you ask Simon why he was there on the houseWIVES reunion...sorry we didn't hear an answer though....I guess he's just selfimportant and egotistical enough to think people want to actually watch him on yet another episode. Also loved the episode where Bobby was telling Jason how lucky he was to have you...so sweet! Have a wonderful summer with your family and friends and God Bless.
Sherry
posted on April 28, 2008 at 11:50 AM
Sandra wrote:
Dear Jill,
You and Bethany are my favorite's. Your honesty is almost revolutionary these days, and also inspirational. I wish I lived in an area where people can handle that kind of truth. If there is a second season, please lobby to leave Alex and her idiot husband behind. I thought the title of the show is the REAL housewives.... Not pretentious, wannabe, bad actress seeking to shamelessly social climb housewives of NYC. There is nothing real about either one of them. However, I would enjoy a show that features you and Bethany any day. Your're both amazing and a breath of fresh air! Hope to see you on my TV again!
Jill, where do I begin? You MADE the show. Your compassion and forgiveness for others really stood out in each episode. We could all learn a lot from you. But I have to ask....was that really you who responded on the TVgasm website? That is the BEST recap of tv shows - - especially RHNYC. Yenta is hilarious. But good for you for defending your position on 10% of your "Team Jill" shirts going to charity. Yenta should not judge. I've signed up for your newsletter, but haven't received anything yet. How often are they generated? Glad to hear you respond to your fans. Please write to me when you can(I feel like a Team Jill groupie)!!!
posted on April 28, 2008 at 1:01 PM
Ron wrote:
Jill, I think you are the best to watch, and the most real. I would be proud to be your friend,
posted on April 28, 2008 at 1:23 PM
Sue wrote:
Jill,
Thank goodness for real people like you, Luanne & Bethany. All three of you came across as yourselves. Kudos to all 3 of you ladies for honoring your contract and hanging in there with the obnoxious Simon and a insecure Alex, and I won't go into Romona, but I am sure you know where I can go.
posted on April 28, 2008 at 1:39 PM
Melissa Douglass wrote:
Dear Jill-To answer the question you asked on the last show, yes, Ramona is a moron. I just don't get that woman. I have never seen so much eye blinking, arms flapping, head bobbing, train wreck of a person. Honestly, she looks like a chicken on acid! I understand she talks with her hands, however, what stupidty is not flying out of her mouth is expressed in her motion. I give you credit for not throwing her out of your party when she was making everyone feel uneasy. She should have had some grace. It would have been easy for her to excuse herself politly when the situation wasn't to her liking instead of attacking your guests. If she has an issue with Simon and Alex, it's her issue, not your dinner parties. What works for them may not work for her, but that is her problem. I could understand her dislike for Simon IF Alex complained that she never got time away from him or couldn't do anything without him, then as a friend she could talk to her about it and try to help her find a way to deal with it. But Alex doesn't have a problem with their relationship, so Ramona should shut up. I love your family and I love the crace you have. It is also very clear you are comfortable in your own skin. Take care of yourself, get the emotional vampires out of your life. Remember, Ramona has confused being a strong woman with an obnoxious one.
posted on April 28, 2008 at 2:02 PM
Maria in Arizona wrote:
Jill,
I really loved watching you and your family & friends on this show. As you can see on the blogs, you have many, many fans who love you. That really says something about you. You are very happy, loving, generous and forgiving. Your personality and special qualities really remind me of my father, whom I lost last September to Mesothelioma. He was fun loving and had a generous heart. He always tried to see the good in people and made lots of friends everywhere he went and had a huge impact in many people's lives, which was really appearant by of the number of people who attended his funeral. Anyway, He was the reason our family even went to New York City. I had always dreamed of going there, however the circumstances as to why we were there were bittersweet. He had surgery at a highly recommended cancer hospital in Manhattan and we were there in the city for 10 days, 2 of which we were in the hospital all day and the rest of which we were able to go out and see your beautiful city. I just fell in love with New York City. Especially since we were there during the Christmas season of 2006. Everything was gorgeous! And Central Park, Oh my goodness! I fell in love. Anyway, I'm sorry I rambled on but I just had to pay tribute to my Dear, Sweet DAD and the fact that he also loved New York and wanted to go back but never had the chance. If I make it back there someday and see you on the street, I will definately stop and say Hi. I thank your family for sharing you with us all and I pray for a rapid and complete healing of your stepson and Ally. Love Maria
posted on April 28, 2008 at 4:36 PM
Cynthia wrote:
I have to say Bravo to all you ladies for inviting the public into your lives. The first episode of the RNYHW, my first thoughts were, how superficial these ladies are and if anyone is geniune? Or is it all about "look at me and see what I have." But, after careful thought, I realized these same women exist in my own neighborhood and probrably across the country. You are right to say, "Who am I too judge." No one has the right, but there was a great deal of judging during the reunion. Alex and Simon are a little different, but who are we to question their wanting to socialize with people with a higher economic status or desire to be recognized in the society pages? I say more power to them. The attack on them was really unnecessary. Just because they are trying to better themselves and reach the level you did, apparently you were not born with a silver spoon either. You yourself admitted that you get your photos taken a great deal and while in the Hamptons, you asked a photographer, who he was taking photos for and asked him to take your photo. I don't think anyone questioned any of you ladies when you pose for a photo opt. I wished you admitted that you were ticked about the fashion show seating. It was not Ramona's place to change seats with you and you should have taken the high road, like your mother told you. I agree with Betheney about the high school like rilvary between you and Ramona. It is very comical. But, you explained it when you told your sister that when you were younger, you were not popular. Now that you are older, you have become popular and want people to like you and it hurts when you are not in on everything. My take on all you ladies from the seven episodes, is that you all are very good people and each have different ways of handling things. Just remember it is a blessing to be in the place you are in now and not forget the path that got you there and that material things are just that, things.
posted on April 28, 2008 at 4:44 PM
rochelle eck wrote:
Jill like those before me, you are the best, I like the way you say "Bobby" you say it with such love in your heart. My best to you and your family, California sends our love to you in New York. Hope there is a season 2. (--remona) sshhhhh! ;0D
posted on April 28, 2008 at 5:26 PM
catherine wrote:
Jill
i loved seeing you in every situation. you and LuAnn were the most real and grounded people on the show. what happened to the episode with you and Bobby having dinner/gift & LuAnn and her family going to the SL? it is labeled as second chances but that is not what is shown. i have yet to find this episode, what is the actual title of it?
posted on April 28, 2008 at 5:27 PM
Shawna Dunbar wrote:
Jill, you are my favorite housewife! I love that you're a straight shooter and you don't let anybody get away with anything (except your dog!!). You're a great lady, can't wait to see season 2!
posted on April 28, 2008 at 5:36 PM
mcg wrote:
Jill, you were my favorite. Adorable, sweet and kind. Just don't storm out of a fashion show again like a diva -- that's not your best side. Otherwise, think you're cute and wonderful!
posted on April 28, 2008 at 5:55 PM
Mary Sigg wrote:
Jill
I have to say you were the one person that keep me interested in the program. I admin you for you straight forward approch. Not all people can get away with it, but I do try and am many times shot down, but I just get up and try again.
You're the greatest EVER! Love your personality. YOU make the show. I have a chihuahua, too!
xoxo
posted on April 28, 2008 at 7:06 PM
erica wrote:
Team Jill forever!!!! She is the best!
posted on April 28, 2008 at 7:50 PM
Linda wrote:
Jill,
my sister and I die from you.You are hysterical. I have to ask,your skin always looks perfect and amazing. I am 40 andI have tried everything from Cetaphil to LaMer and still go to a derm. andI am still not happy. I am thinking of laser, what is your regimen for beauty?
You were my favorite from day one! Your beauty radiates from inside out. I loved and love your generosity...never change!
posted on April 28, 2008 at 11:36 PM
Amanda wrote:
Hey Jill,
I just wanted to let you know you were one of my favorite housewives. I was rooting for you the whole way in the fights with Ramona. Do you happen to know my aunt Kate Pasik? She's in the society pages sometimes.
posted on April 29, 2008 at 2:46 AM
smiarly wrote:
Jill
You were wonderful to watch. You remind me what it is about New York that I miss. You came across as real and although a member of high society, not a snob. I can definately appreciate your candor as a woman who tells it like it is.
I look forward to seeing you again,and the next time I'm in NY I'll be looking for you.
posted on April 29, 2008 at 9:28 AM
Pandora wrote:
Jill,
I hope the other women on the show appreciate that they were able to meet you and have you as part of their lives. I truly enjoyed how down to earth you are. It is very refreshing to see that it is possible for someone to have a fortuante lifestyle and not be an unbearable person. You have displayed such class and elegance especially while dealing with Ramona. Keep up the good work and positive attitude towards life.
posted on April 29, 2008 at 9:56 AM
Doris Woodard wrote:
Jill i would have to say you were my favorite housewife. You lead a very desirable life style. I found that your husband came across as a really nice man, & also your daughter. You were not pretentious & very down to earth.
posted on April 29, 2008 at 10:12 AM
Doris Woodard wrote:
Jill i would have to say you were my favorite housewife. You lead a very desirable life style. I found that your husband came across as a really nice man, & also your daughter. You were not pretentious & very down to earth.
Absolutely adore you, your mother, and your sister. Wish I could have a family like you have, including Bobby and Allyson. You made the show, and I really appreciate your candor, sense of humor, and intelligence.
Thr friendship between you and Bethenny is priceless, and I wish I could be your friend also. Your a great role model as a mother, daughter, friend, and wife.
Please return for Season 2.
posted on April 29, 2008 at 10:52 AM
Natalie wrote:
Hi Jill,
I watch your show religiously and I love the dynamics you share with all of the other women and your family. I especially appreciate your relationship with Bethenny. She reminds me of my best friend and I was wondering if you felt that way about her? I love your spirit and forthright attitude! I aspire to be as genuine and honest as you are. Do you have any adivise for becoming as bold, charismatic and popular as you are?
Thank you,
Natalie
posted on April 29, 2008 at 10:56 AM
june_mele wrote:
I am wondering if Jill ever attended Boston University. if so. what year was she a Freshman. My son who lives in London thinks they may have been in a class together.
posted on April 29, 2008 at 10:58 AM
Linda wrote:
Jill,
Loved you and Betheny. To be honest, Alex and Simon give me chills (not in a good way). In particular, Simon absolutely gives me the willies. It's like he went to the "Rico Suave" school of theater! It's just creepy! I've come to the conclusion that no one was misrepresented and Alex and Simon are just plain "mishuga"!
posted on April 29, 2008 at 11:09 AM
JanetV wrote:
Jill, I like you the best out of all of the girls - you are the most down to earth and no-nonsense. BTW, your daughter is so pretty! I would love to see her do some modeling!
posted on April 29, 2008 at 11:11 AM
marisa wrote:
I soooooooo love this show and Jill is my #1 because she is honest and real and tells it how it is.... I am trying to find out the make and model of jill's watch (the one she wore on the reunion show)... HELP!!!!!!
posted on April 29, 2008 at 12:26 PM
JoAnna Nunez wrote:
Jill--
I wish I had you as a friend. You are direct, yet loving, and respectfull of your friends and family. Bobby is every womens dream husband....supportive, loving and calm. Allyson is lucky to have you as a mother. And lets face it, you must have a big heart to have Ramona as a friend, shes like a speeding train getting ready to hit a wall. She sucks the air out of the room even when shes on the TV:)
God Bless you and your family, it was a pleasure to get to know you even if only on the TV.
posted on April 29, 2008 at 3:27 PM
Teri wrote:
Jill:
I think you are great! You tell it like it is, and you don't seem to be acting for more camera time (like Alex and Simon are). You seem to be an honest and loyal friend. I think it's awesome that you are proud of your curves, and look for designers that make clothes for women with a bigger bust. As a fellow voluptous woman.. Kudos to you!
posted on April 29, 2008 at 3:35 PM
Kathleen Kelly wrote:
I just hope you know what you were great on your show and I really hope that it was not edited but if it was I would have loved to see what you really said. I work for a major Mechanical Company in Pittsburgh and we laugh when we think of you in your hard hat. It is nice to see someone on TV that still remembers where they came from. Again you were great and wish you well on your new season.
Kathleen Kelly
posted on April 29, 2008 at 4:11 PM
Kimberlie Hoffmann wrote:
Jill, Like many who've commented above, I really enjoyed watching you - you have a lot of positive energy and good taste. I was suprised how much the show captivated me and will look forward to next season only if you're in it!
posted on April 29, 2008 at 4:34 PM
Laurie G wrote:
Jill, you are by far the best of the Housewives! I think your "delivery" in most conversations is an asset! Humor or eloquence, you are it!!!!! Inoticed you did not get an answer from Simon either!
Jill,class act all the way!!!! Will you return Cher's outfit to her? lol
posted on April 29, 2008 at 6:15 PM
Triplet Mom wrote:
Jill:
You need to consider Season 2! This show would not be the same without you. Call me - I'll be the 6th housewife!!!
posted on April 29, 2008 at 10:04 PM
jackie wrote:
Jill, I think you are funny and good-natured, but you are definately a snob. Your comment about "just wanting to be the Jones's" really sums up your shallow aspirations. In addition, when you say that you don't agree with Simon and Alex's priorities, I really have to laugh. They are exactly who you were a few years back! But the strangest thing is when you talk about all you've accomplished. Jill, you didn't end world hunger, you just married a rich man and bought alot of designer clothes. Be real!
posted on April 29, 2008 at 10:31 PM
mitch wrote:
Jill Zarin!
I just read a few of the first blogs posted, which i don't like to do so I am not influenced by what other people think. I am a unique individual with my own thoughts and don't need approval from others etc. etc. However in the first few I read a few beginning lines that are EXACTLY what I was intending to write to you. Believe me I'm not copying, but I too at first did not like you, and I really don't know why. But it didn't take very long at all before I fell totally in love with you, and I too desperately want to be one of your gay husbands should you ever need a replacement or an additional one. I SO FEEL YOU, FEEL AS IF I'VE KNOWN YOU and WELL AND FOREVER. I'm sure a lot of that is the whole Jewish boy (and despite being gay I'm a boy, Ms. Thing, don't be calling me girlfriend. With all the hair on my chest and everywhere else I could hardly be mistaken for a girl. But I digress. I feel like (and obviously thousands of others do, so it bothers me a bit that my uniqueness is lost here, but my one of a kindedness will eventually find its way through, cream eventually rises to the top, sometimes you just have to wait longer, and now being well into my 40s, I have the patience and waiting isn't the torture it once was, in fact it's kinda invigorating, because when you get something you've waited a bit for you appreciate it more. I digress again. I feel knowing you, surprised I never ran across you in my 15 years in NYC (1982-1997) quite prominent in the advertising agency game and world, traveling in upper circles (don't worry still and always retaining my Jewish boy from Canarsie status even if I did lose the accent at the American Academy of Dramatic Arts!) I feel like it is "besharet" (BUH-SHARE-T) that someday our paths will cross. Hopefully sooner than later because I so want to try on that dress you had in the final episode at 21! (Kidding, I dont do drag, the only drag I know from is when Carnegie Deli is out of cheesecake!) I digress again. You do that to me. Make me digress. Want to tell you 20 things at once, while 20 other things are running thru hy head that are next up once I'm thru the first 20. Anyway, you have more class in one hair in one of your nostrils than any of all those other "housewives" put together. Except for maybe Bethenny. She too is the real deal. C'mon, none of you are really housewives. Gimme a break. But for lack of a better word...why should you be ashamed of having enough money to let the cleaning lady do it. My mother had a cleaning lady something like twice a week in the 1960s when we lived the middle class high life in Canarsie. Her name was Sadie, she was black, we didn't have African Americans in those days, and she too had more class in one pinky nail than any of those other housewives will ever have (except for maybe Bethenny. See Sadie was the sole support of her family (new?, a real shocker huh?) and would take the bus to the train to the bus from wherever she came from (self absorbed 7 year olds in 1967 didn't figure she had any other make up or life besides her two days a week in my house, of course), anyway all that traveling for $15 a day. And I think she did double shifts 6 days a week for sure to make sure her kids ate Because there wss no second adult in the household (new? shocking again huh?) I just about wanna laugh till I pee and I just wrote to Luann about this when for all her talk of etiquette and uncomfortability at having the "lower caste" members of society addressing her incorrectly that she feels no embarrassment, or uncomfortably or shame at all when she utters "ALLS" time and time again. ALLS? There is no such word. ALL I KNOW IS....ALLS I KNOW is Anthony is pronounced ANTANY in Brooklyn (the h is slient and Websters has acknowledged that for the updated "Fishwife" edition but nowhere can it be found that "ALLS" is acceptable. I COULD PLOIZ!!! Ramona needs to get off the meth. I wish I were straight to come riding in on the white horse and propose to Bethenny and make her as happy as she most deserves to be, but alas, such is the irony and dichotomy of life. AND ALLS I KNOW IS that ALEX AND SIMON are the joke and central core with which you rise and shine, give GOD your GLORY GLORY...
What made me think I didn't like you at very first for those few milliseconds was your heavy NY accent which seemed at such great odds with what I perceived to tbe class and breeding and social standing of someone in your "strata" if you will. It was so incongruous. But then I was served up the lesson, which I've learned so many times before and don't know why it left me here, but class, breeding, and all that, manners, etiquette, all that fucking nonsense, doesn't mean a hill of beans in this world if you dont understand, know, learn that class is simply how you treat other people and how you extend respect to them as human beings regardless of whether the label on their bag reads Prada or "douche", which is exactly what all these wannabe's are. Forgive me. Class is knowing that your family (whether blood family or those family members you acquired - like your gay husband among others I'm sure) is all matters. Material things have no worth, no value, are just that, things...and like you so eloquently said (more etiquette and manners in it's telling than all the Shakespeare in the world put together and then some, both in theory and simple statement - "because someone just doesn't put money in your account...you gotta earn it" or close...but the essence is there...you gotta earm it, physically, spiritually and mentally. And baby you've earned it. It shows, like I also read real quick just a big ago in the walk you walk, the talk you talk. So finally, I'm sure it's nothing new to you by now, after having watching yourself and all, don't let your emotions (that Jewish hot blood) get the best of you, and lower you to their level (no gonna mention any names but if I did I would mention Ramona's. Rise above it. And you did. Rather well and rather quick. Better than I could have probably and I'm a bit older than you I think and have had more practice, more bigotry coming my way (after all I did live amongst bigoted Southerners in of all places Mississippi in grad school for a time, six months to be exact, seven months too long, where I was in no uncertain times told I couldn't go in someone's house because I was a Jew. To which i replied, oh and here I thought it was because I was a faggot. What a relief to know you're not homophobic. And then the rest is a blur because I went after Big Daddy with my big fist and small nose (without benefit of surgery - i'm actually taken for Irish all the time with small nose and auburn hair)...but rest assure I did spend the night in that place where i wasn't a welcome Jew, however in the houose of someone who could tolerate me, the liberal come from Chicago Editor in Chief of the town newspaper. Thank God, because it rained that night and the bagels I brought to big Daddy's house in the morning as an apology for having hit him in his big fat Southern bigoted GOYISHA face would have gotten soggy and then of course I never would have heard the end of how cheap Jews are that they can't even bring fresh bagels when they come to call. ALLS I KNOW IS...I've never been back to Mississippi and have no desire to go, unless of course it's to film the Luann Des Lessups Story, in which I would play the Count of course...and in which I could get to utter a few choice lines i would hope would end up being the hallmark of the film...like "Count on this people, I'll be back from Europe in a month, maybe three and trust me I'm gonna do social work with my wife with the agenda the likes of which this town has never seen, until the Family Jewels bleed and I don't mean those ones we're passing on to my son for his wife!" I digress again. WAY OFF SUBJECT.
Anyway, I wanted to make sure, so sad you wont do Season TWO, I don't know if I can watch then, really....but I wanted to make sure I told you how great you are...and no offense, I think you should run for office, or aspire to much greater things, without meaning offense, than "socialitism" ...you are extraordinary, beautiful and such a remarkable woman that I think your talents (some of which have yet to blossom I'm sure of it) would be "wasted" on mere introducing this Count to that Duke, and that Duchess to this Prince of a Prig...Hillary's VP is well within your abilities and probably your grasp, given your connections and ability to raise funds and all. And if nothing else, you would probably make one helluva receptionist at Zarin Fabrics...the cutest thing I ever saw...don't let Alison become a Luann or a Romana for heaven's sake. I have a great guy for Bethenny by the way. His family on his father's side is Alamo Rent a Car and his mother's side is an even bigger heir to a bigger fortune, he was a Calvin Klein and Ron Chereskin model in the early 90s, majorly educated at like the AMerican Univ in Paris and the Sorbonne, speaks enough languages to to tell the other housewives where to go and how to get there without them ever being offended or knowing they were being given such instruction, is sweet despite all and loving and open and affection and confident enough to kiss me in public (like a brother would kiss a brother) even though others have no clue that would be the relationship, doesn't faze him kind of person...did I say he was gorgeous...only flaw is he smokes. Anyway, total GOYIM, like Bethenny, but like Bethenny possessing enough chutzpah to be a, whaddya call, Jew by association kind of spiirit kind of thing. He just moved from Horatio St after like 15 years to LA at beginning of April but you guys all have money, making LA-NY a hop skip and a jump, unlike for me where it would be steerage on the Titanic should I get so lucky as to have enough money all at one time to buy the ticket. At 2008 prices of course...what is that $79.50? Oh wait, I'd have to do that in installments like I did my Shark Cleaning Mop. Do you have one of those? Not as fantsstic as the informercial. I DIGRESS AGAIN.
Finally, I ABSOLUTELY HEAETFELT Wish the best for your family and their health concerns. I was hit by a car crossing the street where i now live (Las Vegas) at Xmas '05, was given little chance to live, in coma for a week, pulled through and someday (had no health insurance, could it be a bigger shonder), but the focus here is that I pulled thru and I did so because of family and friends, one in the same around me, who still are as I still heal, emotionally, phsyically and spiritually, and that, almost alone made all the difference between life and death. So I salute you Jill Zarin, pray for you, and am proud to be a member of the same race as are you - HUMAN! You're the best! Your smile is a sight to build dreams upon, so smile at that family of yours as much as you can...shine your light...what am I saying...that light shines whether you want it to or not!) "That litle light of mine, I'm gonna let it shine..."
Much affection, good will, prayers and blessings upon your head, Mazel Tov...
j. - You crack me up! You and Bethenny brought such joy into my life; just couldn't get enough! You two really are like Laverne & Shirley! The Duchess is awesome too...how grand and what class the three of you have! I would have to disassociate myself with Rameana, and I don't quite know how to categorize Simon & Alex - but they really do need to get a grip and get that house fixed up before pretending they are high class. I hope they (Bravo) will have a Season 2 - just can't wait! Take care and thanks for taking time to do the show. Muau!
posted on April 30, 2008 at 2:57 AM
samantha s. wrote:
Jill,
I adore you!!You are by far,my favorite!!You are elegant,beautiful,honest and sincere.I would pick you for a friend any day because you are are so sweet.Cant wait to see you next season with your Fab husband and daughter!!!
posted on April 30, 2008 at 12:50 PM
karen wrote:
oh jill! don't stop blogging! this last entry sounded like goodbye. i enjoyed watching you on season 1, and since i can't get enough (esp now it's over), i always have to go online to check for new entries on your blog. please keep writing until season 2 comes out! i love both you and bethenny--i think your relationship is very real and that is so refreshing.
posted on April 30, 2008 at 2:25 PM
Denise Tobey wrote:
Do you ladies find that most of the negative feedback are from people who are not from New York? It appears so, especially when you ladies did the confession show, and when the host was reading questions from viewers, Non New Yorkers really don't understand New Yorkers, I think you ladiers have grace and class, be proud how you handled yourself throughout season 1..Can't wait for season 2
posted on April 30, 2008 at 3:05 PM
Diane Cappolla wrote:
Jill, you are the best & the most real person on this show. you are right about the rest of the gang, especially Alex & Simon. They are just wannabees. You are the type of person I would want for a friend. I was born & raised on the lower east side & left NYC 18 years ago & moved to San Francisco & am now living in Las Vegas. You have an open invitation, any time you come to Vegas. Thanks for not being uppity like the others. Diane Cappolla, Las Vegas, NV
posted on April 30, 2008 at 5:02 PM
daniel wrote:
Hi Jill, I just want to say your my favorite housewife on the show and I love your attitude towards life. Your a joy to watch everyday and I think you have a great family too. I hope your stepson is doing well. Please come back for a second season the show would not be the same without you.
posted on April 30, 2008 at 5:16 PM
Dee wrote:
Jill you are absolutly amazing! You are totally like your mother. Very brutally honest! I love it. How you put up with Rameanie I don't know how you do it. I would have kicked her to the curb the first time I met her. Keep on being yourself! You Rock!!!!
posted on April 30, 2008 at 7:04 PM
Karen wrote:
I am on Team Jill! I love your honesty and willingness to call people on their crap - not just Alex and Simon, but Bettheny when she was running to Miami from her problems.
As for Ramona, I could understand having your feelings hurt by her on several occassions, but you can feel vindicated in the fact that it is apparent to all of us that she seems to be somewhat irrational and have inappropriate reactions to things she doesn't like (leaving the dinner party, leaving the reunion during the talk of Alex's pictures).
Keep being exactly who you are - we love you! And best of luck to your Allie with her arthritis.
posted on April 30, 2008 at 11:53 PM
Sandy wrote:
Jill,
I am writing to you because I know you have a dog that is a love of your life. I also had a dog who was the love of my life but on 4/26/08, he was attacked by a pitbull while we were walking home in NYC ( midtwon) my Dior was killed at the scene and I was also bitten by this vicious dangerous dog that should never be allow out on the street. I am asking for your help as one dog lover to another. The department of health may be releasing this dangerous animal to the owner even thou I was severly bitten and my dior was killed. My Dior was a 4 ILB yorkie who was the sweetest angel in the world. You know all the right people... and my biggest focus is not to have that pit bull ever allow to hurt anyone or any dog who we view as family. I can't described the horror of watching the very love killed in front of you.... no one is helping ..... can you?
posted on May 1, 2008 at 3:11 AM
Kara wrote:
Jill I think you are a true gem, you made the show fun. You & Bethenny together are a riot
posted on May 1, 2008 at 1:05 PM
M Peebles wrote:
I loved watching you on the show. I especially liked the "Lunch with Lisa" segment. You have accomplished so much and you should share your story more often. Would you be interested in attend my school's Career Day to speak with my students? Please email me if you are interested.
posted on May 1, 2008 at 1:19 PM
Lita wrote:
It's so funny how Ramona walked out when he pictures of Alex were brought up but I didn't see her leave the room when at the Hamptons by the pool she kissed another woman and her husbands stated he wanted to see some action. Her daughter was embarrased and walked away. Now Ramona should really check herself. She is a hypocrite. This part of her behavior was televised. Her daugher made reference to lesbian behavior.
posted on May 1, 2008 at 2:04 PM
Christine wrote:
Hi Jill,
I have to say I just loved the show. I am so glad to see a show with working mothers. I am a working mother of 3. There are times I get such disapproving looks and comments from people just because I work. I love my kids! It does not make you less of a mother just because you work.
Anyway, I just wanted to say thank you to and the other cast members for doing this show. It was a refreshing show. Will there be a season 2?
posted on May 1, 2008 at 3:50 PM
Shelley Annis wrote:
I WANT THE JILL ZARIN SHOW. I think it would be a riot to see you and your family in action!After seeing your sister interview you on the show, I now am a loyal listener to her show/ Pod Casts on the internet! She Rocks too. I really think Bravo should totally make this happen! It would be a Knock Out. What can I say, except "it's just The Right Thing to Do!"
posted on May 1, 2008 at 3:50 PM
Erin wrote:
Jill: I'm not a socialite, but I am an educated professional, wife, and mother, and you are by far the most relatable person on the show. Maybe it's my OC background, but I was truly shocked by some of the behavior on the show (Ramona is appalling to me); you were the one shot of "normal" in the episodes.
Jill,
Hi. I really admire how candide and truthful you are. I really like that in a person and I too am like you about telling people the truth. I do have a question for you. I am only 5'0 and have the same problem as you do about things fitting the chest area. Where do you find the proper bras to fit you and is it hard to find tops? I have such a hard time. It seems like they make all the cute tops for skinny and small breasted women.
posted on May 1, 2008 at 8:26 PM
Nina Bisceglia wrote:
Dear Jill,
You are a love, I adore you and think that you have a huge heart! Ramona is a pig and does not have a stick of class in her. She purposely lied not once, but many times on the show and invited the Countess without inviting you. She then lied to the Countess and you about it. She then lied at your dinner party about having to leave and then lied again during the reunion show about it. Her behavior was deplorable and I believe that no one would be friends with her unless they had to because of the show.
Never let her hurt you again, you are a far better person then she could ever hope to be!
Good luck to you and thank you for being you!
Love and Hugs!
Nina
posted on May 1, 2008 at 8:40 PM
lyndsey wrote:
Jill I love you. Please do season two. We will need Rameana too!
posted on May 1, 2008 at 11:53 PM
Donna wrote:
Jill,
I felt like I couldn't get enough of Jill this season. You should have your own show.
Can't wait till next year.
posted on May 2, 2008 at 12:44 AM
a Fan wrote:
You seem to be really cool and honest. However, you were too hard on Alex during the reunion show. The poor girl is just trying to make it in life; give her a break! At least she is trying the right way and not just by marrying someone rich!
Watched the reunion on the net today and I just had to write to you and say I totally agree with you that Ramona lied about the dinner party. You can see is on her face and in her body language just as you say. I do not know why the other women at the reunion did not defend you as I feel they should have. People always seem to side with Ramona. The only reason I can get out of that is they know you are honest and they can play those Catty games with Ramona. Again, most people are not good at true honesty. As for the fashion show, I to would have been irritated that Ramona got front row and you did not. It was like a feather in her cap and she knows it. I to would probably have just walked away or found a seat far from her. Take confront in the fact that you are a bigger person. Ramona has a lot of growing up to do still in many ways. To bad she cannot see it. Looking for praise and love in all the wrong places still for the lack of love and praise she should of received from her dad and never got. She just cannot see it. Look fwd. to seeing you on season two. Wish you and your family all the best.
posted on May 2, 2008 at 5:51 AM
Kaaren wrote:
Jill,
I have to say that you were so much fun to watch. You a never ending source of entertainment. I love when you kept saying "Just own it!" That is by far one of my favorite lines ever uttered. As you said, who are you to judge or any of us for that matter. It always amazes me that people think they need to apologize for going after what they want in life. Clearly Alex & Simon had a mission in mind, but who cares? They should just own their mission, and call it a day. I love the fact that you are so forthright with telling people to own it. You were fantastic to watch.
posted on May 2, 2008 at 10:11 AM
Kit wrote:
Jill: the more I saw you on the show, the more I loved you, and you are an inspiration for letting things roll off your back when it comes to your friends, but also able to call them up on something when they're not being truthful. I hope you'll be back if there is another season. You and Bethanny are so funny together..and you certainly do come off as kind and thoughtful..a great friend to have. (your friends are very lucky). Ramona...piece of work that needs work!! Luann..classy, knows it, but fun to have on the show..it balances the others. Alex and Simon..really fun to watch..I think she sets him up to look bad (probably she's insecure to be without him). Anyway..you're great..see you at Zarin's when I'm in NYC.
posted on May 2, 2008 at 12:54 PM
M wrote:
Jill,
I thought you were awesome! You always created a comfortable environment where everyone felt welcome. By far, my favorite on the show! Good luck to your family :)
posted on May 2, 2008 at 9:42 PM
lena wrote:
I love your Jill & miss the show!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Best luck to you and your family!!!!!!
posted on May 3, 2008 at 2:34 AM
Giselle wrote:
I saw the show for you. You were super funny and glamorous.
posted on May 3, 2008 at 10:31 AM
TL wrote:
Is it me or has anyone else noticed that Bethenny's blog and comments have been completely deleted and only comments related to "Top Chef" are noted there. I wrote a comment related to her appearance on The Real Housewives and it was never posted. Which leads me to believe that poor little Bethenny can dish it out but can't take it. You and Bethenny were my favs on the show, but I have a complete different opinion of Bethenny after these latest antics of here's.
Jill, since you seemed to be the closest to her, please pass a message to her. I think that her attempts to completely derail and avoid comments about her on THE SHOW WHICH SHE APPEARED ON AND NOT COMMENTS ON makes her appear to be a real phony! It just confirms that she can dish it out, but can't take it.
And to think I used to think she was cool!
posted on May 3, 2008 at 12:15 PM
Cary wrote:
One word about Jill "classy" maybe two "fabulous". I would love to have her as my friend!!!!
posted on May 3, 2008 at 1:04 PM
Lisa wrote:
I have to say I absolutely LOVE Jill. I can relate to her better than any of the other women on the show. I also was brought up in NY, (Long Island) have the same accent and she's so full of resources. I would love to have her as a friend!!! PS How do I get a "Team Jill" shirt??
posted on May 3, 2008 at 1:19 PM
brandi wrote:
bravo jill.....u r a fantastic person. i never once saw anything unclassy about u. u r a mature person and a good friend for bethenny. true she should not of offered to stick something in your eye. i love beth personality also, but that made me cringe. i was embarrassed for you. however u handled it well. i would of pulled a ramona and walked out. lol. i learned from u. ramona must be A.D.D. she is always tweaking. but she made good tv. i laughed. can wait to see 2nd season.
posted on May 3, 2008 at 4:25 PM
mike b wrote:
Love you too Jill! You're the kind of girl a person can just hang out with and laugh. Love you to pieces~! You're the most down to earth housewife on the show :)
posted on May 3, 2008 at 4:43 PM
ann smith wrote:
take ramona off the show-she blatantly lies and her eyes are crazy
Jill I have to say of all the woman. You seem the most real and level headed. I applaud your daughter working w/ other children with RA. To me that reflects what type of parents you and Bobby are. Much success to your family. I was appauld at Ramona's behavior. Quite frankly I think she is jealous of you. I say this because money cannot buy class, values, style, or manners of which you seem to have all... Ramona leaves me believing she has none. Best wishes........
posted on May 3, 2008 at 5:39 PM
Jimmy Boy wrote:
Jill- i love the show... your my favorite character. period. you are awesome and i feel like you would be really fun to hang out with.
posted on May 3, 2008 at 5:43 PM
Max wrote:
Oh my goodness Jill, I just watched the last few episodes and the reunion,......you and Bethenny,
w-h-a-t a trip! Maybe I'm wrong, but I doubt it,...I hope you two remain friends, because there is certainly something there. You reminded me a lot of myself, big mouth, but tenderhearted. Oh yeah, you have a good soul as well. I've seen it in movies, but to watch you ladies, and hear about the NY social scene,......and the wannabess,.......wow, they really exist!
posted on May 3, 2008 at 6:53 PM
Another NYC Housewife wrote:
Jill,
Seems you pick and choose what shows up on this page and what does not. I took the time to write my opinion on the shameful way you treated Bethany - and humiliated Jason - at her birthday dinner, but apparently only those who drool over you get posted. No wonder this site makes it appear that everyone loves you madly.
Btw, 10% to charity is a very cheesy gimmick for selling your tee shirts for profit and personal tax deduction. 100% to charity would have been a classy move.
Let's see if this gets edited out as well. I'm betting I'll never see it posted.
Another NYC Housewife
Jill,
You are purely amazing! I have seen a few of the shows, and I have to say, the one I saw today and leading up to the Russian Tea Room really gave me things to think about in how I would like to approach you.
First, please know that you and your family are in my prayers. I feel for your daughter and her arthritis,, as I suffer from it also and have since I was a teen.
Secondly,, you come across and present yourself in the most realistic possible manner. You are not pretencious, dramatic, or any of those things. You are down to earth, driven, honest, loving, and like you had mentioned in one show, you are like the glue. You hold it together and in a way that is classy and refined.
I guess that basically, I am saying that I like the way you handle yourself.
And oh my goodness, on the show today at the Tea Room, I jut have to say it,,,, if it is not about Ramona, in any way, shape or form, the woman just is not satisfied.
Tracey Harris
posted on May 3, 2008 at 8:15 PM
Realityshowaddict wrote:
Hey Jill, I watch because of you. If you're not returning for season 2 of RHNYC, then BRAVO should offer you your own show. Bethenny can do occasional guest appearances after she dumps Jason who's not really into her anyway.
posted on May 3, 2008 at 8:39 PM
Lorie wrote:
I just love you, you keep it real and tell it how it is. You dont take no shhh from anyone!!! I would love to just spend a day out with you because thats how cool of a person I think you are.
Lorie
posted on May 3, 2008 at 11:41 PM
Carol wrote:
OK - so I am going to blog everyone tonight.
Jill - you are funny and sassy and "All New York". Jewish, Italian, or whatever there is a 'typical' character and you are one.
I am married to a man from Long Island, so I know. I am a native Californian, but have always been surrounded by the East Coast!
You are good to say that you don't hold a grudge and that you let those 'barb' comments slide by. I have found that East Coast people say exact;ly what's on their minds, regardless of the fall-out. The only way anyone can deal with that is to let it go.
The best way to disarm a person is to NOT engage.
You really want to make everyone at home and keep it all together. This puts you in a tough spot, but keep at it! With your humor and love you will do well.
XOXO
posted on May 3, 2008 at 11:54 PM
Dory wrote:
I wish I had a friend like you. You're one-in-a-hundred million.
posted on May 4, 2008 at 5:07 PM
sks wrote:
Jill,
You are what I always dreamed I would be. I feel better knowing that there are people with the advantags you have been given are who are truely good people. My daughter has made Ally her favorite person. Watching the smile on her face after she returned from the detox center made my Aly determined to change herself as well. Thank you Jill.
I just became a Housewives fan over the weekend - we watched the marathon. Delish!
Thanks..
How do I get a Team Jill T-shirt?
ps. you and I should do a talk show... Called "The Jills Have It"
posted on May 5, 2008 at 2:33 PM
ada wrote:
Hi Jill! You are my favorite on the show. I am a lot like you in telling it as it is. At the reunion, you mentioned your step-son has Stills Disease and that really got me because I have it too, I know how devastating it can be. I have to applaud you for being there for him and getting the word out there, it is such a rare disease. I have found it challenging to find doctors that even know what it is. Do you have any plans for doing research and public awareness for it? Thank You Jill for being uniquely you.
posted on May 5, 2008 at 4:27 PM
Naomi wrote:
Jill,
You appear to be the kind of person I like being friends with. Always truthful and loyal to your friends. I don't get how you like Ramona. I feel she has no manners and thinks she is better than everyone else. I think Alex needs some work too. Thanks for making the show enjoyable.
Naomi
posted on May 5, 2008 at 4:28 PM
Joanne wrote:
You are a fantastic person. It is especially pleasing to observe your concern for others and your interest in helping others. You don't have to do this, but you enjoy it. You're also a great mom. Alli is a wonderful young lady. Good job, Mom.
posted on May 5, 2008 at 5:36 PM
audre uriarte wrote:
Hi Jill,
I just wanted to say thank you for taking the words right out of my mouth when you asked Ramona if she was an idiot. Hats off to you..
posted on May 5, 2008 at 6:44 PM
Elise wrote:
Jill, I thought you were the MOST genuine on the show and most tender hearted/good hearted. Down to earth. You were so funny and I loved you calling Ramona "Rameana" because she IS...she is a piece of work! Geez a lou! I also loved when you said you were taking your daughter to the mall to shop, like all the other kids in America. Cracked me up. I love your humor!!! I could really see your good heart and your sweet sweet and forgiving spirit. You are a wonderful woman and beautiful inside and out! God bless you!
posted on May 5, 2008 at 8:19 PM
Jilliar wrote:
Tell the truth you lying hypocrite. "I don't care where I sit." Ugh.
First and foremost, it should have been made perfectly clear that men were not welcome to your Girls Night dinner party. And if indeed Simon was to be included, then all the men should have been included. Stand up for yourself, and say no!
I think it's unfair to the other husbands who did not attend, to only have one husband attend. If one husband is allowed the priviledge than all should have the same prividedge. It looked like a chicken coup with one rooster come to roost. Totally inappropriate, you have a voice, use it for what you believe in.
If you or Bethenny didn't find the courage to tell Alex that Simon was not invited to this function, then it would have been in all fairness to warn the other females of the change. It wasn't fair to the other females expecting to come under false pretenses to your party.
But in life nothing is perfect, and at times life throws us a curve ball. Some women just grit their teeth and make the best of a bad situation without saying a word. Some women just go along but have vicious things to say about others behind their back, seeking to place blame and judgement. And some women just violently fight back through attacking and belittling others in order to self preserve themselves.
I say Being prepared for any situation that life throws us whether pleasant or not, enables us to comport ourselves with dignity and virtue. Being prepared for the unexpected when we least expect it is achieved through letting go and letting God. We can't control people, places or things, yet we can control ourselves. When we control ourselves and our instincts with the highest regard for life, then we are empowered and our dignity is self preserved.
The ability to sustain your composure and elegance in the worst of situations is what most evolved and mature adults stive for. Being popular isen't the most important thing to achieve in life, nor is being loved by everyone. People pleasing will only get you so far, but the real journey of life is achieved when we build on our character. knowing who we are as we truly are is the key to true humility.
Next case in point is that we learn from our mistakes. It was clearly a mistake to allow Alex to take control of your dinner party. Her request to have her husband at your party was manipulating and calculating. You can't fault a person for trying to manipulate a situation to accomodate their agenda. But you don't have to give That control to them, and you don't have to give your power away.
I remember you telling the audience that you didn't know what to say when Alex asked to bring Simon. You questioned whether you could have said to her not to bring him. I hope you realize now that you most certainly could have and should have said to Alex "no you can't bring Simon". Putting it nicely, in other words say what you mean but don't say it mean.
It was apparent that all of you were laughing and poking fun of Alex and Simon before they had arrived. Since they were the last one's there, you all had a good laugh and something to gossip about. Putting the focus on others, takes the focus away from ourselves.
I know that people gossip because it can be fun, but it is missing the mark every time we do so. Everyone that gossips is also being gossiped about and you rob yourself the chance to talk about what is really important, yourself.
I think this show has been an eye opener for everyone involved, including the audience. If any of us choose to grow, we must acknowledge our faults and character defects, For we cannot change what do not acknowledge.
It takes a great deal of humility to forgive, but forgiveness is the backbone to healing. Jill, you've shown us how to grasciously forgive those who have hurt us. It frees us from the bondage of self.
Jill, one final note. Rather than get so frustrated and infuriated with all those who cannot be evolved such as yourself, understand that everyone is not on your level and it doesn't have to be your job to make them see the light. Just be a light, and people will radiate to it, and want to have what you have.
Does it mean that people will never lie to you? No, most likely they will keep on lieing if it means it will maintain their image of perfection. They think they are beyond approach. For them maintaining an image is more important than family, friends, even God.
Best wishes to you and to your whole family. Espcially to your very special daughter. Tell her you love her and that she is beautiful often, just the way she is. This way when a man comes along and tries to woo her with sweet words, she won't be so swayed and fallen, because she knows it's true and won't need a man to validate that.
Keep drinking your diet cokes! :)
posted on May 6, 2008 at 12:27 AM
julie wrote:
Jill, I just wanted to you to know durning this very challenging part of my life( my father is living with us on hospice)that I have enjoyed, and I have rerun at least 10 times the episodes...the show brought me laughter, wonder, speculation, fascination, and any other ation one can think of ..but you and Bethany...well I am just sayin..."SPINOFF..! I too have R.A and would be interested in any new meds you know of or Allyson may have found successful. I had stopped using any the last year because it had caused more trouble than not.I am thrilled to hear your stepson is doing much better!I had researched that disease because of auto immune diseases sprinkled in our family and thought that hit at a much younger age?
Have to add LOVED your sister and your mother ...fab..another sitcom...she cracked me up at the luncheon.. You are right you you do have a incredible family and Bobby ..whats not to love..class act! thank you for girls for all taking the risks on this show....you put a lil more splash of color in my life.
julie
Bravo! Jill I thought you were wonderful, Between Ramona an Alex (not sure which was worse) I would have had to change the channel. Thank you for being down to earth and saying what we were all thinking. Hope your back for a second season.
posted on May 6, 2008 at 7:54 PM
Anonymous wrote:
you're amazing!! the only way i'm watching season 2 is if you come back!!!!!!!!
posted on May 6, 2008 at 9:59 PM
eric wrote:
Jill, you just crack me up! I loved when your daughter was interning at your store and you kept crank calling her - ordering chinese food, SO FUNNY! I will be your gay husband anytime!
Jill, my sister was a big fan of the wives of Orange County. When I found out there was going to be a Housewives of NYC! I told my sister to get ready! And you ladies did not disappoint. The show touched on everything, that I love about New York. In a short condensed version.Fashion Week, The Theatre,Restaurants{The 21 Club} The Hamptons, The Private Schools, The Celebrity {Tommy Hilfiger,Neyo] The cast/people that whole NYC flavor. I,m a New Yawker, by proxy. I live in DC, but come to the city every chance I get. My 1st memory of New York, is when my uncle drove down 42nd St, and there were movie
houses on both sides of the steet.And I remember when Barneys was a conservative store where businessmen shopped, not the Designer Mecca that is today. Jill in closing on my next jaunt to The Big Apple, I'm going to stop by "Zarins" To say Hi "Jill Zarin" You are the Best.
posted on May 7, 2008 at 7:59 AM
Liz McArdle wrote:
Jill,
My husband says that if he ever comes home from work again and hears your strident, irritating voice as he comes through the door he'll toss the TV out the window. He doesn't have a thing to worry about. Your big mouth gets no more play in our home.
posted on May 7, 2008 at 1:13 PM
Lisa wrote:
Jill,
Love you girl! You really are a genuine person. Wether it's to be brutally honest or just the way you love your family. I agree with you about Alex and Simon...Be who you want to be, but "Own it". They're obviously ashamed of how they were depicted on the show or they wouldn't be giving out excuses on their behavior.
posted on May 7, 2008 at 2:32 PM
Elaine wrote:
Your my favorite! i love your sassyness your ideas and your attitude! you bring fun, warmth and class to the show...can i come to one of your dinner parties?
lol
posted on May 7, 2008 at 3:27 PM
mrs. beasley wrote:
Jill: I found you to be the mean one. You try to do one good thing for three mean/ bad things you say or do. You're one of those people who always has to be first, and thinks they give the most. You have such wonderful "connections" and just want to help people.
nope. You want to be revered and praised and stroked.
For anyone that calls anyone a meanie: how heartless and cold is that?
You have a beautiful daughter and saintly hubby : )
posted on May 7, 2008 at 3:29 PM
Michael wrote:
Jill,
You are the greatest character on the show. You are the most beautiful and well mannered of the group. I hope for success in all of your journeys.
Say might you be able to grab your own reality show on Bravo? I am buying some t-shirts ASAP! Love Ya
posted on May 7, 2008 at 4:35 PM
Kathleen Taylor wrote:
Jill -
I was thoroughly impressed by you this season. Your self assuredness, regardless of wealth or "societal stature" is something all women should strive for. Not to say that every word out of your mouth was perfect or pristine, that was hardly the case. None the less, you were true. A real woman with resources, challenges, shortcomings, humor & intelligence. It was a pleasure to "meet" you and I will gladly contribute to your designated charities. You are both an inspiration & a snapshot of truth. Thank you for sharing yourself.
KT
posted on May 8, 2008 at 2:26 AM
Jilly wrote:
Jill - You were my FAVORITE Housewife by far. I think you look and act so classy (but your not trying it comes naturally). Fromt he show you can tell you have high morals and family values.
I hope we get the pleasure of seeing you on season 2.
posted on May 8, 2008 at 11:50 AM
Grace wrote:
Jill,
You ARE the glue that binds; candid, rooted, strong, and caring. Allison must be very lucky to have you as a role model. You and Luann are the only reason we watch the show! Thank you.
posted on May 11, 2008 at 5:20 PM
Kate wrote:
Jill ~
What an entertaining show this entire series ~ yet you maintained a realness and I think perhaps what brought out the most reality was when the show filmed you with your sister at her home.
If anything this show kept me entertained during a time when I had to depend on the moron box to keep my mind off my failing health. Your daughter's willingness to have her health exposed to the general public touched me especially as I realized if a young teenager can have such courage surely being AnOldLady with serious health issues that has found myself too public at times i too can find some courage.
Thank you to you and your family for being just who you are.
Hugs ~
Kate
posted on May 27, 2008 at 9:39 AM
Samantha Fowler wrote:
I don't mean to be nosey but what is the name of the disease that your stepson has. My friend daughter is having trouble with her heart, and the doctor can not figure out what is wrong. She is only 18 and had a heart attack. And now whatever she has has made her blind in one eye. So I was hoping to get the name of the disease and give it to her. Thank you very much, I love watching the show, but I can't stand Alex and Simon, to fake for me.
posted on May 29, 2008 at 9:24 AM
BeccaBoo wrote:
I read the other girls blogs and comment and I have to say that you're the only one to be getting such positive feedback... YOU GO GIRL!!! You seem to be very genuine and you say what most others are afraid to. You catch some flack (is that even a word?!) for refusing to sit behind Ramona at the fashion show but I don't blame you... I would'nt have sat behind that heffer either after the way she treated you! Anyways, keep doing what you do! Can't wait until second season!
Comments
karen s wrote:
jill,
you were by far the best person to follow on the show!!! funny and honest. or as honest as you can be on tv.
posted on April 24, 2008 at 6:51 PM
jane wrote:
Jill,
You have come across as such a real and loving person. For all of the viewers out here in TV land I really hope you decide to do the season 2. You are passionate and truly care about your family and friends. You and Bobby would be the type of people anyone would be proud to call friends.
posted on April 24, 2008 at 6:53 PM
Mary wrote:
Hi Jill! I was wondering if you were going to post a blog after the Reunion show and I am so glad that you did. You are my favorite housewife!! You are so real and put some of those pretentious women to shame. I really like how you care so deeply for others and are willing to be a connector to help others out. It's fantastic how you admit you're not perfect, but try your best not to hurt others' feelings.
I give you a lot of credit for putting up with Ramona and all the negative things she has said and/or done to you. Doesn't that woman understand that everyone who watched that episode knows that she blatantly lied about why you weren't at her cooking party? And OMG she still expects you to share the tennis balls you got as a gag award because she played against you? Get over yourself, Ramona!!
It is so obvious how important family is to you. You brought tears to my eyes with the wonderful things you just wrote to all of your family members. Besides watching the great relationships you have with Bobby & Allyson, I loved watching you and Bethenny! Laverne and Shirley are the best part of this show!!
Have a great summer and I hope everyone in your family gets healthy soon.
posted on April 24, 2008 at 7:14 PM
Todd wrote:
Enough about the family already...Did you see the blog where they called you Jill Streisand?? TOO FUNNY!!!
posted on April 24, 2008 at 7:17 PM
brenda wrote:
Jill Jill Jill, what can I say, You talk the talk and walk the walk. I may not be family but I too am proud of you. There are so many dimensions to you and they are all genuine. I am sad to see that you won't be returning for season 2 but like you said it straight up, family comes first. I can't agree with you more. You have been an absolute delight to watch and I wish you and your family health happiness and a super bright future. Congratulations on the up-coming arrival of your first grand-baby. What a wonderful gift from above. Your family is lovely and please remember you are loved all over America. Take care and God Bless.
posted on April 24, 2008 at 7:30 PM
quinn wrote:
You are a joy - and your daughter is a gem. all the best, thanks for sharing your life.
posted on April 24, 2008 at 7:53 PM
Donna wrote:
J. - when I saw the reunion show, I literally felt as though I was saying goodbye to some dear friends. You, my dear, are a love. Your honesty, your ability to reason & not hold grudges, the sincere love you have for your family, as well as your friends is God-sent. And luckily, you're pretty damn funny.
I'm not a star-struck or tv crazy person, but I have been GLUED to your show. (And could spank Bravo for airing the marathons, as I've missed countless appointments w/my trainer, my friends and even left a few of my sons baseball games early!!)
My father instilled in me a strong sense of people perception and you are top notch in my book. (I also adore LuAnn and Bethanny (although she needs to show more discernment at times)....I think Alex is a very good person at heart, but just a little off balance with what is most important. I do believe that her family is her priority, but her comment on the first episode about being in St. Bart's where she "doesn't have to look over her shoulder to see if there is anyone she has to impress". SAD. As for the 5th housewife, I literally am going to pray for Ramona and her family. We all have character flaws and while she has acknowledged such (bull in a china shop), she does nothing to temper the flaw. I honestly hope she will come to the full realization that many of her actions are inappropriate, otherwise the one who will suffer most is Avery.)
Take good care....I may just pop into Zarin Fabric next time I'm in NYC.
posted on April 24, 2008 at 7:55 PM
Suzy wrote:
I, too, wondered why the heck Simon was at the Reunion Show. I think he and Alex are the most irritating of all couples I have ever seen! They are the epitomy of "Gotta keep up with the Jones's! You, Jill, are a wonderful lady and I would love to be friends with some one like you. You were fun to watch! Love Ya!
posted on April 24, 2008 at 8:03 PM
Cathy wrote:
I see a wise woman in you Jill. I think the saying "Keep your friends close and your enemies closer" could almost apply to Ramona.
My mother also used to say "With friends like that, who needs enemies".
I think anyone on Ramona's hit list would be very wise to follow your example and just glide on through is with a chuckle, a grin and a
posted on April 24, 2008 at 8:13 PM
more_fab_than_brad wrote:
Jill,
at first i did not like you, but you are the most caring of the housewives, and I think a really good person. I want to replace Brad as your gay husband. I'm great looking but not flamboyant, in fact, not noticeably gay at all, but still fabulous. I want to take you to brunch at the fab Metropolitan Club at 60th & 5th and dish with you. And unlike Simon and Alex, brunch will be my treat. You can tell Alex and Simon, it is a private club founded by JP Morgan, and they can never gain admission! Luann would probably insult one of the workers there. Ramona is just a freak. So they are not invited. I love Brethanny also, but for the first brunch, just you and your new gay husband.
Jill, you rule, and as most others on the blog would say, thanks for being real and kind!
posted on April 24, 2008 at 8:39 PM
Laurie Fronk wrote:
Lovely Jill,
You were by FAR my absolute favorite housewife. Kudos to you for your honesty and kindness. I live in MN in a completely different world than you, but I so related to you. I too have a Ramona,Rameina in my life. I have to say that I've learned restraint from you on how to react to my Ramona's actions. Thank you I wish nothing but the best for you and yours. Can't wait to learn from you next season.
posted on April 24, 2008 at 8:42 PM
Mary wrote:
Jill,
Someone needs to tell you that "Team...Whatever" is soooooo yesterday. You just appear stupid by keep saying it over and over and over and over and over. The whole concept is over and over and over. That just shows how out of touch with reality you and the entire cast is with everyday life on planet earth. The only one who is remotely close to having a reality check is Bethenny. I think the whole season was stupid and I won't be watching season 2. I hope someone from Bravo reads this and keeps track of viewers who have had enough of self-indulgent, greedy, mean-spirited old ladies.
posted on April 24, 2008 at 8:50 PM
Darlene wrote:
Hi Jill,
I guess this is not just on this last blog, but on a whole. I really admire you so much! I know you said it hurt your feelings when Bethanny yelled at you at her b-day dinner. Yet you were so calm and cool, and you even said it must be all the drinks, and nothing else was said. I think I took it as "what a great friendship" and knowing that you just let it go. I myself am way to sensative, I would of been crying or running out! I guess what I am saying is you and Bethanny seem to still be very good friends! I love that you forgive and move on.
I love the show because of YOU & Bethanny, you are the best team, Love it Love it Love it!!! Can't wait till next season. Have a great time off.
ps. I love your family too, Bobby is GREAT and Ally is beautiful. I hope to have a family like that someday.
posted on April 24, 2008 at 8:51 PM
corrienemiller wrote:
Dear Jill,
I really loved you on the show! you were so real and warm. To me the show revolved around you. You and Bethenny were my favorites. Ramona is so trashy I don't know how she got on the show. The "countess" is too full of herself, and Simon and Alex, I don't know! They seem sweet but there is something kind of Gomez and Morticia about them. Hope to see another season of the show. I loved it. Good luck to you and your family, your lovely daughter, kind husband and best of health to your stepson.
posted on April 24, 2008 at 8:52 PM
Evonne wrote:
Jill - you are my favorite on this show. You are so "real" and unpretentious. Calm too. I wish you all the best.
p.s. I shopped at your fabric store when I live in NYC (my hometown in fact).
posted on April 24, 2008 at 9:00 PM
Anonymous wrote:
I hope this means you're leaving the show you lying hypocrite. "I don't care where I sit." Uh huh.
posted on April 24, 2008 at 9:02 PM
Liz wrote:
Jill, you make it sound like you're not coming back for Season 2...PLEASE say you will be back! You and Bethenny make that show, you're both funny and down to earth, I just love the relationship you two have. By the way, I think you handled everything just perfectly on the reunion show. I personally would have liked to put my fist through Rameana's face, but when you asked her if she was a moron, I about fell out of my chair! Ramona needs to get a grip and read a book about class and manners, I don't think she should wait for LuAnn's book to come out, she needs one now and she should read it, remember it and LIVE IT! You are a saint for putting up with her, but I completely understand, I too, have a friend that is like that and if she wasn't so funny sometimes, I don't think I could tolerate her. Anyway, I hope you do come back next season, you are the QUEEN OF MANHATTAN! You also seem to have a wonderful family, and great friends (with the possible exception of Ramona-but I am sure she has another side to her), and it is a shame more people don't think like you and thank God every day for what you do have, money isn't everything, family and friends are! Good Luck to you and yours.......Until Season 2 REAL HOUSEWIVES OF NEW YORK CITY!
posted on April 24, 2008 at 9:03 PM
carmen jo wrote:
Jill,
My friend Kar and i totally love you, in fact your the main reason that we watch the show. Your so funny and outgoing, and we love your voice, it is soo New york. We love ya girl!! Go Team Jill!!
posted on April 24, 2008 at 9:06 PM
Chris wrote:
I am a Jill fan! I wasnt sure I would like you but by the second episode I was hooked on your warmth, humor, and sincerity. Alley is a gem and Bobby seems like a fantastic partner.
I also really like Alex and have been so saddened by the absolutly brutal comments by some very ugly and tacky people on her blog. I understand that the cameras have captured some of her thoughts that might be considered controversial and not everyone will be comfortable with her brand of sophistication, but half of her blog responses are very mean spirited. (The other half are quite supportive.)
The reson I mention it to you is that I know that with your huge heart and your obvious generosity of spirit, I am imploring you to defend her or do what you can to mitigate these distortions of character. I know that the show is over and the editors have cut some of your comments that were in support of her. Im not sure what else you could do unless you do continue your blog.
Id LOVE to see you both on season 2. I hope Bravo takes a pass on the revolting and tacky Rameana.
with warm regards, Chris. (big gay Jill fan)
posted on April 24, 2008 at 9:08 PM
Patty wrote:
Jill,
Your blog made me cry! But in a good way. But you forgot to thank Ginger!
You are one of the most generous, sincere people on earth. Allyson is lucky to have such a great role model, just as you are to have your mother.
You made me laugh so hard during this season, and I thank you for that. I was pretty skeptical about the show at first, as I thought it would be just a bunch of whiney society wannabes (well....we did have the Van Kempens to prove me right there!), but I really enjoyed the show and look forward to a second season.
Finally, love and prayers to your stepson, let him know he has an entire "Bravo nation" rooting for him.
Let us know when the baby comes, and post pics on your website. Thanks again.
Patty
posted on April 24, 2008 at 9:11 PM
Liz wrote:
Jill...I think you are FABULOUS...and I appreciate your sense of honesty. I can't understand why Ramona got all over you when you said she shouldn't be wearing the same things Bethenny does, because of the age difference. She kept trying to say to you that there wasn't a difference, but she is 51 (according to the 1992 wedding announcement for Ramona Mazur and Mario Singer, ages 35 and 38)and Bethenny is 37. Your point was well taken and Ramona should be proud of her age...She looks great for being 51!
Hope your stepson is doing better. He is in our prayers....
posted on April 24, 2008 at 9:22 PM
Nancy wrote:
Jill,
I thought you were the most honest and real on the show. You are a little out there most of the time, in all that you spend on material things, but you do not act like a brat and are not rude. I see that you are trying to give Allyson a good work ethic. I believe you and Bobby do work very hard. I could not believe how rude Ramona is to you and others and that Alex didn't remember saying some of the things she said. Why didn't you play it back for her?
posted on April 24, 2008 at 9:27 PM
lilah wrote:
Jill - Let me be the first to tell you that you are fabulous. You seem the most real to me. I loved watching when ever you and Rameana got into it. Thank goodness you put her in her place someone had to. She really doesn't get it or much of anything else for that matter. Rameana has no class or style. Class cannot be bought you are born with it. You my dear have class and style. Hope to see you in S2.
posted on April 24, 2008 at 9:37 PM
Mara wrote:
Dear Jill,
You are such a warm and earnest person...You're a good girl. I don't blog...but was so taken with your good nature and sincerity...I just had to jump in. I actually live in the East 60's and have to say I'm fortunate enough to have a few "Jills" in my life. I think everyone should be blessed with a friend like you. Hoping to run into you in the 'hood.
Can't wait for the next season!
posted on April 24, 2008 at 9:47 PM
Sylvia wrote:
Jill, you have been my favorite since the first episode, and my friends will back me up on that! I love your loyalty to your friends, your generosity of heart and pocketbook, your sense of fairplay which is balanced by your ability to forgive and to nurture even those who have hurt you. You are a great example of the precept that love poured outward flows back to you. You deserve your wonderful life and I hope you and your family have all the health, happiness and success that life can bring.
posted on April 24, 2008 at 9:54 PM
lois wrote:
you, my Jill, are a class act. I enjoyed you the most..and love your feisty attitude that is filled with truth and laughter. Rock on girlfriend!
posted on April 24, 2008 at 10:02 PM
Kristina DeLeo wrote:
Dear Jill - I have loved this show not just for the fun, glamorous side, but for the people whom Bravo allowed us to "hang out with" on Tuesdays... since I've been home on maternity leave, it's been a great way to pass the time while nursing and in between caring for my munchkins.
That said, you were one of my favorites - for your frankness, good heart & vulnerability... you share a lot of the same traits as my business partner (also a true yenta at heart) & I've been working on her to watch the show - at least in re-runs!!
I loved that this show mirrored real life for the rest of us - the "bigger budget" of our Real Housewives counterparts simply magnifies the good and bad of real-life situations we encounter on a daily basis, from friendships to family relationships to social issues. LOVED IT & loved peeking into East Coast life, too!!
All the best to you and your family. Can't wait until the next season!!!!
posted on April 24, 2008 at 10:12 PM
sonja wrote:
Hi Jill,
I think you're great...and a hereo for putting up with Ramona who is without a doubt the most immature woman past the age of 14 that I've ever seen. Truly, she's odd in the way that she reacts to every situation like a 12 year old...her daughter has twice the maturity and her husband is a DREAM...wonder why they're together...I have my theories...I'm sure you do, too.
What's the DEAL with the countess? Um...hello, why doesn't anybody call her OUT on her highfalutin' "the Count" this, "the Count" that? Pathetic in this day and age...and where the hell did she come from anyway? I'm sure her familee didn't donate the State of L, prolly lived in a double-wide, but she sure does put on a show...and she sure acts like she's from a lineage that aint stinky... Please put her in her place...you're so honest and a great asset to the show. I can tell you have a great heart. Keep rockin! xo GreenwichRichBitchw/xo
posted on April 24, 2008 at 10:18 PM
Cathy wrote:
Hi Jill,
Just wanted to say that you make the show! Without you there wouldn't be a show, you are a connector.
But you are so much more, you are the only one on the show that I can say has really done any work on yourself. By work on yourself I am talking about character building work, not superficial stuff like Romona, uh, that poor daughter of hers. You have a beautiful daughter, the only thing I would recommend is that you love her exactly as she is.
We cannot change what we cannot acknowledge, and I think that is where your frustration comes from with the other housewives (and one househusband). Hehe. Because you do acknowledge yourself and who you are and are willing to change any character defects, has brought you the woman you are today. I see a strong woman but not because you shoot everyone else down but because you can rise above everyone shooting you down. It takes a great deal of humility to forgive and you do it graciously. But rather than get so frustrated and infuriated with all those who cannot be evolved such as yourself, understand that everyone is not on your level and it doesn't have to be your job to make them see the light. Just be a light, and people will radiate to it, and want to have what you have.
Best wishes for your daughter and stepson.
posted on April 24, 2008 at 10:25 PM
Shelly wrote:
Jill,
You were my favorite because you are real without being out of control like Ramona. With all so respect, you react too much to Ramona. Ramona is acting out because of her own insecurity issues. There is some reason why she gets under your skin and I can't put my finger on it. Any time a person reacts in extreme to another's comments, there is usually some other issue that causes that intense reaction.
I wish you the best!!!!
posted on April 24, 2008 at 10:45 PM
Karen wrote:
I have to say that you were one of the kindest people on the reunion special, but it wasn't hard considering the other couch of ladies were so angry. The verbal beating Alex received was not much unlike the physical beating that poor teenage girl in Florida received. Women are always their own worst enemies - and that was proven on the reunion special. However, you rose above it, and I applaud you for it.
posted on April 24, 2008 at 10:55 PM
Melissa wrote:
Jill-
You strike me as the most down to earth, most caring and fun person on the show. You are my absolute favorite! You tell it like it is and don't mince words either. While LuAnn takes her role as countess a little bit too seriously, I like that you take being a "connector" more seriously. People like you help all those around you, and it's the most selfless thing a person could do. What makes it even better is that you do not flaunt your connections. Hands down I think the Real Housewives of New York is a lot more interesting and entertaining than Orange County. I find my mouth wide open for half the show, which is good. Anyway, I love your personality, you're like a friend in my head! Thanks for being you Jill.
posted on April 24, 2008 at 10:59 PM
holly wrote:
Jill,
You are amazing!
You are a lady and will be a lady with our without the money, status, title and all that jazz.
Your heart is true and you are true to your heart.
I wish I could meet you in person, because you are my true role model.
You never hurt anyone, always forgive, help, advise and support.
What more could any friend as for?
I wish you and your family the best.
You deserve everything and then some.
posted on April 24, 2008 at 11:02 PM
Renea wrote:
Jill! We watch because of you! Please come back for Season 2!!!
posted on April 24, 2008 at 11:05 PM
Jill wrote:
Jill,
Love, love, love you, you are my favorite housewife from NY as well as the OC wives, when I think east coast I want to believe all girls are like you!!!!!!
posted on April 24, 2008 at 11:06 PM
Cissy wrote:
Delightful...you truly are. What a neat lady you are. I would love to meet you sometime...you are fantastic! Seems like you and Bethenny are really friends...she is awesome! best of luck to you and your daughter.I was especially interested in the arthritis..and how you handle this with your daughter. You, ma'am, are a lady.
posted on April 24, 2008 at 11:16 PM
gil wrote:
Jill, you are the best. You are way too nice to be friends with Ramona. I hated that she tried to put you on the spot for leaving the LUCA LUCA show. I think she was trying to turn the tables on you for the heat she got about the 'girl's night'. It didn't work, leaving a public event is not the same as a private dinner party.
and she did lie to you about the invite...it seems she was trying to cozzy up to the countess...who said "next time invite Jill too".
You are a fabulous Diva, Yenta, whatever...Please keep being nice and avoid letting Ramona walk all over you....She is crazy and I would hate to be in the same room with her...meanwhile I am dying to meet you!
I am on Team Jill
posted on April 24, 2008 at 11:19 PM
Lynn_In_RI wrote:
I Love You! Simply as that. You kicked ass and took no prisoners. I am going to miss you until you grace my TV screen again next season. Have a great summer. Lynn in RI
posted on April 24, 2008 at 11:36 PM
Betty wrote:
Jill - I wrote this same blog yesterday but for some reason, Bravo decided not to put it on your site.
I am totally house bound due to a serious illness; therefore, I would like to thank you for the hours of entertainment. I wrote initially on the 18th setting forth my feelings about the show; stating I would not watch Season 2 if Alex and Simon are on it. If you are not going to be part of it, there really is absolutely no reason to watch. I don't ever blog, but like so many others, you touched me. I was worried yesterday because you had not updated your blog. I thought something might be wrong with you or your family. Do you see the kind of generous feelings you instill in people? What a wonderful quality you bring to all who meet you (personally and via the TV medium).
I understand and appreciate that your family must come first (as it should be) but have you absolutely decided not to participate in Season 2?
My best wishes and prayers are with you and yours.
posted on April 24, 2008 at 11:46 PM
cindy wrote:
you are classy, sweet, generous, honest...a good wife, mom and friend....oops, daughter and sister too.....thanks for sharing with us....
posted on April 24, 2008 at 11:52 PM
cindy wrote:
you are classy, sweet, generous, honest...a good wife, mom and friend....oops, daughter and sister too.....thanks for sharing with us....
posted on April 24, 2008 at 11:54 PM
cindy wrote:
you are classy, sweet, generous, honest...a good wife, mom and friend....oops, daughter and sister too.....thanks for sharing with us....
posted on April 24, 2008 at 11:56 PM
Anna wrote:
Jill,
I love you Jill! You and Bethenny were my favorites. From the get go, I liked you.. and then I liked Bethenny. Luann is cool too, but lost some points for how she treated the driver. I thought you were real, genuine, down to earth, funny, just a class act. You're secure and comfortable in your skin, which is why I think Ramona is so threatened by you. Forget her, she is crazy, a real looney tunes. :) Her dauther is embarassed by her and I don't know how her husband puts up w/her. Ick. Enough about her. I loved how you just kept it real, money or no money.. you brought humor and grit to the show and showed people, wealth doesn't mean you have to fit some cookie cutter mold that "society" expects. You are a class act all the baby! Much love to you and your wonderful family!
posted on April 24, 2008 at 11:57 PM
Anonymous wrote:
your such a nice person.you were one of my favorite houswifes.i just could not stand Ramona she is so rude, im glad im not friends with her
posted on April 25, 2008 at 12:04 AM
Brandy wrote:
Loved you on the show. You seem true to who you are and I love that you call out everyone on what they say and do, especially Ramona. You and Bethany together are just so fun to watch and hope your coming back for another season. I wish you and your famiy all the best and all our prayers to your stepson on speedy recovery.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 12:39 AM
Judy wrote:
Jill,
I too found you to be the most likeable character. I also concur and respect your insight into the importance of your daughter learning the amount of hardwork that goes into maintaining your lifestyle. I laughed until I cried when you and your friend were making the prank telephone calls to her while she was answering the phones.
Your daughter is a beautiful sweet girl and Bobby seems like he is very sweet man and they both are very good sports. It is so obvious that he and the other husbands, with the exception of Simon are doing this because the love their wives and their wives wanted to participate.
You are a jewel and I look forward to seeing you, Bethany and Luann next season!
posted on April 25, 2008 at 12:47 AM
cyndi wrote:
Jill -- you are MY FAVORITE!!! I love your personality and how warm & funny you are on the show. Can't wait for Season 2!
posted on April 25, 2008 at 12:54 AM
Susan wrote:
Jill, you're wonderful. So funny to see the face behind Zarin fabrics. I think my couch and several other pieces are covered in Zarin. You have beautiful sincere eyes. God bless you and your sweet daughter. But that little dog has got to go. (Ok I'm prejudice against Chiwawa's). I'd really like to know the name of that designer you went to. I'm big-chested too (born with it), and it really irks me that all the great designers work up their dresses on models with no boobs. Oh where can I find the name of that designer. Can you post it? I'm in NY... will definitely patronize the place.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 12:58 AM
Julie D wrote:
Hello Jill
OMG your amazing in this show!!
My sister and I went to camp with Ally and when we saw her on TV, we were like "Holy crap!! That's Ally"
Anyway,
You, Bethanny, and LuAnn are my favorites!
posted on April 25, 2008 at 1:12 AM
michael wrote:
Jill, as a 42 yr.old male in Phoenix.......your husband is a lucky guy!
Best wishes for next season.
Michael
posted on April 25, 2008 at 1:17 AM
Linda wrote:
Jill
You are my favorite housewife. Is there going to be another Real Housewives 2? I hope so! You are inspirational.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 1:22 AM
Lada Corbett wrote:
Please Please Please come back for season 2....I refuse to watch it if you are not a part of it...You are the main reason I watched it this time....I love you dearly and in my world, YOU make this show what it is....Please please please.......I Love You....
Lada
posted on April 25, 2008 at 1:32 AM
Kellie wrote:
Oh, Miss Jill... you are truly an inspiration! You are funny and honest! You appear to have it all, a loving and devoted husband and a beutiful and loving daughter. I must say though, the only fault they showed on TV is that you're friends with Ramona... what is with that woman!!! Other than that minor flaw, I am a "Team Jill" fan through and through!!!
posted on April 25, 2008 at 1:41 AM
Jocelyn wrote:
Jill,
You are my second favorite, to Bethenny, on the show! I absolutely loved watching you two! Y'all's friendship reminded me of me and my best friend! Especially when I was watching you talk to her while she packed! Oh man! My best friend and I laughed sooooo much!
You are a genuine person just like Bethenny! I hope both of y'all are on season two! I would be disappointed if not! I probably wouldn't even watch the show!
Best wishes to you and your family!!!
Jocelyn
posted on April 25, 2008 at 1:49 AM
mama wrote:
I must say all of the children of the New York house wives put the Orange county 'kids' to shame. Much nicer, pleasant and quite mature acting. I'm talking about the older ones of course. (Not Alex and Simon's boys). Jill you have the least comments...take it as a compliment most people didn't have any 'gripes' about you.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 1:50 AM
sarah wrote:
Why so hostile about Simon? I'm not part of the show but I have the sense to know that it may have been to Bravo's benefit for the whole "Alex, Simon, Ramona" none sense to air again.
Don't be a Ramona. You are much better as you.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 1:53 AM
Bev wrote:
Jill, you are great! As I stated to Bethany, it was VERY refreshing to watch you and Bethany.
I think you should know that my perception of you is: if you are their friend then you can definitely count on you for anything! With Jill; What you see is what you get! Way cool! My husband likes you also.
I mean let's face it, you and Bethany are the two upfront, and REAL people on the show! The very reason that many of us turn on to watch!
And please... I also want to know; "why was Simon there?"....He is like a bad penny. He keeps turning up.
Looking forward to Season 2!
Bev
posted on April 25, 2008 at 1:57 AM
Jenn wrote:
I so wish I were friends with you in real life! I really admired you as I watched the show, especially the way you treat your family and friends. I wish you and your family the best. Your stepson is lucky to have you during this difficult time!
Sincerely,
Jenn
posted on April 25, 2008 at 1:58 AM
Jessica S. wrote:
I will tell you Jill what I told Bethanny, I love ya, I love ya, I love ya. I could watch you and Bethanny. You guys had me in stitches! I love how real you two were. I love how you call people out. I think that is great. Can't wait till season 2. Love ya! I am on Team Jill.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 2:01 AM
Angie wrote:
Jill,
I love the fact that you are doing work with the Arthritis Foundation. I was diagnosed with Ankylosing Spondylitis (arthritis of the spine and hips) when I was 8 years old. Arthritis is a terrible disease that affects more people than others realize. I thank you from the bottom of my heart for your contribution to the foundation.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 2:07 AM
Boston Hottie wrote:
Jill,
I have to say....you have a heart the size of NY. You are the most caring and involved person anyone could ever hope for in a friend. You are so kind and always seem to truly be looking for a way to help someone or jump at the chance to do something nice for them. You truly came off with a lot of class. Well done.
I have to say...Ramona. I just cant stand it. There is something medically wrong with her. Psychologically, when you see the white around someones entire iris, that is usually a sign of mania. I hope we arent all using her imbalance for entertainment purposes. But God help you. With friends like that, who needs enemies....or misbehaved chihuahas!!
Love You
posted on April 25, 2008 at 2:07 AM
katie wrote:
Jill! You are the most down to earth out of ALL the housewives.
I'm glad you can stay real and stand your ground when Ramona forgets how to be humane.
Just be yourself. You're good at it.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 2:54 AM
Jen wrote:
Jill, I love, love, love you!! You speak your mind, you are real ... and you treat people the way that you would like to be treated! What I saw of you was a lovely woman who always desired to do the best for everyone that crossed her path, reaching into your depths to give to others! And I love how you loved your dog ... the good, the bad, and the ugly! You ahve a lovely family! Best wishes to you all!
posted on April 25, 2008 at 3:16 AM
Pearl wrote:
You were the greatest!! I love you brutal honesty and admire your success. Your daughter is well grounded that’s to you. The name fit you right… REAL housewife! And disregard what Ramona says about you, after all she a horse on crack!!.. Can you blame her?….ha-ha..
posted on April 25, 2008 at 3:22 AM
Kenny wrote:
Jill I think you are adorable!! I was born and raised on Long Island Oceanside the 6th of the 5 towns. You are everything I remember of my friends moms keep up the good work.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 3:35 AM
Kenny wrote:
Forgot to tell you my friend Julie Budd ( you sound and look like her) lives by you if you ever need an entertainer for your events give her a call
posted on April 25, 2008 at 3:49 AM
Nick wrote:
I liked you at first but you showed your true colors on the reunion show. You couldn't wait to attack Simon & Alex. I believe you ladies are jealous of the fact that they have a very close relationship, unlike you and the other ladies, excluding LuAnn. LuAnn you're pretty cool! Jill, first of all, Simon was obviously there because the producers asked him to be there. Duh! Why didn't you ask the producers or the host that question?
Secondly, for you to say that Alex and hubby are trying to benefit off the show is hilarious, especially when you were on there wearing a "team Jill" T-shirt and donationg 10% to charity. LOL, 10% to charity. What an insult.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 5:38 AM
Nina Boyden wrote:
Hi Jill, First of all, you and Bethany are awesome! You two are my favorite, and I love watching you, like the host said, watching you two is like watching Lucy and Ethel!! Second of all, I do feel like all of you ganged up on Alex and I didn't get that at all. Maybe I missed something, I don't know, but I don't blame Simon for coming out to talk and so what if he did? Whats the big deal about that? And if they want to try and grow into ""HIGH SOCIETY"" so what?? Who gives a ""rats behind""? The rest of you were doing the same thing in your own way, they were just were more blunt about what they wanted out of life and what their goals in life were. At first when I watched the show, it was almost too much for me to handle, they were such ""pseudo intellectuals"" but actually you all were, you all just did it in different styles and in your own way. However, with Alex and Her husband, I felt really bad for them on the reunion show. I felt like they were treated unfairly by the rest of you, I truly do. I wondered to myself if the rest of you were perhaps jealous that Alex has a husband that she is a true ""soul mate"" with. I won't lie, I was jealous watching it. I'm 52, I have been a caregiver
since June 2002, live in a hick town in the Missouri Ozarks, population , maybe 3,000, not sure, don't care. My dad passed on in Feb. and I still live in the family home, that our family has lived in since 1948. Nevertheless, to make my point, it made me a bit envious and jealous watching you women have husbands, and children that are attentive, etc. I say give poor Alex a break. I mean, until we have walked in her moccans, let's let her do her own thing. And if Simon wants to do it with her, let him. Oh, and one more thing, omg,omg,omg,omg,omg,who in the ""F"" does Ramona Petunia think she is? TO WALK OFF STAGE??!!! when the mention of nude photos are mentioned??!!?! I saw those photos and they are not nearly has indecent as Ramona's dancing in that night club that she ""only attended with her girlfriends"" You all need to stop the judging and take a look in the mirror. I felt sorry for Ramona's daughter with the way she acted. Ramona in no way, in no way or shape or form has any right to judge ANYONE on conduct, etc. omg, you all have got me started now and I can't shut up!!!And the weird thing is Alex was my least favorite during the airing of your show, however, I just couldn't stand seeing that poor girl ganged up on like she was on the reunion show!! And that goes for everyone Jill, including ""THE DUCHESS"" I hope there is a chapter in her Etiquette book about ganging up on one guest during a ""girl's night out" OK, I have said way more then I planned on saying, I don't usually even mess with this show. Anyhow, I do wish the best for you Jill, you were my favorite on the show by far. And your husband and daughter are awesome too, and I love your friend too, I'm sorry I can't remember his name. The friend that helps you shop and decorate for your party. I NEED A FRIEND LIKE HIM!!! Have a great summer Jill!!!! """THE SQUIRRAL56"""" from the Missouri Ozarks!!!
posted on April 25, 2008 at 6:46 AM
Tam wrote:
I just finished watching the reunion show where you mentioned that you responded to blogs! I am so excited and hope that I can get some advice from you. I LOVE the housewives show and I am a housewife myself in the deep south. Recently, I have been interviewed for another reality show on Lifetime with a similar theme to the Housewives. I have thick skin, but following your blogs and press reports is brutal! People can be so mean and it amazes me how "serious" people take all of this. After having done in-home interviews I see how easily one can say something stupid or something that is easily taken out of context. Did they use any of the footage from the pre-show interviews? Do you have any advice?
posted on April 25, 2008 at 8:20 AM
Gloria wrote:
Hi Jill
Your blig brought tears to my eyes, you are one classy lady! I hope this doesn't mean you won't be back assuming there wil be a season 2?? Please don't say that - we need you.
You are the best!
God Bless!
posted on April 25, 2008 at 9:51 AM
Anonymous wrote:
I cried when you said about Ally :--"My FIrst, My Last, My Everything". I waited for you my whole life.
I feel the same way about my kids. I'm so glad you put her and the other kids first. Bravo Jill
posted on April 25, 2008 at 9:52 AM
annie wrote:
Jill - definitely come back for Season 2! You are so funny. We need to see more of Bobby!!!! He's just the sweetest, classiest, nicest man. . . and it's clear he loves you very much. What a great couple!
posted on April 25, 2008 at 10:03 AM
mamcita wrote:
Jill, You rock! I hope that you will return for another season. You are truly an inspirational woman. Thank you for showing us all that you can be a down to earth family woman, and still be funny AND fun! Many happy thoughts to you and your family!
posted on April 25, 2008 at 10:55 AM
MJ in TX wrote:
Jill - I would want you to be my friend anytime! You tell the truth, take charge, and would rather apologize for doing something wrong than do nothing. I can't wait to see you next season. Please know that all the Real Housewives in Houston, TX, love you!
posted on April 25, 2008 at 12:02 PM
Patti wrote:
I just want your team Jill tank. I need a x-small and or small. How can I get one?
posted on April 25, 2008 at 12:03 PM
Sabrina wrote:
Jill,
I just want to say first how much I admire you as a mom, a wife, a daughter, a sister and a fabulous friend. I loved you on this show - you gave it the class and honesty it deserved and am sure it showed the "Real" you.
I am a mom going it alone - with "My first, my last, my everything" in my daughter. She is the love of my life. You give me so much hope in watching the love and respect between you and Bobby (and I would LOVE a gay husband too).
Take care and am so glad your son is healing and getting healthy.
Sabrina
Not a housewife-but mom from TN!
posted on April 25, 2008 at 12:25 PM
Ann Stallings wrote:
Jill, I never thought I would watch another reality show but I was home one day cleaning & thought it would be a good backround. I must say I got into it & was sad to hear about your daughter & son & their ailments. I have a product that is really natures miracle. It is called MonaVie & it is a delicious and evergizing blend of the brazilian acai berry, one of nature's top superfoods-and other beneficial fruits. Developed with philosophy of Balence-Variety-Moderation, MoneVia delivers the phytonutrients and antioxidents you need to maintain a healthy and active lifestyle. People who have taken this product reported the relieve of arthritis pain just to name one. My website is www.thegreatproduct.com/benatural I would love to help you, your children & everyone you know live a full and healthier life. would love to talk with you or through e-mail. Have a wonderful day. Ann
posted on April 25, 2008 at 12:50 PM
Beth wrote:
Jill-
First- KUDOS to you! You are an example of what I want my girls to be! You show a social obligation to your heritage and being an American. At the same time you are soft and caring. Thank you for standing for a cause and not making excuses for it when it is not easy. Next- I truly hope that you all complete an second season. I believe that you have the chance to a platform to reach many people. While that does not have to be the cause in the forefront, you all can show that you are valuable members to our society.
I cant figure out how to put in my URL for you to reply! However, love and blessings to you and your family.
Regards,
Beth
posted on April 25, 2008 at 12:53 PM
Jannette wrote:
Jill,
Why did it bug you that Simon was there? Were you in charge of the reunion? What's the big deal? Wasn't he asked to be there. Don;t you have bigger and more important things to worry about? Seriously? And why did you lie about the fashion show? You didn't want to sit in the second row because Ra-mean-a was in the front row. God forbid anyone think you're beneath her! Tell it like it is. Isn't that what you preach? You were mad because she had better seats than you - boohoo. I can't stand Ramona but come on Jill, pull yourself together. You made yourself look like a toddler throwing a temper tantrum. Have some class. You're so much better than that. Don't be a whiner.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 12:59 PM
Joy - CA wrote:
Jill, you really did provide a lot of enjoyable entertainment and I found many traits in you that were warm & inviting. I enjoyed Bethenny equally as much; however, where I feel you both perhaps cross a line is where you each state you are "brutally honest" but "who am I to judge," while you both proceed to judge rather unrelentingly. There is a difference between being honest and then being brutally honest, where the emphasis is on the brutal part. You & Bethenny were utterly brutal at times, sort of like watching wild dogs rip apart raw meat, and I don't find that in keeping with your other finer qualities nor with being a good role model for Ally. While I rolled my eyes at Alex & Simon's behavior a good deal, at the end of the day they are good people, kind & caring, and I don't understand why all of you can't put more focus there rather than on their negatives.
Aside from that, absolute kudos for continuing to be friends with Ramona as I cannot imagine most people even desiring to do that. There are no words to describe her self-involved, childish, petulant,rude, obnoxious behavior. Oh, I guess there are words!! Best of luck in all your endeavors and hopes.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 1:06 PM
Jennifer wrote:
Jill - I noticed you wearing a pair of sunglasses in an episode that were black with a large gold star on the sides. Who's are they and where can I get them? I love them!!!
posted on April 25, 2008 at 1:14 PM
Mathilda Gritzmacher wrote:
Jill, you are just too much! (and the best). I fully enjoyed your total honesty and down to earth attitude. Hope to see you next season -
posted on April 25, 2008 at 1:52 PM
Cindy wrote:
Jill: I'm writing this because you seem to have a way to speak to Ramona. About her walking off stage when the nude photos were mentioned, please remind her that during one show she was prancing around in a bathing suit and talking with her Playmate friend (playmate=nude!) about MILF's and pole dancing - all in front on her daughter. Then she spoke on camera about meeting Mario and how he'd come up to her asking if she was the one who wore a black g-string with green ruffle and she responded: "Yes, that's me". She seemed so proud! So her moral high ground comes across as hypocritical. Ramona already looked foolish for so many reasons (the age-inappropriate clothing, dancing, physco rudeness, all her lying, and trying to be 30 when she's 50). She doesn't have to like Simon and Alex, but she should at least be civil.
I know everyone gave Simon and Alex a bad time about Simon's involvement over the course of the show and especially the reunion show. But I do have to question that obviously the Bravo filming and editing and production persons included Simon. Doesn't it seem that they, if anyone, had the authorization/power to tell Simon that this is a show about the women and keep him in the perifery with the other husbands?
Thank you for coming back for season 2.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 2:24 PM
Heidi Crist wrote:
You are so funny and enjoyable. You could teach Ramona how to have an opinion without serving people on toast. Heidi C. Griffith In. Go Team Jil!!!!
posted on April 25, 2008 at 2:56 PM
mia wrote:
WOW! I just finished reading blog entries from all the girls and Jill I gotta say, you are truly loved! I hope that makes you proud. You really were genuine and funny and real. The love you show your family and friends is truly awesome. I never detected an ounce of negativity with you and that is hard to do with cameras in your face, I'm sure. Too bad you are not coming back. The rest of the girls could use your presence in their lives. But I suspect you will still have contact with all of them, especially Bethany. You two are a great combination. Take care and I hope your family enjoys some good health and much happiness.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 3:42 PM
Alison wrote:
I don't understand what business it is of yours why Simon was there. Maybe you didn't get an answer to your question because he too thought it was none of your business. You come across as extremely opinionated, in a heavy handed kind of way. Not classy at all. I could go on, but I'm not going to bother. Just one last thing, and I'm trying to be helpful here, you can obviously afford a makeover, I would definitely invest in one. If you had a different hairstyle, shorter and softer, I think you would look younger and more attractive. Also, lighter makeup would give you a more youthful appearance. Seriously, it would take years off. You could come back for series two and wow everyone!
posted on April 25, 2008 at 3:44 PM
Kim wrote:
Hi Jill, I have written to each of the other housewives and now it's your turn. I'll start with the only thing that i thought you could have done differently. When asked about leaving the Luca Luca show you said you were not going to sit behind Ramona. You also said that you had confirmed front row seats. After watching you I have no doubt that you had other things going on etc., but I still think you were peaved about the seating, which I don't blame you,if you had made prior arrangements. You should have just stuck with that explanation on the reunion show. No big deal. Now the positive stuff!I found you to be my favorite of the housewives. Ramona talks about honesty, but what she does is not honesty, its mean spirited and just out and out lying. You have the ability to be honest without hurting ones feelings. I like the fact that you remember where you came from and are willing to help others navigate their way through New York experiences (helping Alex and Simon with the school situation). You even said you remember how it felt when you 1st started out. I also appreciate the way you tried to bring everyone together, reguardless of who they were or think they are. Your a great mother, wife daughter, sister and friend. I thought you extended the olive branch to Ramona more times than you probably should have. You always take the high road and that is admirable. I do however think you ought to just cut Ramona loose. She has disrespected you personnally, your home, your guests, and talked about you behind your back.You can only put yourself out there so much and then it becomes fruitless. She obviously doesn't really want you as a friend or she would make some effort. The way she talked about you having no class at the Luca Luca show is beyond me. Everything she critisized you about is her normal behavior, maybe that's how she recognized it. She was just trying to score pts. with LucaLuca. You gave all the parties and get togethers and the 1 time she could have envited you (the cooking party) she deliberately excluded you and threw gas on the fire by enviting Luann. She wasn't friends with Luann at the time, so her motives were obvious. It takes alot of energy to be as spiteful as she is. I don't know why she feels the need to treat you so poorly, but she does. I guess she is just jeolous of you and I can see why. You have a wonderful marriage and family and lots of friends to boot.Your funny and interesting and people enjoy being around you. Instead of resenting you, she ought to take a look at how you conduct yourself and try and emulate you. I'm not saying she shouldn't be herself and try and be you, just that she should look at your good qualities, they are obviously working for you and her way of being in this world is not working for her. I am hoping and praying for a cure for Alli and your stepson's illness's. I heard you were not returning next season, please reconsider. I think it would be a great way to bring awareness to their diseases. Please continue to try and befriend Alex and Simon, I really think they could use a good friend. Even when attacked by everyone, they did show some class, by not retalliating in kind. They didn't once resort to name calling or belittling anyone else. They remained composed at both the reuion and your dinner party. Your a lucky woman to have found such a loving husband. You are beautiful inside and out. GOD BLESS AND KEEP YOU AND YOURS.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 4:05 PM
teamhill! wrote:
i love you jill! i guess you're the most level-headed and classy woman in the show! you know when to talk and when to shut up which is a very respectable trait. i look forward to this kind of reality shows since it inspires me as a housewife to try to be successful and your personality is by far the most inspiring one for me! keep on putting ramona in her place and hopefully you could do the same to bethenny cuz her failed relationships is keeping her close to becoming another ramona which is sad! she compensates her insecurities by attacking people! i appreciated your kindness to alex and simon and their children. that only showed how flexible and level-headed you are! cheers to you and all the best jill! can't wait for more stories about you on season 2!
posted on April 25, 2008 at 4:17 PM
Leonor wrote:
I love you Jill. Don't change a thing, well except maybe just leave Bethenny alone!
posted on April 25, 2008 at 4:28 PM
Julia wrote:
Hello, Jill!
"Housewives" is a guilty pleasure for me, and one that my husband has begged me to refrain from ever watching again. He asks me, "why would you want to know about those people?" It's surprising to me how your lives and your dramas can suck in an audience, a bit like a soap opera might. Maybe that's why.
It has been said that reality shows are a way for "ordinary" people to feel better about themselves. You know, the 'rich people have troubles, too' attitude. I am grateful that the show has a personality like yours who demonstrates real humanity. I loved the episode when you had lunch with your sister and your mother and all of those powerful and successful women. I think people can really connect with your feelings of 'do I belong here?' and 'do people like me?'. Ramona may give the show a lot of excitement, but you are the person most women would love to have as a friend (or a Mom—how sweet of you to offer that to Betthany!).
Thank you for making it seem like a REAL reality show, and I hope you can continue to keep your composure with Ramona.
Julia
posted on April 25, 2008 at 4:46 PM
Kathy O' wrote:
My first blog comment! Throughly enjoyed you and Bethenny. I totally agreed with Ramona about girls night out, Simon did not belong---he didn't wear a dress as promised! I thought that whole thing was Alex's fault--she is clueless in my book. I am not sure about Luann. At times she seemed snobish and other times very compassionate--jury is out there. New York was so much better than California.
Best of health to all your family.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 5:03 PM
Sara wrote:
Jill I think your fab!! You by far are my favorite housewife of NY, I think your social circle is lucky to have such a great person as a friend. I think it was great you finally let loose and gave it to Ramona, i was waiting for that all season. I do have to say you truly have class because you bit your lip quite a bit when it came to her. Obviously I don't know her, only what T.V portrays but she seems not quite right. Like you said you never know what or who your going to get:) Your family seems very nice as well and looks like you all have a lot of fun together. I hope you come back next season. Again i think you are a great person and it's been fun watching you.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 5:04 PM
joan wrote:
Jill:
I would love to meet you some day - your down to earth and you tell it like it is. I like that in a person. Loved your quick wit and your passion for your family.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 5:06 PM
jada wrote:
Jill,
I read that no one has reupped for the next Season.. Would love to see you and Luanne and Bethenny return - Ramona.. no.. In fact why would she care to after what was said about her on the blogs? She is a nightmare! And Simon and Alex, poor souls, misguided and obviously crazy if they reup.. I am sure they destroyed any social standing they might have had in the first place by such pretentious behavior.
The h Real housewives of orange County were so Orange County( what can I say>? I live in LA!) The loud clothes, the hair, the drinking, the boobs! I was hoping for some intelligent NYC gals. Boy was I embarrassed by Ramona.. As a Nyer, I am saying Ramona is NOT A REAL NEW YORK woman.. she is unsophisticated, loud,and phony..has horrendous manners.. She lacks empathy, is self-absorbed and needs to be the center of attention.. a Narcissist..
My advice would be to stay away form her. YOU do not seem like friends.. friends are so much more than that as you well know.. Best wishes
posted on April 25, 2008 at 5:30 PM
jada wrote:
Jill,
I read that no one has reupped for the next Season.. Would love to see you and Luanne and Bethenny return - Ramona.. no.. In fact why would she care to after what was said about her on the blogs? She is a nightmare! And Simon and Alex, poor souls, misguided and obviously crazy if they reup.. I am sure they destroyed any social standing they might have had in the first place by such pretentious behavior.
The Real Housewives of Orange County were so Orange County( what can I say? I live in LA!) The loud clothes, the hair, the drinking, the boobs! I was hoping for some intelligent NYC gals. Boy was I embarrassed by Ramona.. As a NYer, I am saying Ramona is NOT A REAL NEW YORK woman.. she is unsophisticated, loud,and phony..has horrendous manners.. She lacks empathy, is self-absorbed and needs to be the center of attention..she is narcissistic.
My advice would be to stay away from her. You do not seem like friends anyway,really.. friends are so much more than that as you well know.. Your mom and sister and hubby and daughter are great... you are fortunate. that is what life is about..I can tell you are loved right back. Best wishes
posted on April 25, 2008 at 5:42 PM
Roni Barnicki wrote:
You rock Jill!!! I have enjoyed watching the show and you have such passion and love for people...OK Ramona drives me nuts I can't watch her just don't know how you do it she is such a freak of nature I would have knocked her out for being so disrespectful...You are a strong woman! My friends and I are so Team Jill...God bless you and your family! Thanks for doing the show...
posted on April 25, 2008 at 6:50 PM
Maura Sandoval wrote:
Where can I see the finale.. I missed it and don't have Tivo :(
posted on April 25, 2008 at 6:56 PM
Vicky wrote:
Dear Jill,
You are by far the classiest woman on this show. I have never written on any blog before, but you stood out so much in this show that I had to write. You took some "hits" from the other women over the season and you were amazing in the way you let it roll off and just kept on going.
Thanks for your work for the Arthritis Foundation. I have two forms of arthritis and would have been interested in knowing more about your daughter and her struggles. The little that viewers saw will help all of us with arthritis who hear, "You're so young to have arthrits." or "Was it from a sports injury?"
Many thanks to you and your family.
Vicky
posted on April 25, 2008 at 7:17 PM
miss shrieen butcher wrote:
from England London
Hi Jill
your great what are the others like really no class money cant buy that you come across really honest just wonted to let you no i love the show
posted on April 25, 2008 at 7:31 PM
Marcia wrote:
Jill,
I loved you the best out of all the Housewives!!! You seem to make the room light up. I wish there were more people in the world like you. We really need it. You said Bobby said by to everyone for the last time after the reunion, does that mean you all are not going to have another season???
Best wishes.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 7:43 PM
KT wrote:
I love you! I had alot to say about self absorbed Ramona, a little to say about Alex and Simon, who I also love, but for you I can only say I love you. How you can hold it together with class around Ramona is so inspiring. I love you!!
posted on April 25, 2008 at 7:50 PM
meko wrote:
Jill, Loved the show. Cannot wait for the next season. You and Bobby and Ali were so real..showing the trials and tribulations of a blended family. Your love provides the glue that keeps your family and friends together. You supported Bethenny despite her attack-(and I adore Bethenny) you overlooked Ramona's rudeness and her half apologies and lame excuses. You are the Best! Cannot believe that you described yourself as unpopular in HS. Wow, they missed out!
posted on April 25, 2008 at 7:58 PM
A viewer wrote:
Jill,
You were SO great on the show! You were definitely the most real! I liked how you dealt with Alex - you were fair, and asked appropriate questions. But you also challenged her and Simon to be accountable for their words and actions. I knew Alex when she was in college, and she's just the same now. Even then, Alex was so into her much older European boyfriend that she wasn't interested in friendships with women. It was no surprise to me that she wanted to make her own rules and bring Simon to your dinner party. She prefers the company of men, and always has.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 8:01 PM
Susan Paquette wrote:
Hi Jill,
I truly enjoyed the Housewives. I found you all by accident one day, and have rewatched the episodes many times. I think you are a very loving, and loved person. You are passionate about what you believe in and it's obvious you don't like being lied to, as none of us would.I love the way you cart your "gay husband" Brad all over with you.I understand that Bobby is a more reserved person, but would like to see more interaction with him next season, so as to know the "at home" Jill. Your wit and charm are wonderful to see.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 8:10 PM
Valerie wrote:
I have to say Jill, you are the quintessential New Yorker.IF this Country had royalty you would be our Countess. I enjoyed every minute of watching you, your family and your interactions with the other housewives. You were middle of the road (in a good way) throughout the entire season. You're the only housewife I can say I agreed with at all times. Keep being grounded and down to Earth....its an endearing quality.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 8:30 PM
Joan K. wrote:
Hi Jill,
You have everyone else beat on this show, you are the only real person there, well maybe one or two other girls but you are the best.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 8:31 PM
Bridget Kemling wrote:
Jill,
I have to tell you you're such a good mom. I have R/A and know what you guys are dealing with ,its tought .You & I Bobby are a good match . i think Ramona is a little bio-polar and it seems you on some level must relaize that becasue you contine to be her friend. I can't wait till next season
posted on April 25, 2008 at 8:45 PM
trying to help alli wrote:
This is for allison. I have Celiac Disease and have just read this great book about autoimmune disfunctions. There is a great chapter in it about arthritis. The food you should eat and NOT eat. I know you sent her to a wellness center but you didnt go into detail about her diet. I'm thinking though you said she gained the weight back b/c it was just water weight she lost that this is better for her, hopefully. Anyway check it out. Like me I know when you hear something anything you want to look into it to see if it works or at least helps. Its a not an easy diet but with a mom like you you'll be there for her cooking and buying the right food. I also wrote and asked Bethanny if she had any recipes or suggestions for gluten and wheat free food. The book is THE GLUTEN CONNECTION BY SHARI LIEBERMAN, PHD, CNS,FACN with LINDA SEGALL. Good luck cant wait for season 2. GO TEAM JILL :) !!!
posted on April 25, 2008 at 8:45 PM
Tiffany Barlow wrote:
I love your strong personality! You say it and own it. Anyone can respect that quality. You can look at yourself in the mirror and know that you were honest. Your conversations are never disheartening but just truth. There are a lot of people who dont want to see themselves as to who they really are in this world. Keep the class and taste going. You are a good friend to them all.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 8:54 PM
Ceci wrote:
Jill
You are classier and more intellingent than Ramona, she seems to lack any education
posted on April 25, 2008 at 8:55 PM
kathy wrote:
Jill,
I can't believe that I am responding to this blog except to say that I am so intrued by you and so appreciate your persona.
STILL... I saw the season finale and don't understand why you are donating 10% of the proceeds from the sale of your t-shirt. You obviously don't need the $$ so why not donate the total amount to a worthy cause? Maybe the Arthritis Foundation?
Kathy
posted on April 25, 2008 at 8:56 PM
Kim wrote:
Jill, did your daughter see a Lyme Literate MD & was she tested for Lyme Disease & other tick born co-infections? Curious & hope she's doing better.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 8:58 PM
Teera wrote:
You're so real Jill. That's what I really like about you!
posted on April 25, 2008 at 9:01 PM
Dia wrote:
Jill,
I sat mesmerized by the first show and couldn't wait for the following episodes. You are such as "class act" with all that drama going on. And certainly have the patience of Job to deal with Ra-mean-a. I think you're much more qualified to write about manners and etiquette than the Countess. No presense with you - what you see is what you get. Thank you so much for letting us peek into your busy life. Continued success for you and your family!
posted on April 25, 2008 at 9:07 PM
Jenielle wrote:
I was wondering if any one knew anything about jills daughter and her arthritis.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 9:08 PM
Jessica A wrote:
Jill I am a 33 yr old who had Juvenile Rheumatoid Arthritis From age 5 till about 13. I know have degenerative (Osteo) arthritis and have to have hip replacements probably both and probably a knee also. But all in all i cant complain. I can walk and am fully functional. I am happy to hear your support for the Arthritis Foundation. And I wish Allyson the best. I have weight issues also since a child starting with the medications and all I can say to you and her about that is just try to keep it under control there is no need to be "skinny" men like some meat believe me. Its okay but it puts pressure on your joints as I am sure you already know. Anyway you are a beautiful girl and sweet as pie. I thought u were the most well behaved and respectful child on the show. keep moving keep the joints in motion as much as u can bare. My email if u ever have any questions is Demeter909@aol.com.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 9:08 PM
nikole wrote:
does anyone know what the inseam is on jill's team jill yoga pants?
posted on April 25, 2008 at 9:09 PM
carmen wrote:
Jill,
You set an excellant example for today's young woman...you can be beautiful and independent without being trashy. It is nice to see a woamn acheive sucess without using or showing her body. Go team Jill!!!
posted on April 25, 2008 at 9:15 PM
Sheila wrote:
Jill i really love your way of life i was the same i pretty much bought up myself and i think you were right to be pissed at Ramona she act like she isbetter then everyone else i may be poor but you and Bethanny were funny can not wait to see you next season
posted on April 25, 2008 at 9:17 PM
Louise wrote:
Miss Jill,
Thank you for keeping it real all through the entire Season 1.
What has been the most surprising revelation you experienced since this show aired that you may not have known if you had not "done the show"?
How's your step son doing?
What does your sister think of the show now that it has aired? Any chance you will be a guest with her again on her radio program?
What do you real best friends think of the show?
How long do you think your friendship with Alex will sustain when the camera's are not around any longer?
God Bless to you and your family - hope to see you on Season 2.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 9:18 PM
Nancy wrote:
Just want to know what kind of arthritis your daughter has. I have rheumatoid arthritis and wondered if she has the same. If it's not too personal, what kind of treatment does she take and any advice that has worked for her? Didn't really know where to post this, but thought I would give it a try. Thanks a bunch! Love you on the show!
posted on April 25, 2008 at 9:22 PM
Irine wrote:
Dear Jill,
I really enjoy watching you. I think you are great and your relationship with Bethany is one of the kind.
I really feel that the only real people on the show are you and Bethenny.
Ramona is a really psychopath and talking to her is like beating a dead horse. I understand that it is very frustrating to prove you point to her although the proof is on national TV. It seems like she is a liar and she can not even admit any wrong doing ever. It’s obvious she lied about not inviting you to the dinner at the Hamptons and also she never told you she needs to leave early from your dinner party. She is very selfish and she really doesn’t care about anyone but herself.
Alex and Simon are just ridiculous, Bethany couldn’t describe them better. They were trying to back petal their actions but it’s too late. They are who they are, pretentious and fake and definitely trying to be high society.
Regarding LuAnn, I feel that you know that she loves being a countess too much. I think she mentions it too many times as well and doesn’t let anyone forget who she is.
She married a Count from another country and she sometimes forgets that she is in Unites States of America and we do not have royalty here. All people are equal. She definitely thinks she is royalty, which I find it pretentious.
Regarding the incident with the driver, I felt that by her not shaking his hand and correcting you on how she should be introduced to the driver was very disrespectful to the driver and to you. She holds no regard to people.
After the driver incident she decided to check herself and do some damage control, so she ran to the SOHO project to help a homeless woman. It was a ridiculous show and I am sure people see her for what she is, which is a person who thinks of themselves as royalty and does not have any regard or respect for other people that she thinks are not in the same class as her.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 9:23 PM
Diane wrote:
Jill,
I've seen every episode of the show and I have just watched the rap-up or reunion gathering again. You are my favorite house wife by far because I believe that you are the most "real" individual without too much background baggage or nonsensical issues to contend with and the least amount to gain personally from putting your life out for public scrutiny. Ramona is truly a psycho bee-och. She is definitely like a small child and the most self-centered. Everything revolves around Ramona, yet, like Kramer, you can't look away. She is completely defensive because she has no defense, so she attacks. She purposely lied about the cooking party to you and the Countess simply because she wanted the Countess to herself. Just like a small child...she demands alot of attention. Keep her in check....
posted on April 25, 2008 at 9:25 PM
jenn wrote:
I am disappointed- i would have loved a team jill t- shirt but you din't make them in plus size ...
posted on April 25, 2008 at 9:42 PM
shandi wrote:
Hi Jill Zarin... I just love who you are and your honesty.. Your fun loving and don't take no crap, the very least a real friend owes you is honesty and loyalty, I like Ramona but I dont think she knows what a REAL friend is and thats so sad.. Anyway if your ever going to make a apperance in central Florida i would so love to meet you..
Shandi
posted on April 25, 2008 at 10:02 PM
Brielle wrote:
Hi Jill! You are so fabulous, thank you for a great season, I certainly hope you come back for more. You are a such strong person and it shows, and now you have all of Manhattan rooting for the health of your son. And your daughter is so beautiful, she should act. Take care and thanks for being a real rolemodel. Love you!
posted on April 25, 2008 at 10:03 PM
Anonymous wrote:
I would much rather watch you than Ramona. You seem to be a very honest and nice person. I was surprised that you're leaving. Ramona should leave...she only makes a fool of herself and sadly, she doesn't even know it. Goodluck to you and your family. I will miss watching you on the show.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 10:08 PM
Naddy wrote:
I just LOVE you!
posted on April 25, 2008 at 10:15 PM
Cathy wrote:
Hi Jill,
I saw the rerun today of the Girls Night Out episode. There are so many faulters there during that episode that I observed, that it's really not fair to put the blame on anyone, yet everyone is to blame.
First I think it's unfair to the other husbands who did not attend the girls night out dinner to have one husband attend. If one husband is allowed the priviledge than all should have the same prividedge.
Next when it was understood that Simon was to actually attend, it would have been in all fairness to warn the rest of the group beforehand that he would be attending. It wasn't fair to the other females expecting to come to one function and finding another entirely different situation.
But in life nothing is perfect and sometimes things turn out as we would not expect it. Some women just grit their teeth and make the best of a bad situation without saying a word. Some women just go along but have viscious things to say behind others back about the bad situation, placing blame and judgement on others. I say Being prepared for any situation that life throws us whether pleasant or not, enables us to comport ourselves with dignity and acceptance.
You have the ability to sustain your composure and elegance in the worst of situations as you so demonstrated time and time again. That is what most evolved and mature adults ascribe to. Your mother taught you well. And you've picked up some still along the way as well through this journey we call life. You clearly have principles in which you live by.
Next case in point is that we learn from our mistakes, this was clearly a mistake to allow Alex to take control of your dinner party by her requesting her husband to attend an all female event. You can't fault a person for trying to manipulate a situation to accomodate their agenda. But you don't have to give that control to them, and you don't have to give up your power. I remember you saying in your talk to the camera that you didn't know what to say to Alex that you couldn't tell Alex not to bring Simon, but I beg to differ. I hope you realize now that you most certainly could have and should have said to Alex that it was your and bethenny's intention to host an all female dinner party. Saying it in a loving and gentle way, but affirming your stance and control of the party. When you're the host you most certainly can set the tone of your party and what you want to create for it.
As far as the other women who knew Simon was coming, it was apparent that they were all laughing and poking fun behind Alex's back before they even arrived to your apartment. It was misleading to Alex saying that he could come, then talking badly about her and her husband behind their back.
I know that we gossip because it can fun, but really gossiping is a negative engery and can only bring negative engery to the gossipers.
I think this show for you can absolutely be a growing experience. For we cannot change what do not acknowledge.
It takes a great deal of humility to forgive, but forgiveness is the backbone to healing, without it we cannot grow. And you've shown us how to grasciously forgive others who have hurt us.
Rather than get so frustrated and infuriated with all those who cannot be evolved such as yourself, understand that everyone is not on your level and it doesn't have to be your job to make them see the light. Just be a light, and people will radiate to it, and want to have what you have.
Best wishes for your whole family and espcially to your very special daughter, good work Jill!.
posted on April 25, 2008 at 10:16 PM
Brielle wrote:
Hi Jill! You are so fabulous, thank you for a great season, I certainly hope you come back for more. You are a such strong person and it shows, and now you have all of Manhattan rooting for the health of your son. And your daughter is so beautiful, she should act. Take care and thanks for being a real rolemodel. Love you!
posted on April 25, 2008 at 10:19 PM
Rachel wrote:
Thank you so much for calling Romona a "moron".
I have thought that from episode one. I give you
kudos and i must say out of all of the housewives
you are by far my favorite.
:]
posted on April 25, 2008 at 11:30 PM
Becky wrote:
Jill - This is a first for me! I have never responded and/or written to any show before now, but after watching the reunion show and reading your blogs, I felt compelled to do so. After watching the Orange County version (after all, I was born and raised down there, but fortunately now live in the SF Bay Area), I had to laugh uncontrollably since they truly portrayed the housewives for the shallow, selfish, and self-centered money-seeking individuals that they are! I was so looking forward to the NY version, since I've been to NYC several times when working,and absolutely love that City. I'd move there if I could, but I don't think I can convince my husband that the winters in NY aren't so bad (compared to the weather in California???).
All that being said, I thought that you were definitely the epitome of a NYC housewife, not necessarily a "socialite", since I'm still not sure if that is a putdown or not! But, I do believe that you, out of all of the other housewives, truly represent NY for what it is ---- upfront, tell-it-like-it-is with no apologies, but doing it with the utmost class and even with a great sense of humor. Given that we only see what the producers want us to see, it's hard to make harsh judgments of the others. But after watching the reunion show, my mind is definitely made up about Ramona - not surprising! I can only hope that she takes some lessons from her daughter before it's too late or she will turn Avery into a stepford-NYC housewife like herself! Either that, or instead of investing in skin treatments so she feels comfortable wearing dresses that are 2 decades too young for her (!), she should take some time to get therapy to salvage what's left of her marriage and her daughter.
I'm sorry you won't be there for next season, but hats off to you for deciding (rightfully so) that family is much more important than getting "face time."
I'm hoping to find time to stop by Zarin Fabrics when I'm there this Fall to see you, Bobby (what a great guy he is to put up with all of that bulls***), and Ginger. I'm sure she'll be "trained" by then! My only regret is that I can't convince my true love to move East; I'm sure I would have much better success with my gift basket business with friends like you and your "gay husband" and "friends" than I have right now!!
Stay true to yourself! Thanks for making me laugh. I had spinal surgery earlier this year and it literally hurt to watch you guys on TV!
posted on April 26, 2008 at 12:43 AM
karen wrote:
Jill, you are madly loved. TRUTH TRUTH TRUTH and more truth...hahhahaha Your every assessment is perfect and your every response is priceless. You are a 1 hour vacation. You handle it all perfectly. It is the glue of you that is making the entire show radiate.
I hope all is getting better with the FAM!
Enjoy yourself. You deserve this.
From a Jersey girl stuck in lovely Upstate ... God, I am so bored up here; you have no idea.
posted on April 26, 2008 at 1:26 AM
Laura wrote:
Jill, I have made a comment on every other wives blog that contained either criticism or support, and saved you for last. Why? Because I have no criticism whatsoever to make of you! I don't like to be critical, but I felt so bad for Alex and Simon I had to call everybody out on their cruelty and hypocrasy. You, however, stand head above everbody when it comes to class, including the Countess! You should be the one writing a book about class! You truly seem like a wonderful, positive, caring human being. I'm counting on YOU Jill, to teach everyone else on the show next season how to be classy and be respectful of Alex and Simon, even if they are joined at the hip, have an unfinished house, or overdulge their children. Don't tell me you don't overinduldge YOUR children, husband, friends, even your dog. It's just called love, having a big heart, and I know you do. And with all of that class, you are humble as well! God Bless you and your family, and I hope your son is well!
posted on April 26, 2008 at 1:34 AM
Katie wrote:
The funniest part of the entire season was at the reunion when you said "Cher, call me! Call me Cher!". I laughed my ass off.
posted on April 26, 2008 at 1:43 AM
Sandra wrote:
Jill,
You're the yenta/Mother Theresa ... and you're terrific! Love your accent. By far the best one on the show!!! Hope to see you back for more seasons. Good luck and health and happiness to you and your family!
posted on April 26, 2008 at 3:01 AM
Linda wrote:
Jill,
I just finished watching the reunion show. I think they should get rid of Luann, Alex and Ramona(she's way to scary for me) and just make it "The Jill and Bethanny Show" the two of you are just to funny. The clip of you two going back and forth was great, THANKS for the laugh!!!
Speaking of the reunion show, there was another part of the show that busted me up. I don't know if you have seen the show yet or even if you have I just have to point out this part. When Simon and Alex were asked about the nude pictures, did you happen to notice the ever so graceful way Ramona got up from the sofa??? A woman who claimed to know the true meaning of "class" gets up from the sofa with her legs spread apart. Not good!!! The fact she had to leave because she didn't like the talk of the nude photo's and pulled something like that. "CLASSY move there Ramona" Did she find the rest room???
I look foward to next year!!! I hope Ally and your stepson are doing well. They are lucky to have you!!!
p.s. I'm will be a first time grandmother this summer. Congrats!!
Linda
posted on April 26, 2008 at 7:35 AM
jay wrote:
Jill
You are the classiest woman on the show because you are real,i just don't know how you put up with that fruitcake ramona
posted on April 26, 2008 at 8:28 AM
laura wrote:
Dear Jill
It is plainly obvious that Ramona is not well mentally. Therefore I can truly understand you forgiving her for her actions. It does not due anyone any good to bash her, everyone should wish her well. You truly are an incredible woman, like your mother and your daughter is an incredible woman like her mother! Wishing you and your nothing but happiness and love. Look forward to seeing you in Season 2.
Laura
posted on April 26, 2008 at 9:07 AM
Laura wrote:
Jill!!!! I really hope you are back for another season of the Real Housewives! I LOVED you and Bethenny on the show! You two really do make it with your humor and comments!
I will definitely miss you if you aren't on season 2! :(
TEAM JILL!
-Laura
posted on April 26, 2008 at 9:53 AM
kpoteet1970 wrote:
Are you going to do a second season?
posted on April 26, 2008 at 10:17 AM
mary jane wrote:
You were my favorite. I felt like inviting you to my beach house for a glass of wine and laugher. Hope you come back.
posted on April 26, 2008 at 10:26 AM
Dora wrote:
Jill,
You and Bethany are by far my most favorite to watch!
You both are so funny and entertaining! I just love watching the two of you together. I can not wait for season 2. Team Jill all the way!!!
posted on April 26, 2008 at 11:49 AM
Sydney wrote:
Hi Jill, I just wanted to say that I love you and think you are such a doll and a beautiful person. I just hope that you will be back next season because you are the one I enjoy watching the most. I love that you are so sincere, kind, and honest. I don't understand how you could even want to be friends with Ramona or even extend any enery being her friend because she is not deserving of a friend like you. She doesn't think beyond herself and is very self centered. By the way, I love your hair. Take care and the best to you and your family.
posted on April 26, 2008 at 11:56 AM
Sarah O wrote:
Jill,
You mentioned your stepson on the show and I wanted to write and tell you that he should go see
Dr. Kenneth Liegner in Armonk, NY- he is expensive but worth it. I have wanted to write you before about
your daughter. My daughter had arthritis and that turned out to be Babesiosis, a tick borne disease like Lyme disease. There are many TBDs that even expert rheumatologists do not know about- there are strains of Babesiosis, strains of Anaplasmosis, that can test negative. MDs will sincerely tell you it can't be Lyme or other TBDs but often they know little about it- a good site for TBD expertise is ILADS.org I would really urge you to get your stepson and Ali evaluated by a TBD expert- Kenneth Liegner or Richard Horowitz are both excellent- Liegner is in Armonk, NY. The tests for these diseases are not accurate- false negatives are common. My daughter is in full remission and has no pain and hasn't for years- it is great. It is MORE than great.
Often people in the same family get infected- not just because of shared tissue types which is a factor- not in your case as your stepson & Ali are step related, not blood- but also because of shared physical geography and exposure to ticky areas. All of NY is a ticky area- including the Hamptons!
I enjoyed your spirit very much and hope you will
do another year of the show.
Take care,
Sarah O.
Aptos, CA
1-831-662-2895
(I do a TBD hotline from my home phone for Californians, so you or anyone reading this who suspects a TBD is free to call)
posted on April 26, 2008 at 11:58 AM
Kathleen wrote:
Jill,
You are without a doubt my favorite person on the show. You are honest, without being hurtful, kind and seem like the type of person who would give the shirt off your back. Ramona is rude and hurtful and she did LIE about the cooking party. It was obvious she didn't want you there and I truly believe she is just a jealous wretch. I also really enjoy your interactions with Bethany---what a riot! Can't wait to hear and see more about you.
posted on April 26, 2008 at 12:16 PM
Nicole wrote:
Jill,
You are by far the most genuine and grounded person on the show. You are a loving mother, wife, sister,daughter, and friend. I loved watching you and often wished some of the other ladies would take a page from your book in how to relate to others. Your genuine care for friends and family showed and I think you have every reason to be proud of how you live your life. While you have financial wealth it is also apparrant that you have a wealth of character as well. Were I to appear on such a show I would hpe that iwould see in myself the traits you displayed. as for the definition of class...I think you are it. Looking to seeing you in season two.
Nicole from Chicago
posted on April 26, 2008 at 12:27 PM
J wrote:
Jill,
I thought you were great ... however, if ever there were a time for you to walk away or out of something it should have been when B threaten to stab you in the eye with chop sticks. It appeared that everyone at the table were appalled by that statement.
posted on April 26, 2008 at 12:33 PM
Helena wrote:
Jill,
Why not admit that you do care about sitting front row? Jill your "Team Jill" yoga pants are on fire. Your calendar may be full because you spend money at the charity events etc and I think you're a laughingstock amongst the real "socialites of NYC" who'd never invite you to an intimate dinner party. You're loud and gauche.The next time you're not invited to a small dinner party, please don't whine. You're not that popular and it's ok. Life goes on. Without you.
posted on April 26, 2008 at 12:51 PM
Jackie wrote:
Jill
You are my favorite on the show you keep it real and you care. If I was you i will surround myself with real friends. Ramona makes the ugly in you come out so she is too insecure person with double personality. She has so much growing to do i cannot believe that she runs a business when she does not know how to communicate. Jill don't change always keep it real that is what makes you stand out.
posted on April 26, 2008 at 1:36 PM
Bryan wrote:
Definitely an LA member of Team Jill!!! Love you! I'm moving to NYC in the fall! Find me an apartment!
posted on April 26, 2008 at 2:21 PM
Zak wrote:
Of the five women on the show, I was impressed by JIll the most. Here's a wealthy woman and socialite, but she's very down to earth in the sense that she doesn't wear her status like a badge. She never came across that way to me, as I viewed the show. In that respect... she seemed the most grounded of the group. I remember when being interviewed by her sister about "isn't that a bit like keeping up with the Joneses?", her response was perfect... stating that yes, that was probably true in the begining, but now I don't feel compelled to keep up with the Joneses, "I am the Joneses!" And, it wasn't said in a conceited way. It was just a simple way of saying, I don't still feel the need to pursue being like the Joneses, I've acheived my level of success... and I'm very comfortable with where I am at this point in my life. To me... that response was very succinct, honest and "real." And, i fell in love with her... immediately.
posted on April 26, 2008 at 2:27 PM
JT wrote:
Wow - saw you in the reunion and WOW! you look very HOT
You were always glam for me (gay guy) but you ooozed sexuality (in classy way) in that reunion
GREAT JOB, HOt Mamma!
posted on April 26, 2008 at 3:58 PM
Laura wrote:
Jill...Jill....Jill...hahahahaha...you are the kind of woman I could call a "real friend." I am so impressed with your honesty, your passion for life, your humor and, especially, your genuine love & concern for the people in your life. You have a spontaneous generosity about you...I saw it! I only wish I could sit down and talk to you. We could compare notes about life in New York and LOUISIANA...the heart of Cajun Country. You would love it and we would love you! Be at peace! Laura
posted on April 26, 2008 at 4:04 PM
gail grant wrote:
Jill is the Bomb! I love the way she speaks her mind she is the kind of woman you would like to has as a big sister or best friend you can go to her and she'll lays it on the line.I wish actully knew her so she could keep me in line. And her husband seems perfect for her
posted on April 26, 2008 at 4:11 PM
Karen wrote:
I am definitely on your side when it comes to your bud Ramona. She is soooooowound up!!!!!!She constantly makes a fool out of herself with her comments and actions. She does not have any class or style when it comes to her wardrobe and behavior. I don't understand how she landed her hubby he seems like an alright guy.
Jill, You seem like a down to earth type of person. Alex and Simon do not belong with you and the rest of the cast.
posted on April 26, 2008 at 4:15 PM
Sofia wrote:
Yes, Jill, I do believe you were the best one on the show. I really admire you and I'm definately on Team Jill!!!!!!!
posted on April 26, 2008 at 4:22 PM
Kayshauna L. Thompson wrote:
Dear Jill,
Throughout this season I have grown to love and appreciate ur personality and charisma. U always put ur family first and aalways try to be a helping hand to others. That is what is most important... family, friendship, humbleness. That is probably why u r so blessed and the others (Ramona and LuAnn) have problems connecting with the outside world. (Because believe me, ur lifestyle is one that everyone would love to have.) I honestly wish I could invite u over for a glass of Reisling, u r just such a joy. (Dont worry my house doesnt look like Alex's, lol. Much, much cleaner!)I will be praying for u and ur family and hopefully, you will change ur mind about Season 2. Jill U R THE BEST. Continue to be the blessing that u r to the world! Smooches! xo
posted on April 26, 2008 at 4:30 PM
Becky wrote:
Jill,
I really enjoyed watching you. It seems like you'd welcome anyone you liked into your fold--not just the affluent--and that's really great!
About Bethenny's "skewer in the eye" comment: I think she might've been trying to stop you from going toward the "maybe next time it'll be a ring" conversation. Just guessing, but she seemed uncomfortable talking about that stuff in front of Jason, and maybe it's a sore spot with him.
Re: Ramona...she's so erratic and unapologetically rude! I get the sense that you really don't like her very much, and wish you'd've said so, even if "owning it" might've made you look bad. (I don't think so--she's just a shrew!)
I hope you are back next season. I like your positive energy and willingness to laugh at yourself. Best of luck to you and your family, and I will be keeping your daughter and stepson in my thoughts and hoping they are well.
Thanks for sharing yourself!
posted on April 26, 2008 at 4:35 PM
Ksmitty wrote:
Jill,
You rock. I love the advice your Mother gave you in the car. You can tell she had a terrific influence on you. Honestly, I dont blame you for walking out of the show. You were outfitted in his design - it must of been humiliating. Also, I loved when you beat Ramona in tennis..
posted on April 26, 2008 at 4:43 PM
Angela wrote:
Jill,
You and Bethany were my favorites. Ramona reminds me very much of a squirrel wearing a blond wig - what's with that. I am glad that you two kept them honest at the reunion show. Alex and Simon are too strange for words. As for class - I am not sure how to define it - but the honesty, humor and intelligence that you and Bethany exhibited through the show has to qualify. All my best.
Angela
posted on April 26, 2008 at 4:52 PM
Lisa wrote:
Hey Jill...What is the Jewish term for 'saint'? You are one to deal w/ Ramona (Rameana)! You exude tact, class and humor. I was SO glad you won the tennis match. TELL ME IT ISN'T SO....please come back for Season 2! I just love your New York accent! By the way, every girl needs a gay male best friend (husband). Mine surely has better fashion and decorating skill than I.
Lisa
posted on April 26, 2008 at 4:56 PM
Angie wrote:
Hello Jill, I really love your honesty about how you feel about people and their actions. I have two things in common with you. The first is your beautiful daughter and dealing with with her rheumatoid arthritis and your stepson and his Stills disease. I was shocked to hear you say that your stepson had Stills Disease. I am a 49 year old female and was diagnosed 2 years ago with Stills Disease, as you well know most people has never heard of the disease. The disease attacks my muscles and joints. This disease has changed my life so much for the good and the bad. May God bless you and your family much health and happiness.
posted on April 26, 2008 at 4:59 PM
Caligirl wrote:
Jill-Please quit shilling your crap on the websites. You do not need more money, and besides it makes you look a lot like Ramona.
I do not think you are mean and backstabbing like Ramona and Bethenney. I think you are weak and sometimes shallow and very insecure, though. When you notice something wrong you don't say anything. You need to get more self-confidence. Example: When the other "ladies" were insulting Alex about her house-you were the only one who didn't chime in. Kudos. But, you didn't say one word in her defense either. This happened quite a bit in the series. LuAnn was the one to bring Ramona in line at your party when it should have been you.You are too much into the whole society and pretentious stuff. You have it in you to be a better person than all that.
posted on April 26, 2008 at 5:06 PM
LJ wrote:
Jill, you are a really nice hypocrite. You totally lied about NOT being upset at sitting behind Ramona at the fashion show. The two of you deserve each other. It is no wonder that the more refined LuAnn and Alex got along better. Just because some people have elegant mannerisms DOES NOT mean they are snobs. A truly secure woman would not be threatened or made to feel uncomfortable because someone can speak a foreign language. YET turn around and criticize them for not traveling in the PROPER SEASON- even quoting the PRICE OF THE ROOMS! Whose a SNOB now! Oh and a truly nice person would not offer to help someone get their child into a prestigious school and turn around and call them a Socialite Wannabe for doing so. All I have to say is one of your faces is very nice, BUT that other one is NOT!
posted on April 26, 2008 at 5:13 PM
Lisa wrote:
You are such a neat woman! You, Bethany and LuAnn are my favorite wives. I don't do reality shows, and I couldn't watch the Housewives of OC (I have a vacation home in Lake Havasu - somebody needs to tell Califonians that they forgot there manners). I needed to watch women with some class. With a one exception, I think that four of you have that. It was nice to see the dynamics of the all five women's relationships and how it matchs to the other four women that I hang out with. All the love, struggles, fights, hugs and laughter is there no matter where the place. I really look forward to seeing you next year! Hey, see if you can get Bravo to do a "Win a Trip with the Housewives in your area to meet the Housewives of New York City" That would be fun!!!
posted on April 26, 2008 at 6:10 PM
Linda wrote:
Hi Jill,
I just finished watching the episode where you go to your sisters house and you said you were from Woodmere.
Did you go to Lawrence and if so what year did graduate? You semm very familiar to me and you are the only real person on the show.
posted on April 26, 2008 at 6:14 PM
Vicki wrote:
Jill,
I love you. You are stunning, smart, funny and just a pistol. You remind me of myself minus a tv show and all your money. You and Bethenny are awesome. Hope to be watching season 2.
posted on April 26, 2008 at 6:50 PM
Meggie wrote:
Jill as a former New Yorker you are such a breath of fresh air, you say what you think and are so open I love it. I lived in NY actually on LI for many years, you go girl. Love how you are so independent and honest. Bravo to you.
Meggie
posted on April 26, 2008 at 7:08 PM
Shel wrote:
Jill, you are great on TV!! I loved watching your & Bethany's opinion. You two are way better than Laverne & Shirley!!! And liked that show way back when...
I absolutely don't blame you about Ramona - she was way out of line.
God Bless & take care!! I hope to see you on season 2, providing there is a season 2...
posted on April 26, 2008 at 7:18 PM
lynn wrote:
Jill,
You were the most "real" of all. I loved your segments, and loved the show
posted on April 26, 2008 at 7:20 PM
Deana wrote:
You are by far my favorite 'Housewife'. If I were you, I'd tell Ramona to take a hike. She seems like such a useless person. The only negative thing I really have to say about you is that I'm suprised you joined in on the berating of Simon and Alex. I agree with alot of the points made at the reunion show. But it wasn't fair for everyone to come down on them like that. I would have expected you to defend them. Team Jill!!
posted on April 26, 2008 at 8:13 PM
Hilary Levine wrote:
Jill, Loved the show!!! My mother and I couldn't get enough. I also come from people where it may not be pretty but it is what it is ~ own it...oye Ramona, enough said!
I am a decorator and am passionate about fabric, before babies worked for R. Allen. Weeks ago when my husband was in NYC for business I just had to go to the Lower East Side and take a look. (when I called my mother from the cab she just about fell down). The whole thing was so surreal...David was very nice. You have the most beautiful and impressive selection! I'd love to shop there for upcoming projects. Can't wait for season 2.
My heart and thoughts are with Jonathan....
Hilary - Color Wheel Design Co
posted on April 26, 2008 at 8:22 PM
Eileen Morrissey wrote:
Dear Jill,
You mentioned that you are involved with the, "Arthritis Foundation". I don't know if you are familiar with Dr. T. Colin Campbell's work, "The China Study". I heard him on a radio show called "Coast to Coast AM", It aired on Dec. 3, 2005. Dr. John McDougall and Dr. Neal Bernard, in my opinion, are also two Physicians that I would check out. I hope this is helpful for your daughter and your family. Take care. Sincerely Eileen
posted on April 26, 2008 at 8:29 PM
Jay-Jay wrote:
I have total respect for you. You are one stand up lady. You keep it real. I admire you for that. I hope to see you in the 2nd season. I also want to let you know that I am quite sadden to hear about your son's health. I wish you and your family the best.
P.S. I would have done the same like you if I had to sit behind that person I wasn't liking that week. So need to to explain yourself, I think all the viewers "got that".
posted on April 26, 2008 at 8:38 PM
Marge in Charleston, SC wrote:
Jill! You are so famously adored down here in southern belle land! We all want a luncheon with you! I liked your sister as well! I really wanted you to punch Ramona for me! Verbally, that is! How much class you have over tinsel toes tacky! I think you deserve a show all your own. Come on down to Charleston, SC and let us regale you with questions and queries! Bring your lovely daughter! She is an upandcoming. Bring your MaMa! Come on Down!
posted on April 26, 2008 at 8:47 PM
Angela wrote:
Hey Jill,
The reunion show cemented a lot of things. What a shame Ramona didn't take the opportunity to redeem herself. Bethanny has FINALLY shown her less abrasive side. The Countess is, well, the Countess. And Alex? She's less than doomed - she's hopelessly common.
As for you - I remain impressed. People take offense when you stand up to their nastiness, but you always come out on top.
Ally - you have an awesome mom. Bobby - you have an amazing wife. Hope to see all of you next season.
Angela
posted on April 26, 2008 at 9:01 PM
Sharon C wrote:
I am a professional woman in my mid forties from Boston and have traveled to NYC quite a bid. I truly loved this show and all the intersting woman. I have always accepted people for what they are as each person is different and variety is the spice of life. I am hopeful the ladiees will allow us a 2nd season !! and it comes FAST. Thanks for such a great season !!
posted on April 26, 2008 at 9:43 PM
mariko bradley wrote:
dear jill you are one of my favorites I love your frankness and loving nature, you are truely a woman of class and devotion to your family and friends. anyone who has you for a friend should count their blessings,thank you for showing everyone watching the real housewives ny that people who have your wealth also have a loving and kind soul and are not totally caught up with the wealth. may god bless your stepson and give you all strength during these trying times. I know about life threatening illness I was diagnoised with stage three breast cancer 3years ago and I am a survivor I have had my left breast removed and am still struggling with the emotional stress and feelings of not being whole. So keep the faith your daughter is adorable and of course so are you.
posted on April 26, 2008 at 9:45 PM
erin wrote:
Dear Jill,
someone else wrote:
(i wanted to comment on her post)
"Jill,
Someone needs to tell you that "Team...Whatever" is soooooo yesterday. You just appear stupid by keep saying it over and over and over and over and over. The whole concept is over and over and over. That just shows how out of touch with reality you and the entire cast is ...."
posted on April 24, 2008 at 8:50 PM
blah, BLah, bLaH...
I plan on buying one..especially when I heard a portion of the proceeds are going to charity! I was reading through and saw this post and thought it was so ironic. I found it humorous that someone who is talking about how much she despised the show...took the time to comment on your blog. How lost and broken you will be from her proclaiming not to watch season 2. Speaking of...
Read in another post that you aren't going to be a part of Season 2....hope this is incorrect.
You and Bethany are perfect chemistry and a joy to watch! I love your firey personality and I wish I was more assertive like you! You all seem so confident and beautiful. In fact, I imagine that your confidence is part of what makes you all so beautiful...a little part ;-)
I love watching shows with such intelligent and confident women. As a young-ish 30 something...lol...I find it very inspiring!
I'm usually quite the opposite but maybe I will pick up some pointers from you girls!
That's why you HAVE to come back next season!
Hope the family is well and that your step son has gotten better!
Have a great summer!
e.
posted on April 26, 2008 at 10:18 PM
Tracey wrote:
Jill, you are truly wonderful. You are honest but you sugar it with love, laughter and joy. I love that you called Ramona out. Ramona is truly someone that would drive me crazy.
posted on April 26, 2008 at 10:35 PM
Anouska wrote:
I have to admit it: at first I thought you were the absolute NYC stereotype. Your voice, your personality..but I've really warmed to you. You may always want to have the last word, but that's because you ultimately want to make sure everyone is loved and taken care of. If there's one vibe I've gotten from you it's warmth and love. It's a rare gift in this world anymore. You even have the grace to actually want to be around Ramona after her tactless behavior on numerous occasions. If that's not winning you points in heaven I don't know what would. Your daughter is so unassuming and sweet, a real doll. You have obviously raised her well. The other children on the show seem like little divas and divos in training. Thanks to your humor and loving nature, you've made the show much less shallow and more fun to watch.
posted on April 26, 2008 at 10:50 PM
Caroline wrote:
I was mortified at the way you all treated Alex and Simon on the show. Like a pack of hyenas, showing their teeth, and getting ready to eat the wounded prey. You all kept just beating them to death. Okay, we all know they are a bit pretentious. So what? Why'd you all have to embarrass them so much on national tv? True class would have been to let them off easy and have some dignity. They never did anything mean to any of you and yet you could not do the same in return. I think we all know now who may just have the most class.
posted on April 26, 2008 at 11:18 PM
Danielle wrote:
Hey Jill. You are my favorite NYC Housewife! I'm visiting New York City for a couple of days. I can tell why you love it so much here. I can't get over how awesome it would be to actually live here. My dad and I were down at Times Square last night and I saw a yellow Ferrari pass by and I was like "Dad that might be Jill." lol who knows it probably wasn't but just to think that it could have been is cool. Well maybe I will get lucky and see you walking down the sidewalk while I'm here. If not gave a great summer and can't wait to see you in the next season!
posted on April 26, 2008 at 11:27 PM
Rita wrote:
Jill your honesty is so funny to me. I have always been the one that you either like or you don't, because of my honesty or my option on things. It was nice to see someone else out there that is on the same wave length. I also loved how you are making a point to show your daughter that if she wants to continue to have the life style that she is accustomed to, she will have to work for it. I am raising daughters myself and I drill that in there heads everyday. Especially when you see so many women today depending on a husband, boyfriends or whom ever to take care of them. You are great! Keep doing what you are doing and have a great time. My prayers are also with you and your family in regards to your stepson's illness. Remember god never gives you more then you can bare. Be strong, you have friends out here that are praying for you and your family.
posted on April 26, 2008 at 11:35 PM
caroline wrote:
jill, you by far are the best on the show. you and your jersy accent are hatericall. your daughter, alley, is gorgeous, your dog, is so funny to watch. i would kill to see a season 2 of the real houswives of new york city!!! i don't are what anyone says, you rocked this show, my mum is like in love with you, bobby is soo funny, brad( your gay husband) was sooo funny, and sounds like a good stylist! and last but not least alley, is soo cooll, i am 13 and would love to meet here and luanns daughter victoria.. thanks and best of luck to you in the future!!!
:)
posted on April 27, 2008 at 12:01 AM
Shirene Rabideau wrote:
I Love you Jill. I just bought 2 t-shirts for your charity. You are like me, honest, charitable, compassionate & strong. My cat licks my ear and I love it! Don't stop getting affection from anywhere you can get it!. Ali is so great! All I see is what is on tv, but you made me laugh so hard when she was working there! I almost pee'd my pants (I'm going to be 46 in July and I don't need depends yet, but that was close). I don't know if you really read all of this but I think Ramona is Bi-polar. There is something about her eyes - you never see the white's of someones eyes unless they are manic or on drugs. You handled yourself with composure, tact... but were strong. I can't believe I am actually writing this, but, I think you are great! I went to NY last November, and coming from Seattle, I was a little afraid. I had the most wonderful time!! I love NY! I can't wait to go back!! Probably would never happen, but I would love to meet you some day. My son's Godmother is the mother in law of the musical producer of Saturday Night Live(Leon Pendarvus) - Jill Armsbury is his wife and and my adopted little sister that has been battling lung cancer(Mesothelomia). She's amazing! Jill still sings and if you ever want something latin, Jill is the one!. Especially after the strike. If you can help my friend Jill, I would appreciate it it, but she can't know. Jill, you are amazing. I don't know if I will ever meet you, but it was a pleasure seeing you and your honesty. Most Sincerely, Shirene Rabideau (shirenerabideau@comcast.net) ps. I meant what I said, when I will donate hand blown glass items to your charity! Shirene
posted on April 27, 2008 at 12:53 AM
Kathleen wrote:
Growing up an Irish Catholic in Brooklyn, I had many, many wonderful Jewish girlfriends. You remind me of a few of them and bring back such fond memories. If I were fortunate enough to be wealthy and in your social circle, I know we would be true friends because you are a completely honest and faithful friend. Alas, now that I live in Lancaster, PA, I only get into the city about 6 times a year to catch Broadway shows.
By the way, I know you are a forgiving person and you mention often that you and Ramona are again friends, but I would caution you to be wary of her. She is a conceited, deceitful liar and even she can't keep track of her lies. I am mystified as to how Mario and Avery are from the same family. It's obvious that she has very little formal edication because she is constantly mispronouncing common words. She's like a bull in a china shop, and maybe that explains why she's a good businesswoman.
posted on April 27, 2008 at 4:19 AM
Sara wrote:
Jill- I thought you were great on the show,you had fun and seemed like you were a great support to the other ladies.
The only thing Alex and Simon came off as fake,I don't care how much they say it was the editing, please. Why do you keep defending them?
Take care you were all real joy to watch on the show.
Girlygirl.
posted on April 27, 2008 at 4:52 AM
Dana wrote:
Jill, you and Bethenny are my favorites. I like LuAnn too. But you and Bethanny are the most real and honest and I love you for that.
I seriously don't understand why any of you bother with Ramona. She is an idiot! That is the truth. Is it any wonder that her daughter is constantly embarrassed by her? Even she is more mature!
I was so happy to see Alex and Simon (LOL) called out on being the phonies they are. Although I do believe Simon to be kind-hearted, but that's the only good thing I can say about them. And let's face it, Alex looks like a scarecrow, and no expensive outfit will change the fact. Anyway, they disgust me. End of story.
I will be looking forward to Season 2 to have you back. Best wishes to you and Bobby! I hope your stepson will be okay. And congrats on your first grandchild! xo
posted on April 27, 2008 at 7:21 AM
Leslie wrote:
Jill,
What you see is what you get. What I see in you is nothing but excellence. Loyal friend, mother and wife. I just loved it when you don't let the other housewives get away with anything. You call a spade and spade.
Jill without you this season the show would have been a flop. Please say you are coming back for season 2.
Good luck to you and your family.
posted on April 27, 2008 at 8:12 AM
Capibarra wrote:
Jill, it appears that in spite of the cameras you managed to be genuine. You are funny, honest (without being a total freak of a b-word, which is a reference to Rameana) and gracious. Thank you for doing the show, you are a real inspiration and a beautiful person, inside and out.
posted on April 27, 2008 at 8:14 AM
Joy wrote:
Jill,
You are just an amazing lady. I was so impressed by your lack of pretense and your giving warmth. You have a great sense of humor and seem so very real. Your friends are all fortunate in having you in their lives. Your mother and sister are marvelous. Kudos to you for keeping it real and warm!
posted on April 27, 2008 at 9:42 AM
mara wrote:
Jill,
You seem like a good person, generous and kind to your friends. You really don't need someone like Ramona who, based on the show, seems like a 40-something Catholic schoolgirl. She's self-centered, crude -- quite frankly, a jerk. She makes for good TV only because she's so annoying. Please, please, please don't let her get under your skin. As for Betthany's outburst, you really should have pulled her to the side -- I hope you did -- and told her off. There was no excuse for that outburst. She could have said, "Let's not talk about that now," which would have been much more effective.
Anyway, good luck with Season 2. I'll be watching.
Happy Passover.
posted on April 27, 2008 at 10:31 AM
Cameron wrote:
Jill - You had me laughing this morning!! Why was not getting a "straight" answer from Simone a surprise????? *LOL* You're the best, Jill !!!
posted on April 27, 2008 at 11:55 AM
Judy wrote:
Hi Jill,
Count me in as part of Team Jill. You are gorgeous, down-to-earth, funny and warm. I can see why you make friends and "connections" easily. Anyone who is your friend is extremely lucky.
posted on April 27, 2008 at 12:38 PM
Erinn wrote:
Hey Jill,
You were by far the best person on the show. I hated how Ramona didn't invite you to her cooking party. But, You played it cool. I can't believe that Ramona expects you to give her your tennis balls after beating her like every time. She needs to get over herself.
posted on April 27, 2008 at 1:38 PM
MJ wrote:
Jill you are the best, you made the show! Hats off to you and your family, you definitly seem like a "real" person.
posted on April 27, 2008 at 2:12 PM
JACKIE wrote:
JILL I LOVE YOU AND YOUR FAMILY, I'M PRAYING FOR YOUR STEPSON AND ALL YOUR FAMILY. PLEASE COME BACK A SECOND SEASON.
posted on April 27, 2008 at 2:49 PM
Kathie wrote:
Jill....I love, love, love you and your family. You are a strong woman. You are honest, warm, loving and kind...I know you would be a wonderful friend to have.
I for one, don't know how you keep your cool with either Ramona or Alex.
For the record could you please tell us in your blog why Simon was on the reunion show? You all must have discussed this further. It made them both look like the ridiculous people they are.
Hope you will be back next year....the show would be so boring with you!!
posted on April 27, 2008 at 3:16 PM
marti wrote:
Hi Jill
What fun it was to watch you on this show. I have a very good relationship with my mother and sisters and I loved watching you interact with yours. I really think the reason you are so popular is because you are true to yourself and your friends. what a great leson for all of us to learn. The truth only hurts for a little while! You and Bethany should do a spin-off on your own. The two of you are so funny! Thanks for a great few weeks of entertainment.
All the best to you and your famuly and I will keep your step-son in my prayers. PS loved Ali and Bobby too!!
posted on April 27, 2008 at 3:17 PM
Amanda wrote:
Hi Jill - I am from Orange County, California. I must say that I love (and prefer) and real housewives of New York City. I am a professional, divorced mother of 2 beautiful children. I would like to know how old your daughter is and what role her father plays in her life. Being a single mother, I am always curious about women with children who marry again and the affects it has on the mother and child. I was very young when my mother married my step father (whom I adore) but it was not always easy growing up. I would like to know how you and your daughter are doing and how she is feeling these days.
I appreciate you and Bethanny for your "tell it like it is" honesty. I particularly loved the scene with your sister during the radio interview. That was very touching to me - as I adore my sister too. I am not fond of reality shows but I loved this show!
My 21 year old daughter and I enjoyed every episode together. We were born and raised in Orange County but WE LOVE MANHATTAN and plan to live there part time some day.
I would like to thank you and Bethanny for making the show what it was funny, heartwarming, brutally honest and most importantly, forgiving.
We are looking forward to the 2nd season and hope to see more of you and Bethanny in particular.
Amanda1359@aol.com
posted on April 27, 2008 at 4:10 PM
callen wrote:
You are awesome Jill!! You are my favorite! Straight forward and honest and so mature and open minded! I dont know how you put up with Ramona! You are so much more mature than her - she acts like a child in alot of situations. You put everything out there and are so honest and if someone asks YOU a question you shoot a straight answer - cant say the same for others on the show! You're fab! :)
posted on April 27, 2008 at 4:14 PM
Amanda wrote:
Hi Jill - I am a professional, divorced mother of 2 amazing children. My charming son (15) and beautiful daughter (21). She is my first, he is my last and they are my everything! We were born and raised in Orange County, California and I must say that the "Real Housewives of Orange County" are nothing like the REAL women (and families) in Orange County. I was ashamed that the West Coast women (and their families) were represented in such a way. It was good television with the drama, etc - but absolutely not an accurate description of who we are in California.
I must say that I loved (and prefer) the New York version. Particularly the honesty, accountability - quick wit and banter. Gotta love New Yorkers!
I would like to know how old your daughter is and what role her father plays in her life. Being a single mother, I am always curious about women with children who marry again and the affects it has on the mother and child. I was very young when my mother married my step father (whom I adore) but it was not always easy growing up. I would like to know how you and your daughter are doing and how she is feeling these days.
I would also like to know how your step son's health is. I am sorry to hear about his health issues and pray that his health improves.
I appreciate you and Bethanny for your "tell it like it is" honesty. I particularly loved the scene with your sister during the radio interview. That was very touching to me - as I adore my sister too. I am not fond of reality shows but I loved this show!
My 21 year old daughter and I enjoyed every episode together. We love Orange County but have spent a lot of time in New York and hope to live there part time after my son graduates high school.
I would like to thank you and Bethanny for making the show what it was - funny, heartwarming, brutally honest and most importantly, forgiving. You handled yourself with class, style and compassion.
We are looking forward to the 2nd season and hope to see more of you and Bethanny in particular.
Amanda1359@aol.com
posted on April 27, 2008 at 4:56 PM
Cindy wrote:
Jill,
You are my favorite of the housewives. You are a beautiful person with such grace and good manners to not tell Ramona what a real goof-ball she is on so many occassions. Ramona is pathetic and doesn't deserve you to be her friend. I appreciate your truthfullness. I cheered when you and Luann beat Ramona at tennis. I was shocked when Bethanny told you that she would poke you in the eye if you said another thing about material things at her birthday dinner. I started out liking Bethanny, but after that and all of her protecting Ramona she has become my least favorite after Ramona. Even though Alex is a social climber, i like her next after you. Luann is in the middle.
posted on April 27, 2008 at 5:06 PM
Mike Schweitzer wrote:
Jill,
One of the best things to come out of the show was, for me, the introduction of your sister. What a brilliant, talented and beautiful person. I don't live in the CT/NYC area but love that I can listen through the internet. I am a father of a beautiful 3 year old daughter and I am wondering what did dear old Sol do right to grow these incredible women? Does dad have any tips?
posted on April 27, 2008 at 5:21 PM
amy c wrote:
Sorry..but, the show would not be as good without you!
posted on April 27, 2008 at 5:33 PM
D. wrote:
Jill,
I absoultely love your personality. You keep it honest. You would be invited to any cooking party anyone would host. I unfortunately have been watching alot of T.V. these days due to cancer surgerey and chemo, fortunately I found the show. It gave me something to look foward to. You, Bethenny and Luann definitely gave a new positive perception of New York social life. Being from the south we have a preconceived notion that New York housewives are more like a simple life star, shop, shop and giggle with very little substance. Ya'll showed a life style we would all aspire to have.
Thank you for sharing your friends, family and life.
posted on April 27, 2008 at 5:49 PM
Rosie wrote:
Jill,
You are the real deal...if you don't return for the
next season..neither will I....you are New York
City....also, if you're not there, who will finally
expose Alex and Simon?
posted on April 27, 2008 at 6:04 PM
betty maDOFF wrote:
JILL
I THINK YOU ARE VERY NICE DOWN TO EARTH AND I CAN IDENTIFY WITH YOU..LOVE YOR HAIR AND CLOTHES...
posted on April 27, 2008 at 6:08 PM
rhoda wrote:
Dear Jill:
You are so upfront and canidid on the show - frankly, I do not know how you maintain any kind of relationship with Ramona. She calls it being a "sexy Mom"- I would call it dressing inappropriately for your age.She arrives late for everything and usually leaves early. She is argumentative and difficukt. You should have been invited to the cooking party!!!
As for your dinner party and the reunion show, Simon should have NOT attened either. Girls' night is just that - no men. However, Ramona's reaction was way over the top. As usual she was very loud.
Alex should not have even mentioned bringong Simon - you made it clear that is was a grls' night. What doesn't she get about that?
Lastly, I think Alex can be very pretentious - naming
the children Johan and Jacque - Is it Jacque - now I'm not sure. If she wants her children so steeped in the French language and culture, she and Simon should up and move to Paris.
Anyway, you definitely are my favorite. Then, LuAn -the countess - a very classy lady. My least favorite - Ramona
posted on April 27, 2008 at 6:18 PM
Holly wrote:
Jill,
You, Bethenny and LuAnn are the ones with "class" on the show - the rest, to me anyway, wanna be's! Have a great summer! Can't wait to see what happens next!
posted on April 27, 2008 at 6:19 PM
Leo wrote:
I love you Jill (you really DO seem like a normal, down to earth person!!!), but you spent the first episode talking about all your invitations to society functions and how much money and work it takes to get your name on the invitation list. You then seem to look down on Alex for hoping to one day hold the same social status. Yes, some of the things Alex said on camera made her seem a bit calculating with her friendships, but she doesn't strike me as someone who would trade her integrity for a connection. And concerning her house - renovating a home in stages is a NORMAL thing. Most people can't afford to remake their entire home at one time. There's no reason for shaming her for not having the money to do the entire house at once (and most people don't drive econoboxes and wear fashion from WalMart while their homes are under repair, which seems to be LuAnn's remedy). Has it really been THAT long since you lived on SI??? I still love ya, and if you ever need a gay husband in South Florida, just let me know (I can even talk cars with Bobby for hours!). But you (and to some point LuAnn) are the leader of this pack, and Alex seems to deserve a little more respect.
posted on April 27, 2008 at 6:21 PM
diana wrote:
Hiiiiee.
You were EXCELLENT when you kept asking him why are you here!!! He gave that dopey, kinda went around the subject anwser bc he cant really own up and say, i really dont know why im here. You were soooo great! I love you, bethanny and Ramona. You 3 are hilarious, very cool and say it like it is. I enjoyed it. I love how you talk, reminds me of me and my friends from Brooklyn. it's great. Hope to see another season.
:)
Diana
posted on April 27, 2008 at 7:09 PM
Julia Racin wrote:
Hi Jill,
You are my favorite person on the show, with Bethany as a close second. You come across as a true friend. It's apparent that you love your family, and have a real connection to your friends. Both my daughter and I love watching this show and I hope you stick with it. I especially love that you call "a spade a spade", and don't pull any punches. You go girl!
Julia
posted on April 27, 2008 at 7:14 PM
Robin wrote:
Jill, I think you and Bethenny are terrific. As far as Simon not answering the question as to why he was there?--It was one more time for him to put Alex and himself on camera one more time--as if we really wanted to see them. I am looking forward to a Season 2
posted on April 27, 2008 at 7:35 PM
Kathy W. wrote:
Simon was not going to answer your question & you asked him 3 times why he was there, I kept thinking I wish I were the one asking the questions, there were so many things I would have loved to have answers to.
Why do Alex & Simon have selective memories on certain things, why did Ramona really leave the dinner party & the reunion & was so late to your party? She does have issues & not only with Alex & Simon.Hope to see you , Bobby & Ally next season.Love your handbags you carry on the show, I am a purse fanatic.
posted on April 27, 2008 at 7:41 PM
Deborah wrote:
Hey Jill,
Just wanted to say i love you on RHNY. Hope your back next season... Just see if you can get Bravo to change the background music to match NY excitement... Its to slow... Maybe I cant give you anything but my love (by the stylistics), just the music not words... the music they have now is from the oc version and NY is alot faster and more upbeat so the background music should be upbeat... see whatcha can do about that.... bye
posted on April 27, 2008 at 8:23 PM
Alice wrote:
Hi Jill,
You have a very open and honest personality which I loved on the show. I was also very happy to hear you plug the arthritis foundation. My three year old daughter also has JA (diagnosed at 10 months) - and it's a disease not many know about in regards to how it affects children. So I was happy you were open to talk about it. We're also very involved with the foundation in Connecticut. I wish you and your family much health and happiness.
Alice
posted on April 27, 2008 at 9:20 PM
Kyle wrote:
Hi Jill,
I just wanted to let you know how much I enjoy watching you on the show. You are beautiful, smart, funny, good hearted and grounded. You MAKE the show! Your a real person and you live your life everyday making a difference to the people not only in your life (family), but to those people lucky enough to be around you. I wish you had your own talk show, or maybe The View can use another smart cookie, who has a lot to offer on the show!!
Thank you for being you!!
posted on April 27, 2008 at 9:21 PM
Octavia wrote:
Jill, you were the absolute best and you made the show a joy to watch. Bethanny was pretty cool too - so down to earth and honest about her problems. Luanne was nice, but awkward with people who weren't of the same social stature. Ramona was amazing. I've never seen someone so narcissistic, yet oblivious. An hour late to dinner because her professional makeup and hair artists weren't done with her? It must be hard to relax and have fun when you are so concerned about your looks.
I was startled when I saw the state of Alex's home, but the behaviour of her children with no attempt at control was outrageous. And Alex is a liar about the photos. She had numerous photo sessions with several photographers and signed releases on all of them. Google Alex McCord and the word Liar and you'll find them. South Florida was clearly being promoted for something!
posted on April 27, 2008 at 9:41 PM
toni wrote:
You are the best of the bunch! Your daughter is your first concern, and you are a loyal friend. Get away from all those fake bitches :-)
My only concern is your husband does not do enough (communicate ect.) for your daughter. Make sure you are always there for her-becasue he is not.
posted on April 27, 2008 at 10:19 PM
Catherine wrote:
Jill,
With friends like Bethenny, why would you need any enemies? Why would you agree to let her talk and treat you like that? She clearly does not respect you or your husband. Get some self respect and drop her!!
posted on April 27, 2008 at 10:50 PM
miranda wrote:
you are the definition of a true friend. You have everyones best interest in heart befroe yourself. I pray for ally's health. you are a true example for all women i hope that people look at your ways and actions and learn how to be a better person. i have watched you and fill like i am one of your friends you are a great person and thank you for letting me be part of your life. xoxo
posted on April 27, 2008 at 10:55 PM
miranda wrote:
where can i get the "team Jill" shirt, i have to have it.
posted on April 27, 2008 at 11:02 PM
Jen wrote:
Jill,
My best to you and your family. You are a beautiful, hilarious woman and it's evident that you have a big heart. I love watching you on the show. It brings me back to my college years in NY; although, I lived a far less glamorous life which included Gray's Papaya, shopping at Century 21, and staring at the tents during fashion week, as I interned across the street and hoped one day I'd make it inside. (It hasn't happened yet, but I'll get there someday!)
I will be sure to say an extra prayer for your stepson. Enjoy your down time and I hope to see you in Season 2!
Best,
Jen
posted on April 27, 2008 at 11:37 PM
sandy wrote:
simon didn't answer your question, because he had no good reason to be there other than his own ego. it was obvious they had practiced answers to some of the questions. i'm sure that they are nice people, but they come off pathetic.
whatever happened to francois getting into claremont? i'm very curious.
posted on April 28, 2008 at 12:01 AM
Lisa wrote:
Love You Love You Love You! I enjoyed all the women on the show but you are the one to model after.
Your daughter is drop dead beautiful and shouldn't worry about her weight!
posted on April 28, 2008 at 12:17 AM
Charr wrote:
I agree with the majority of post, you were by far more down to earth and in touch then the others. Although I think you could have better retained your image of honesty by admitting that the real reason you stormed out of the fashion show was because of the second class seating arrangements, which obviously was the really issue. Also, the only other irk was when your sister asked about status and you stated; "it's not really about keeping up with the Jones, it's about being the Jones". That to me seemed a bit pretentious. Your sister even had to correct you when you stated or implied that you have always lived in that lifestyle, which is apparent to me that none of the ladies on the show were actually born into wealth but rather acquired a comfortable lifestyle later in life. That probably was clear to everyone watching. Nevertheless I really think you are down to earth, caring and sincere.
posted on April 28, 2008 at 1:49 AM
judy wrote:
Jill,
You are the best. I have email before but never left my URL. Thanks for the tip! I always have been infatuated with New York City and I wish I could walk down the streets of NY and run into you or shop in your store! I hope you can email. Thanks for a fun season and remember Ramona started it all!!! ;O)
posted on April 28, 2008 at 3:09 AM
Debra wrote:
Jill,
You are truly my favorite, from the first episode I liked who you are. You are truly the stable wife, mother and friend we've all come to love. Tuesday nights are not the same without you and I can't wait for Season 2.
As aloof as Bobby seems I still love him, he and Allyson are a reflecion of you and show what a loving family you have.
posted on April 28, 2008 at 4:02 AM
california fan wrote:
Jill,
You are my favorite out of all the women. You have class, finesse and always good intentions! I admire a woman like you!
posted on April 28, 2008 at 10:59 AM
Kimberly wrote:
I have had the splended opportunity to catch the show and the reunion and I think the reason that you did not get a straight answer is because Simon is afraid to go head to head with you. He preys on the weaker and submissive woman much like his wife.
posted on April 28, 2008 at 11:19 AM
Lala wrote:
Jill, does this mean you won't be on Season 2? I really won't be able to enjoy the show if you are not on it. Still, because you seem to be such a wonderful person, I can completely understand why this would be your time to step down. You are awesome and inspiring. Best wishes to you and your family. Mazel tov!!!
posted on April 28, 2008 at 11:43 AM
Sherry wrote:
Loved you in the show! Pleeeeeeease come back for Season 2...wouldn't be the same without Laverne and Shirley to play off each other...your hilarious! I was so glad to see you ask Simon why he was there on the houseWIVES reunion...sorry we didn't hear an answer though....I guess he's just selfimportant and egotistical enough to think people want to actually watch him on yet another episode. Also loved the episode where Bobby was telling Jason how lucky he was to have you...so sweet! Have a wonderful summer with your family and friends and God Bless.
Sherry
posted on April 28, 2008 at 11:50 AM
Sandra wrote:
Dear Jill,
You and Bethany are my favorite's. Your honesty is almost revolutionary these days, and also inspirational. I wish I lived in an area where people can handle that kind of truth. If there is a second season, please lobby to leave Alex and her idiot husband behind. I thought the title of the show is the REAL housewives.... Not pretentious, wannabe, bad actress seeking to shamelessly social climb housewives of NYC. There is nothing real about either one of them. However, I would enjoy a show that features you and Bethany any day. Your're both amazing and a breath of fresh air! Hope to see you on my TV again!
Sandra
posted on April 28, 2008 at 12:53 PM
Kathy wrote:
Jill, where do I begin? You MADE the show. Your compassion and forgiveness for others really stood out in each episode. We could all learn a lot from you. But I have to ask....was that really you who responded on the TVgasm website? That is the BEST recap of tv shows - - especially RHNYC. Yenta is hilarious. But good for you for defending your position on 10% of your "Team Jill" shirts going to charity. Yenta should not judge. I've signed up for your newsletter, but haven't received anything yet. How often are they generated? Glad to hear you respond to your fans. Please write to me when you can(I feel like a Team Jill groupie)!!!
posted on April 28, 2008 at 1:01 PM
Ron wrote:
Jill, I think you are the best to watch, and the most real. I would be proud to be your friend,
posted on April 28, 2008 at 1:23 PM
Sue wrote:
Jill,
Thank goodness for real people like you, Luanne & Bethany. All three of you came across as yourselves. Kudos to all 3 of you ladies for honoring your contract and hanging in there with the obnoxious Simon and a insecure Alex, and I won't go into Romona, but I am sure you know where I can go.
posted on April 28, 2008 at 1:39 PM
Melissa Douglass wrote:
Dear Jill-To answer the question you asked on the last show, yes, Ramona is a moron. I just don't get that woman. I have never seen so much eye blinking, arms flapping, head bobbing, train wreck of a person. Honestly, she looks like a chicken on acid! I understand she talks with her hands, however, what stupidty is not flying out of her mouth is expressed in her motion. I give you credit for not throwing her out of your party when she was making everyone feel uneasy. She should have had some grace. It would have been easy for her to excuse herself politly when the situation wasn't to her liking instead of attacking your guests. If she has an issue with Simon and Alex, it's her issue, not your dinner parties. What works for them may not work for her, but that is her problem. I could understand her dislike for Simon IF Alex complained that she never got time away from him or couldn't do anything without him, then as a friend she could talk to her about it and try to help her find a way to deal with it. But Alex doesn't have a problem with their relationship, so Ramona should shut up. I love your family and I love the crace you have. It is also very clear you are comfortable in your own skin. Take care of yourself, get the emotional vampires out of your life. Remember, Ramona has confused being a strong woman with an obnoxious one.
posted on April 28, 2008 at 2:02 PM
Maria in Arizona wrote:
Jill,
I really loved watching you and your family & friends on this show. As you can see on the blogs, you have many, many fans who love you. That really says something about you. You are very happy, loving, generous and forgiving. Your personality and special qualities really remind me of my father, whom I lost last September to Mesothelioma. He was fun loving and had a generous heart. He always tried to see the good in people and made lots of friends everywhere he went and had a huge impact in many people's lives, which was really appearant by of the number of people who attended his funeral. Anyway, He was the reason our family even went to New York City. I had always dreamed of going there, however the circumstances as to why we were there were bittersweet. He had surgery at a highly recommended cancer hospital in Manhattan and we were there in the city for 10 days, 2 of which we were in the hospital all day and the rest of which we were able to go out and see your beautiful city. I just fell in love with New York City. Especially since we were there during the Christmas season of 2006. Everything was gorgeous! And Central Park, Oh my goodness! I fell in love. Anyway, I'm sorry I rambled on but I just had to pay tribute to my Dear, Sweet DAD and the fact that he also loved New York and wanted to go back but never had the chance. If I make it back there someday and see you on the street, I will definately stop and say Hi. I thank your family for sharing you with us all and I pray for a rapid and complete healing of your stepson and Ally. Love Maria
posted on April 28, 2008 at 4:36 PM
Cynthia wrote:
I have to say Bravo to all you ladies for inviting the public into your lives. The first episode of the RNYHW, my first thoughts were, how superficial these ladies are and if anyone is geniune? Or is it all about "look at me and see what I have." But, after careful thought, I realized these same women exist in my own neighborhood and probrably across the country. You are right to say, "Who am I too judge." No one has the right, but there was a great deal of judging during the reunion. Alex and Simon are a little different, but who are we to question their wanting to socialize with people with a higher economic status or desire to be recognized in the society pages? I say more power to them. The attack on them was really unnecessary. Just because they are trying to better themselves and reach the level you did, apparently you were not born with a silver spoon either. You yourself admitted that you get your photos taken a great deal and while in the Hamptons, you asked a photographer, who he was taking photos for and asked him to take your photo. I don't think anyone questioned any of you ladies when you pose for a photo opt. I wished you admitted that you were ticked about the fashion show seating. It was not Ramona's place to change seats with you and you should have taken the high road, like your mother told you. I agree with Betheney about the high school like rilvary between you and Ramona. It is very comical. But, you explained it when you told your sister that when you were younger, you were not popular. Now that you are older, you have become popular and want people to like you and it hurts when you are not in on everything. My take on all you ladies from the seven episodes, is that you all are very good people and each have different ways of handling things. Just remember it is a blessing to be in the place you are in now and not forget the path that got you there and that material things are just that, things.
posted on April 28, 2008 at 4:44 PM
rochelle eck wrote:
Jill like those before me, you are the best, I like the way you say "Bobby" you say it with such love in your heart. My best to you and your family, California sends our love to you in New York. Hope there is a season 2. (--remona) sshhhhh! ;0D
posted on April 28, 2008 at 5:26 PM
catherine wrote:
Jill
i loved seeing you in every situation. you and LuAnn were the most real and grounded people on the show. what happened to the episode with you and Bobby having dinner/gift & LuAnn and her family going to the SL? it is labeled as second chances but that is not what is shown. i have yet to find this episode, what is the actual title of it?
posted on April 28, 2008 at 5:27 PM
Shawna Dunbar wrote:
Jill, you are my favorite housewife! I love that you're a straight shooter and you don't let anybody get away with anything (except your dog!!). You're a great lady, can't wait to see season 2!
posted on April 28, 2008 at 5:36 PM
mcg wrote:
Jill, you were my favorite. Adorable, sweet and kind. Just don't storm out of a fashion show again like a diva -- that's not your best side. Otherwise, think you're cute and wonderful!
posted on April 28, 2008 at 5:55 PM
Mary Sigg wrote:
Jill
I have to say you were the one person that keep me interested in the program. I admin you for you straight forward approch. Not all people can get away with it, but I do try and am many times shot down, but I just get up and try again.
posted on April 28, 2008 at 6:11 PM
Johnny wrote:
You're the greatest EVER! Love your personality. YOU make the show. I have a chihuahua, too!
xoxo
posted on April 28, 2008 at 7:06 PM
erica wrote:
Team Jill forever!!!! She is the best!
posted on April 28, 2008 at 7:50 PM
Linda wrote:
Jill,
my sister and I die from you.You are hysterical. I have to ask,your skin always looks perfect and amazing. I am 40 andI have tried everything from Cetaphil to LaMer and still go to a derm. andI am still not happy. I am thinking of laser, what is your regimen for beauty?
posted on April 28, 2008 at 11:00 PM
susan wrote:
You were my favorite from day one! Your beauty radiates from inside out. I loved and love your generosity...never change!
posted on April 28, 2008 at 11:36 PM
Amanda wrote:
Hey Jill,
I just wanted to let you know you were one of my favorite housewives. I was rooting for you the whole way in the fights with Ramona. Do you happen to know my aunt Kate Pasik? She's in the society pages sometimes.
posted on April 29, 2008 at 2:46 AM
smiarly wrote:
Jill
You were wonderful to watch. You remind me what it is about New York that I miss. You came across as real and although a member of high society, not a snob. I can definately appreciate your candor as a woman who tells it like it is.
I look forward to seeing you again,and the next time I'm in NY I'll be looking for you.
posted on April 29, 2008 at 9:28 AM
Pandora wrote:
Jill,
I hope the other women on the show appreciate that they were able to meet you and have you as part of their lives. I truly enjoyed how down to earth you are. It is very refreshing to see that it is possible for someone to have a fortuante lifestyle and not be an unbearable person. You have displayed such class and elegance especially while dealing with Ramona. Keep up the good work and positive attitude towards life.
posted on April 29, 2008 at 9:56 AM
Doris Woodard wrote:
Jill i would have to say you were my favorite housewife. You lead a very desirable life style. I found that your husband came across as a really nice man, & also your daughter. You were not pretentious & very down to earth.
posted on April 29, 2008 at 10:12 AM
Doris Woodard wrote:
Jill i would have to say you were my favorite housewife. You lead a very desirable life style. I found that your husband came across as a really nice man, & also your daughter. You were not pretentious & very down to earth.
posted on April 29, 2008 at 10:12 AM
Kelly wrote:
Jill,
Absolutely adore you, your mother, and your sister. Wish I could have a family like you have, including Bobby and Allyson. You made the show, and I really appreciate your candor, sense of humor, and intelligence.
Thr friendship between you and Bethenny is priceless, and I wish I could be your friend also. Your a great role model as a mother, daughter, friend, and wife.
Please return for Season 2.
posted on April 29, 2008 at 10:52 AM
Natalie wrote:
Hi Jill,
I watch your show religiously and I love the dynamics you share with all of the other women and your family. I especially appreciate your relationship with Bethenny. She reminds me of my best friend and I was wondering if you felt that way about her? I love your spirit and forthright attitude! I aspire to be as genuine and honest as you are. Do you have any adivise for becoming as bold, charismatic and popular as you are?
Thank you,
Natalie
posted on April 29, 2008 at 10:56 AM
june_mele wrote:
I am wondering if Jill ever attended Boston University. if so. what year was she a Freshman. My son who lives in London thinks they may have been in a class together.
posted on April 29, 2008 at 10:58 AM
Linda wrote:
Jill,
Loved you and Betheny. To be honest, Alex and Simon give me chills (not in a good way). In particular, Simon absolutely gives me the willies. It's like he went to the "Rico Suave" school of theater! It's just creepy! I've come to the conclusion that no one was misrepresented and Alex and Simon are just plain "mishuga"!
posted on April 29, 2008 at 11:09 AM
JanetV wrote:
Jill, I like you the best out of all of the girls - you are the most down to earth and no-nonsense. BTW, your daughter is so pretty! I would love to see her do some modeling!
posted on April 29, 2008 at 11:11 AM
marisa wrote:
I soooooooo love this show and Jill is my #1 because she is honest and real and tells it how it is.... I am trying to find out the make and model of jill's watch (the one she wore on the reunion show)... HELP!!!!!!
posted on April 29, 2008 at 12:26 PM
JoAnna Nunez wrote:
Jill--
I wish I had you as a friend. You are direct, yet loving, and respectfull of your friends and family. Bobby is every womens dream husband....supportive, loving and calm. Allyson is lucky to have you as a mother. And lets face it, you must have a big heart to have Ramona as a friend, shes like a speeding train getting ready to hit a wall. She sucks the air out of the room even when shes on the TV:)
God Bless you and your family, it was a pleasure to get to know you even if only on the TV.
posted on April 29, 2008 at 3:27 PM
Teri wrote:
Jill:
I think you are great! You tell it like it is, and you don't seem to be acting for more camera time (like Alex and Simon are). You seem to be an honest and loyal friend. I think it's awesome that you are proud of your curves, and look for designers that make clothes for women with a bigger bust. As a fellow voluptous woman.. Kudos to you!
posted on April 29, 2008 at 3:35 PM
Kathleen Kelly wrote:
I just hope you know what you were great on your show and I really hope that it was not edited but if it was I would have loved to see what you really said. I work for a major Mechanical Company in Pittsburgh and we laugh when we think of you in your hard hat. It is nice to see someone on TV that still remembers where they came from. Again you were great and wish you well on your new season.
Kathleen Kelly
posted on April 29, 2008 at 4:11 PM
Kimberlie Hoffmann wrote:
Jill, Like many who've commented above, I really enjoyed watching you - you have a lot of positive energy and good taste. I was suprised how much the show captivated me and will look forward to next season only if you're in it!
posted on April 29, 2008 at 4:34 PM
Laurie G wrote:
Jill, you are by far the best of the Housewives! I think your "delivery" in most conversations is an asset! Humor or eloquence, you are it!!!!! Inoticed you did not get an answer from Simon either!
Jill,class act all the way!!!! Will you return Cher's outfit to her? lol
posted on April 29, 2008 at 6:15 PM
Triplet Mom wrote:
Jill:
You need to consider Season 2! This show would not be the same without you. Call me - I'll be the 6th housewife!!!
posted on April 29, 2008 at 10:04 PM
jackie wrote:
Jill, I think you are funny and good-natured, but you are definately a snob. Your comment about "just wanting to be the Jones's" really sums up your shallow aspirations. In addition, when you say that you don't agree with Simon and Alex's priorities, I really have to laugh. They are exactly who you were a few years back! But the strangest thing is when you talk about all you've accomplished. Jill, you didn't end world hunger, you just married a rich man and bought alot of designer clothes. Be real!
posted on April 29, 2008 at 10:31 PM
mitch wrote:
Jill Zarin!
I just read a few of the first blogs posted, which i don't like to do so I am not influenced by what other people think. I am a unique individual with my own thoughts and don't need approval from others etc. etc. However in the first few I read a few beginning lines that are EXACTLY what I was intending to write to you. Believe me I'm not copying, but I too at first did not like you, and I really don't know why. But it didn't take very long at all before I fell totally in love with you, and I too desperately want to be one of your gay husbands should you ever need a replacement or an additional one. I SO FEEL YOU, FEEL AS IF I'VE KNOWN YOU and WELL AND FOREVER. I'm sure a lot of that is the whole Jewish boy (and despite being gay I'm a boy, Ms. Thing, don't be calling me girlfriend. With all the hair on my chest and everywhere else I could hardly be mistaken for a girl. But I digress. I feel like (and obviously thousands of others do, so it bothers me a bit that my uniqueness is lost here, but my one of a kindedness will eventually find its way through, cream eventually rises to the top, sometimes you just have to wait longer, and now being well into my 40s, I have the patience and waiting isn't the torture it once was, in fact it's kinda invigorating, because when you get something you've waited a bit for you appreciate it more. I digress again. I feel knowing you, surprised I never ran across you in my 15 years in NYC (1982-1997) quite prominent in the advertising agency game and world, traveling in upper circles (don't worry still and always retaining my Jewish boy from Canarsie status even if I did lose the accent at the American Academy of Dramatic Arts!) I feel like it is "besharet" (BUH-SHARE-T) that someday our paths will cross. Hopefully sooner than later because I so want to try on that dress you had in the final episode at 21! (Kidding, I dont do drag, the only drag I know from is when Carnegie Deli is out of cheesecake!) I digress again. You do that to me. Make me digress. Want to tell you 20 things at once, while 20 other things are running thru hy head that are next up once I'm thru the first 20. Anyway, you have more class in one hair in one of your nostrils than any of all those other "housewives" put together. Except for maybe Bethenny. She too is the real deal. C'mon, none of you are really housewives. Gimme a break. But for lack of a better word...why should you be ashamed of having enough money to let the cleaning lady do it. My mother had a cleaning lady something like twice a week in the 1960s when we lived the middle class high life in Canarsie. Her name was Sadie, she was black, we didn't have African Americans in those days, and she too had more class in one pinky nail than any of those other housewives will ever have (except for maybe Bethenny. See Sadie was the sole support of her family (new?, a real shocker huh?) and would take the bus to the train to the bus from wherever she came from (self absorbed 7 year olds in 1967 didn't figure she had any other make up or life besides her two days a week in my house, of course), anyway all that traveling for $15 a day. And I think she did double shifts 6 days a week for sure to make sure her kids ate Because there wss no second adult in the household (new? shocking again huh?) I just about wanna laugh till I pee and I just wrote to Luann about this when for all her talk of etiquette and uncomfortability at having the "lower caste" members of society addressing her incorrectly that she feels no embarrassment, or uncomfortably or shame at all when she utters "ALLS" time and time again. ALLS? There is no such word. ALL I KNOW IS....ALLS I KNOW is Anthony is pronounced ANTANY in Brooklyn (the h is slient and Websters has acknowledged that for the updated "Fishwife" edition but nowhere can it be found that "ALLS" is acceptable. I COULD PLOIZ!!! Ramona needs to get off the meth. I wish I were straight to come riding in on the white horse and propose to Bethenny and make her as happy as she most deserves to be, but alas, such is the irony and dichotomy of life. AND ALLS I KNOW IS that ALEX AND SIMON are the joke and central core with which you rise and shine, give GOD your GLORY GLORY...
What made me think I didn't like you at very first for those few milliseconds was your heavy NY accent which seemed at such great odds with what I perceived to tbe class and breeding and social standing of someone in your "strata" if you will. It was so incongruous. But then I was served up the lesson, which I've learned so many times before and don't know why it left me here, but class, breeding, and all that, manners, etiquette, all that fucking nonsense, doesn't mean a hill of beans in this world if you dont understand, know, learn that class is simply how you treat other people and how you extend respect to them as human beings regardless of whether the label on their bag reads Prada or "douche", which is exactly what all these wannabe's are. Forgive me. Class is knowing that your family (whether blood family or those family members you acquired - like your gay husband among others I'm sure) is all matters. Material things have no worth, no value, are just that, things...and like you so eloquently said (more etiquette and manners in it's telling than all the Shakespeare in the world put together and then some, both in theory and simple statement - "because someone just doesn't put money in your account...you gotta earn it" or close...but the essence is there...you gotta earm it, physically, spiritually and mentally. And baby you've earned it. It shows, like I also read real quick just a big ago in the walk you walk, the talk you talk. So finally, I'm sure it's nothing new to you by now, after having watching yourself and all, don't let your emotions (that Jewish hot blood) get the best of you, and lower you to their level (no gonna mention any names but if I did I would mention Ramona's. Rise above it. And you did. Rather well and rather quick. Better than I could have probably and I'm a bit older than you I think and have had more practice, more bigotry coming my way (after all I did live amongst bigoted Southerners in of all places Mississippi in grad school for a time, six months to be exact, seven months too long, where I was in no uncertain times told I couldn't go in someone's house because I was a Jew. To which i replied, oh and here I thought it was because I was a faggot. What a relief to know you're not homophobic. And then the rest is a blur because I went after Big Daddy with my big fist and small nose (without benefit of surgery - i'm actually taken for Irish all the time with small nose and auburn hair)...but rest assure I did spend the night in that place where i wasn't a welcome Jew, however in the houose of someone who could tolerate me, the liberal come from Chicago Editor in Chief of the town newspaper. Thank God, because it rained that night and the bagels I brought to big Daddy's house in the morning as an apology for having hit him in his big fat Southern bigoted GOYISHA face would have gotten soggy and then of course I never would have heard the end of how cheap Jews are that they can't even bring fresh bagels when they come to call. ALLS I KNOW IS...I've never been back to Mississippi and have no desire to go, unless of course it's to film the Luann Des Lessups Story, in which I would play the Count of course...and in which I could get to utter a few choice lines i would hope would end up being the hallmark of the film...like "Count on this people, I'll be back from Europe in a month, maybe three and trust me I'm gonna do social work with my wife with the agenda the likes of which this town has never seen, until the Family Jewels bleed and I don't mean those ones we're passing on to my son for his wife!" I digress again. WAY OFF SUBJECT.
Anyway, I wanted to make sure, so sad you wont do Season TWO, I don't know if I can watch then, really....but I wanted to make sure I told you how great you are...and no offense, I think you should run for office, or aspire to much greater things, without meaning offense, than "socialitism" ...you are extraordinary, beautiful and such a remarkable woman that I think your talents (some of which have yet to blossom I'm sure of it) would be "wasted" on mere introducing this Count to that Duke, and that Duchess to this Prince of a Prig...Hillary's VP is well within your abilities and probably your grasp, given your connections and ability to raise funds and all. And if nothing else, you would probably make one helluva receptionist at Zarin Fabrics...the cutest thing I ever saw...don't let Alison become a Luann or a Romana for heaven's sake. I have a great guy for Bethenny by the way. His family on his father's side is Alamo Rent a Car and his mother's side is an even bigger heir to a bigger fortune, he was a Calvin Klein and Ron Chereskin model in the early 90s, majorly educated at like the AMerican Univ in Paris and the Sorbonne, speaks enough languages to to tell the other housewives where to go and how to get there without them ever being offended or knowing they were being given such instruction, is sweet despite all and loving and open and affection and confident enough to kiss me in public (like a brother would kiss a brother) even though others have no clue that would be the relationship, doesn't faze him kind of person...did I say he was gorgeous...only flaw is he smokes. Anyway, total GOYIM, like Bethenny, but like Bethenny possessing enough chutzpah to be a, whaddya call, Jew by association kind of spiirit kind of thing. He just moved from Horatio St after like 15 years to LA at beginning of April but you guys all have money, making LA-NY a hop skip and a jump, unlike for me where it would be steerage on the Titanic should I get so lucky as to have enough money all at one time to buy the ticket. At 2008 prices of course...what is that $79.50? Oh wait, I'd have to do that in installments like I did my Shark Cleaning Mop. Do you have one of those? Not as fantsstic as the informercial. I DIGRESS AGAIN.
Finally, I ABSOLUTELY HEAETFELT Wish the best for your family and their health concerns. I was hit by a car crossing the street where i now live (Las Vegas) at Xmas '05, was given little chance to live, in coma for a week, pulled through and someday (had no health insurance, could it be a bigger shonder), but the focus here is that I pulled thru and I did so because of family and friends, one in the same around me, who still are as I still heal, emotionally, phsyically and spiritually, and that, almost alone made all the difference between life and death. So I salute you Jill Zarin, pray for you, and am proud to be a member of the same race as are you - HUMAN! You're the best! Your smile is a sight to build dreams upon, so smile at that family of yours as much as you can...shine your light...what am I saying...that light shines whether you want it to or not!) "That litle light of mine, I'm gonna let it shine..."
Much affection, good will, prayers and blessings upon your head, Mazel Tov...
sincerely.
mitch
posted on April 30, 2008 at 1:52 AM
bev wrote:
j. - You crack me up! You and Bethenny brought such joy into my life; just couldn't get enough! You two really are like Laverne & Shirley! The Duchess is awesome too...how grand and what class the three of you have! I would have to disassociate myself with Rameana, and I don't quite know how to categorize Simon & Alex - but they really do need to get a grip and get that house fixed up before pretending they are high class. I hope they (Bravo) will have a Season 2 - just can't wait! Take care and thanks for taking time to do the show. Muau!
posted on April 30, 2008 at 2:57 AM
samantha s. wrote:
Jill,
I adore you!!You are by far,my favorite!!You are elegant,beautiful,honest and sincere.I would pick you for a friend any day because you are are so sweet.Cant wait to see you next season with your Fab husband and daughter!!!
posted on April 30, 2008 at 12:50 PM
karen wrote:
oh jill! don't stop blogging! this last entry sounded like goodbye. i enjoyed watching you on season 1, and since i can't get enough (esp now it's over), i always have to go online to check for new entries on your blog. please keep writing until season 2 comes out! i love both you and bethenny--i think your relationship is very real and that is so refreshing.
posted on April 30, 2008 at 2:25 PM
Denise Tobey wrote:
Do you ladies find that most of the negative feedback are from people who are not from New York? It appears so, especially when you ladies did the confession show, and when the host was reading questions from viewers, Non New Yorkers really don't understand New Yorkers, I think you ladiers have grace and class, be proud how you handled yourself throughout season 1..Can't wait for season 2
posted on April 30, 2008 at 3:05 PM
Diane Cappolla wrote:
Jill, you are the best & the most real person on this show. you are right about the rest of the gang, especially Alex & Simon. They are just wannabees. You are the type of person I would want for a friend. I was born & raised on the lower east side & left NYC 18 years ago & moved to San Francisco & am now living in Las Vegas. You have an open invitation, any time you come to Vegas. Thanks for not being uppity like the others. Diane Cappolla, Las Vegas, NV
posted on April 30, 2008 at 5:02 PM
daniel wrote:
Hi Jill, I just want to say your my favorite housewife on the show and I love your attitude towards life. Your a joy to watch everyday and I think you have a great family too. I hope your stepson is doing well. Please come back for a second season the show would not be the same without you.
posted on April 30, 2008 at 5:16 PM
Dee wrote:
Jill you are absolutly amazing! You are totally like your mother. Very brutally honest! I love it. How you put up with Rameanie I don't know how you do it. I would have kicked her to the curb the first time I met her. Keep on being yourself! You Rock!!!!
posted on April 30, 2008 at 7:04 PM
Karen wrote:
I am on Team Jill! I love your honesty and willingness to call people on their crap - not just Alex and Simon, but Bettheny when she was running to Miami from her problems.
As for Ramona, I could understand having your feelings hurt by her on several occassions, but you can feel vindicated in the fact that it is apparent to all of us that she seems to be somewhat irrational and have inappropriate reactions to things she doesn't like (leaving the dinner party, leaving the reunion during the talk of Alex's pictures).
Keep being exactly who you are - we love you! And best of luck to your Allie with her arthritis.
posted on April 30, 2008 at 11:53 PM
Sandy wrote:
Jill,
I am writing to you because I know you have a dog that is a love of your life. I also had a dog who was the love of my life but on 4/26/08, he was attacked by a pitbull while we were walking home in NYC ( midtwon) my Dior was killed at the scene and I was also bitten by this vicious dangerous dog that should never be allow out on the street. I am asking for your help as one dog lover to another. The department of health may be releasing this dangerous animal to the owner even thou I was severly bitten and my dior was killed. My Dior was a 4 ILB yorkie who was the sweetest angel in the world. You know all the right people... and my biggest focus is not to have that pit bull ever allow to hurt anyone or any dog who we view as family. I can't described the horror of watching the very love killed in front of you.... no one is helping ..... can you?
posted on May 1, 2008 at 3:11 AM
Kara wrote:
Jill I think you are a true gem, you made the show fun. You & Bethenny together are a riot
posted on May 1, 2008 at 1:05 PM
M Peebles wrote:
I loved watching you on the show. I especially liked the "Lunch with Lisa" segment. You have accomplished so much and you should share your story more often. Would you be interested in attend my school's Career Day to speak with my students? Please email me if you are interested.
posted on May 1, 2008 at 1:19 PM
Lita wrote:
It's so funny how Ramona walked out when he pictures of Alex were brought up but I didn't see her leave the room when at the Hamptons by the pool she kissed another woman and her husbands stated he wanted to see some action. Her daughter was embarrased and walked away. Now Ramona should really check herself. She is a hypocrite. This part of her behavior was televised. Her daugher made reference to lesbian behavior.
posted on May 1, 2008 at 2:04 PM
Christine wrote:
Hi Jill,
I have to say I just loved the show. I am so glad to see a show with working mothers. I am a working mother of 3. There are times I get such disapproving looks and comments from people just because I work. I love my kids! It does not make you less of a mother just because you work.
Anyway, I just wanted to say thank you to and the other cast members for doing this show. It was a refreshing show. Will there be a season 2?
posted on May 1, 2008 at 3:50 PM
Shelley Annis wrote:
I WANT THE JILL ZARIN SHOW. I think it would be a riot to see you and your family in action!After seeing your sister interview you on the show, I now am a loyal listener to her show/ Pod Casts on the internet! She Rocks too. I really think Bravo should totally make this happen! It would be a Knock Out. What can I say, except "it's just The Right Thing to Do!"
posted on May 1, 2008 at 3:50 PM
Erin wrote:
Jill: I'm not a socialite, but I am an educated professional, wife, and mother, and you are by far the most relatable person on the show. Maybe it's my OC background, but I was truly shocked by some of the behavior on the show (Ramona is appalling to me); you were the one shot of "normal" in the episodes.
posted on May 1, 2008 at 6:03 PM
Kim Hollis wrote:
Jill,
Hi. I really admire how candide and truthful you are. I really like that in a person and I too am like you about telling people the truth. I do have a question for you. I am only 5'0 and have the same problem as you do about things fitting the chest area. Where do you find the proper bras to fit you and is it hard to find tops? I have such a hard time. It seems like they make all the cute tops for skinny and small breasted women.
posted on May 1, 2008 at 8:26 PM
Nina Bisceglia wrote:
Dear Jill,
You are a love, I adore you and think that you have a huge heart! Ramona is a pig and does not have a stick of class in her. She purposely lied not once, but many times on the show and invited the Countess without inviting you. She then lied to the Countess and you about it. She then lied at your dinner party about having to leave and then lied again during the reunion show about it. Her behavior was deplorable and I believe that no one would be friends with her unless they had to because of the show.
Never let her hurt you again, you are a far better person then she could ever hope to be!
Good luck to you and thank you for being you!
Love and Hugs!
Nina
posted on May 1, 2008 at 8:40 PM
lyndsey wrote:
Jill I love you. Please do season two. We will need Rameana too!
posted on May 1, 2008 at 11:53 PM
Donna wrote:
Jill,
I felt like I couldn't get enough of Jill this season. You should have your own show.
Can't wait till next year.
posted on May 2, 2008 at 12:44 AM
a Fan wrote:
You seem to be really cool and honest. However, you were too hard on Alex during the reunion show. The poor girl is just trying to make it in life; give her a break! At least she is trying the right way and not just by marrying someone rich!
posted on May 2, 2008 at 3:18 AM
Angela wrote:
Jill,
Watched the reunion on the net today and I just had to write to you and say I totally agree with you that Ramona lied about the dinner party. You can see is on her face and in her body language just as you say. I do not know why the other women at the reunion did not defend you as I feel they should have. People always seem to side with Ramona. The only reason I can get out of that is they know you are honest and they can play those Catty games with Ramona. Again, most people are not good at true honesty. As for the fashion show, I to would have been irritated that Ramona got front row and you did not. It was like a feather in her cap and she knows it. I to would probably have just walked away or found a seat far from her. Take confront in the fact that you are a bigger person. Ramona has a lot of growing up to do still in many ways. To bad she cannot see it. Looking for praise and love in all the wrong places still for the lack of love and praise she should of received from her dad and never got. She just cannot see it. Look fwd. to seeing you on season two. Wish you and your family all the best.
posted on May 2, 2008 at 5:51 AM
Kaaren wrote:
Jill,
I have to say that you were so much fun to watch. You a never ending source of entertainment. I love when you kept saying "Just own it!" That is by far one of my favorite lines ever uttered. As you said, who are you to judge or any of us for that matter. It always amazes me that people think they need to apologize for going after what they want in life. Clearly Alex & Simon had a mission in mind, but who cares? They should just own their mission, and call it a day. I love the fact that you are so forthright with telling people to own it. You were fantastic to watch.
posted on May 2, 2008 at 10:11 AM
Kit wrote:
Jill: the more I saw you on the show, the more I loved you, and you are an inspiration for letting things roll off your back when it comes to your friends, but also able to call them up on something when they're not being truthful. I hope you'll be back if there is another season. You and Bethanny are so funny together..and you certainly do come off as kind and thoughtful..a great friend to have. (your friends are very lucky). Ramona...piece of work that needs work!! Luann..classy, knows it, but fun to have on the show..it balances the others. Alex and Simon..really fun to watch..I think she sets him up to look bad (probably she's insecure to be without him). Anyway..you're great..see you at Zarin's when I'm in NYC.
posted on May 2, 2008 at 12:54 PM
M wrote:
Jill,
I thought you were awesome! You always created a comfortable environment where everyone felt welcome. By far, my favorite on the show! Good luck to your family :)
posted on May 2, 2008 at 9:42 PM
lena wrote:
I love your Jill & miss the show!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Best luck to you and your family!!!!!!
posted on May 3, 2008 at 2:34 AM
Giselle wrote:
I saw the show for you. You were super funny and glamorous.
posted on May 3, 2008 at 10:31 AM
TL wrote:
Is it me or has anyone else noticed that Bethenny's blog and comments have been completely deleted and only comments related to "Top Chef" are noted there. I wrote a comment related to her appearance on The Real Housewives and it was never posted. Which leads me to believe that poor little Bethenny can dish it out but can't take it. You and Bethenny were my favs on the show, but I have a complete different opinion of Bethenny after these latest antics of here's.
Jill, since you seemed to be the closest to her, please pass a message to her. I think that her attempts to completely derail and avoid comments about her on THE SHOW WHICH SHE APPEARED ON AND NOT COMMENTS ON makes her appear to be a real phony! It just confirms that she can dish it out, but can't take it.
And to think I used to think she was cool!
posted on May 3, 2008 at 12:15 PM
Cary wrote:
One word about Jill "classy" maybe two "fabulous". I would love to have her as my friend!!!!
posted on May 3, 2008 at 1:04 PM
Lisa wrote:
I have to say I absolutely LOVE Jill. I can relate to her better than any of the other women on the show. I also was brought up in NY, (Long Island) have the same accent and she's so full of resources. I would love to have her as a friend!!! PS How do I get a "Team Jill" shirt??
posted on May 3, 2008 at 1:19 PM
brandi wrote:
bravo jill.....u r a fantastic person. i never once saw anything unclassy about u. u r a mature person and a good friend for bethenny. true she should not of offered to stick something in your eye. i love beth personality also, but that made me cringe. i was embarrassed for you. however u handled it well. i would of pulled a ramona and walked out. lol. i learned from u. ramona must be A.D.D. she is always tweaking. but she made good tv. i laughed. can wait to see 2nd season.
posted on May 3, 2008 at 4:25 PM
mike b wrote:
Love you too Jill! You're the kind of girl a person can just hang out with and laugh. Love you to pieces~! You're the most down to earth housewife on the show :)
posted on May 3, 2008 at 4:43 PM
ann smith wrote:
take ramona off the show-she blatantly lies and her eyes are crazy
posted on May 3, 2008 at 5:27 PM
wild_cherokee_rose wrote:
Jill I have to say of all the woman. You seem the most real and level headed. I applaud your daughter working w/ other children with RA. To me that reflects what type of parents you and Bobby are. Much success to your family. I was appauld at Ramona's behavior. Quite frankly I think she is jealous of you. I say this because money cannot buy class, values, style, or manners of which you seem to have all... Ramona leaves me believing she has none. Best wishes........
posted on May 3, 2008 at 5:39 PM
Jimmy Boy wrote:
Jill- i love the show... your my favorite character. period. you are awesome and i feel like you would be really fun to hang out with.
posted on May 3, 2008 at 5:43 PM
Max wrote:
Oh my goodness Jill, I just watched the last few episodes and the reunion,......you and Bethenny,
w-h-a-t a trip! Maybe I'm wrong, but I doubt it,...I hope you two remain friends, because there is certainly something there. You reminded me a lot of myself, big mouth, but tenderhearted. Oh yeah, you have a good soul as well. I've seen it in movies, but to watch you ladies, and hear about the NY social scene,......and the wannabess,.......wow, they really exist!
posted on May 3, 2008 at 6:53 PM
Another NYC Housewife wrote:
Jill,
Seems you pick and choose what shows up on this page and what does not. I took the time to write my opinion on the shameful way you treated Bethany - and humiliated Jason - at her birthday dinner, but apparently only those who drool over you get posted. No wonder this site makes it appear that everyone loves you madly.
Btw, 10% to charity is a very cheesy gimmick for selling your tee shirts for profit and personal tax deduction. 100% to charity would have been a classy move.
Let's see if this gets edited out as well. I'm betting I'll never see it posted.
Another NYC Housewife
posted on May 3, 2008 at 7:25 PM
Tracey Harris wrote:
Jill,
You are purely amazing! I have seen a few of the shows, and I have to say, the one I saw today and leading up to the Russian Tea Room really gave me things to think about in how I would like to approach you.
First, please know that you and your family are in my prayers. I feel for your daughter and her arthritis,, as I suffer from it also and have since I was a teen.
Secondly,, you come across and present yourself in the most realistic possible manner. You are not pretencious, dramatic, or any of those things. You are down to earth, driven, honest, loving, and like you had mentioned in one show, you are like the glue. You hold it together and in a way that is classy and refined.
I guess that basically, I am saying that I like the way you handle yourself.
And oh my goodness, on the show today at the Tea Room, I jut have to say it,,,, if it is not about Ramona, in any way, shape or form, the woman just is not satisfied.
Tracey Harris
posted on May 3, 2008 at 8:15 PM
Realityshowaddict wrote:
Hey Jill, I watch because of you. If you're not returning for season 2 of RHNYC, then BRAVO should offer you your own show. Bethenny can do occasional guest appearances after she dumps Jason who's not really into her anyway.
posted on May 3, 2008 at 8:39 PM
Lorie wrote:
I just love you, you keep it real and tell it how it is. You dont take no shhh from anyone!!! I would love to just spend a day out with you because thats how cool of a person I think you are.
Lorie
posted on May 3, 2008 at 11:41 PM
Carol wrote:
OK - so I am going to blog everyone tonight.
Jill - you are funny and sassy and "All New York". Jewish, Italian, or whatever there is a 'typical' character and you are one.
I am married to a man from Long Island, so I know. I am a native Californian, but have always been surrounded by the East Coast!
You are good to say that you don't hold a grudge and that you let those 'barb' comments slide by. I have found that East Coast people say exact;ly what's on their minds, regardless of the fall-out. The only way anyone can deal with that is to let it go.
The best way to disarm a person is to NOT engage.
You really want to make everyone at home and keep it all together. This puts you in a tough spot, but keep at it! With your humor and love you will do well.
XOXO
posted on May 3, 2008 at 11:54 PM
Dory wrote:
I wish I had a friend like you. You're one-in-a-hundred million.
posted on May 4, 2008 at 5:07 PM
sks wrote:
Jill,
You are what I always dreamed I would be. I feel better knowing that there are people with the advantags you have been given are who are truely good people. My daughter has made Ally her favorite person. Watching the smile on her face after she returned from the detox center made my Aly determined to change herself as well. Thank you Jill.
posted on May 5, 2008 at 12:10 AM
Jill wrote:
GO TEAM JILL!
I just became a Housewives fan over the weekend - we watched the marathon. Delish!
Thanks..
How do I get a Team Jill T-shirt?
ps. you and I should do a talk show... Called "The Jills Have It"
posted on May 5, 2008 at 2:33 PM
ada wrote:
Hi Jill! You are my favorite on the show. I am a lot like you in telling it as it is. At the reunion, you mentioned your step-son has Stills Disease and that really got me because I have it too, I know how devastating it can be. I have to applaud you for being there for him and getting the word out there, it is such a rare disease. I have found it challenging to find doctors that even know what it is. Do you have any plans for doing research and public awareness for it? Thank You Jill for being uniquely you.
posted on May 5, 2008 at 4:27 PM
Naomi wrote:
Jill,
You appear to be the kind of person I like being friends with. Always truthful and loyal to your friends. I don't get how you like Ramona. I feel she has no manners and thinks she is better than everyone else. I think Alex needs some work too. Thanks for making the show enjoyable.
Naomi
posted on May 5, 2008 at 4:28 PM
Joanne wrote:
You are a fantastic person. It is especially pleasing to observe your concern for others and your interest in helping others. You don't have to do this, but you enjoy it. You're also a great mom. Alli is a wonderful young lady. Good job, Mom.
posted on May 5, 2008 at 5:36 PM
audre uriarte wrote:
Hi Jill,
I just wanted to say thank you for taking the words right out of my mouth when you asked Ramona if she was an idiot. Hats off to you..
posted on May 5, 2008 at 6:44 PM
Elise wrote:
Jill, I thought you were the MOST genuine on the show and most tender hearted/good hearted. Down to earth. You were so funny and I loved you calling Ramona "Rameana" because she IS...she is a piece of work! Geez a lou! I also loved when you said you were taking your daughter to the mall to shop, like all the other kids in America. Cracked me up. I love your humor!!! I could really see your good heart and your sweet sweet and forgiving spirit. You are a wonderful woman and beautiful inside and out! God bless you!
posted on May 5, 2008 at 8:19 PM
Jilliar wrote:
Tell the truth you lying hypocrite. "I don't care where I sit." Ugh.
posted on May 5, 2008 at 9:03 PM
Cathy Salinger wrote:
Hi Jill,
Mozoltov!
A different view...
First and foremost, it should have been made perfectly clear that men were not welcome to your Girls Night dinner party. And if indeed Simon was to be included, then all the men should have been included. Stand up for yourself, and say no!
I think it's unfair to the other husbands who did not attend, to only have one husband attend. If one husband is allowed the priviledge than all should have the same prividedge. It looked like a chicken coup with one rooster come to roost. Totally inappropriate, you have a voice, use it for what you believe in.
If you or Bethenny didn't find the courage to tell Alex that Simon was not invited to this function, then it would have been in all fairness to warn the other females of the change. It wasn't fair to the other females expecting to come under false pretenses to your party.
But in life nothing is perfect, and at times life throws us a curve ball. Some women just grit their teeth and make the best of a bad situation without saying a word. Some women just go along but have vicious things to say about others behind their back, seeking to place blame and judgement. And some women just violently fight back through attacking and belittling others in order to self preserve themselves.
I say Being prepared for any situation that life throws us whether pleasant or not, enables us to comport ourselves with dignity and virtue. Being prepared for the unexpected when we least expect it is achieved through letting go and letting God. We can't control people, places or things, yet we can control ourselves. When we control ourselves and our instincts with the highest regard for life, then we are empowered and our dignity is self preserved.
The ability to sustain your composure and elegance in the worst of situations is what most evolved and mature adults stive for. Being popular isen't the most important thing to achieve in life, nor is being loved by everyone. People pleasing will only get you so far, but the real journey of life is achieved when we build on our character. knowing who we are as we truly are is the key to true humility.
Next case in point is that we learn from our mistakes. It was clearly a mistake to allow Alex to take control of your dinner party. Her request to have her husband at your party was manipulating and calculating. You can't fault a person for trying to manipulate a situation to accomodate their agenda. But you don't have to give That control to them, and you don't have to give your power away.
I remember you telling the audience that you didn't know what to say when Alex asked to bring Simon. You questioned whether you could have said to her not to bring him. I hope you realize now that you most certainly could have and should have said to Alex "no you can't bring Simon". Putting it nicely, in other words say what you mean but don't say it mean.
It was apparent that all of you were laughing and poking fun of Alex and Simon before they had arrived. Since they were the last one's there, you all had a good laugh and something to gossip about. Putting the focus on others, takes the focus away from ourselves.
I know that people gossip because it can be fun, but it is missing the mark every time we do so. Everyone that gossips is also being gossiped about and you rob yourself the chance to talk about what is really important, yourself.
I think this show has been an eye opener for everyone involved, including the audience. If any of us choose to grow, we must acknowledge our faults and character defects, For we cannot change what do not acknowledge.
It takes a great deal of humility to forgive, but forgiveness is the backbone to healing. Jill, you've shown us how to grasciously forgive those who have hurt us. It frees us from the bondage of self.
Jill, one final note. Rather than get so frustrated and infuriated with all those who cannot be evolved such as yourself, understand that everyone is not on your level and it doesn't have to be your job to make them see the light. Just be a light, and people will radiate to it, and want to have what you have.
Does it mean that people will never lie to you? No, most likely they will keep on lieing if it means it will maintain their image of perfection. They think they are beyond approach. For them maintaining an image is more important than family, friends, even God.
Best wishes to you and to your whole family. Espcially to your very special daughter. Tell her you love her and that she is beautiful often, just the way she is. This way when a man comes along and tries to woo her with sweet words, she won't be so swayed and fallen, because she knows it's true and won't need a man to validate that.
Keep drinking your diet cokes! :)
posted on May 6, 2008 at 12:27 AM
julie wrote:
Jill, I just wanted to you to know durning this very challenging part of my life( my father is living with us on hospice)that I have enjoyed, and I have rerun at least 10 times the episodes...the show brought me laughter, wonder, speculation, fascination, and any other ation one can think of ..but you and Bethany...well I am just sayin..."SPINOFF..! I too have R.A and would be interested in any new meds you know of or Allyson may have found successful. I had stopped using any the last year because it had caused more trouble than not.I am thrilled to hear your stepson is doing much better!I had researched that disease because of auto immune diseases sprinkled in our family and thought that hit at a much younger age?
Have to add LOVED your sister and your mother ...fab..another sitcom...she cracked me up at the luncheon.. You are right you you do have a incredible family and Bobby ..whats not to love..class act! thank you for girls for all taking the risks on this show....you put a lil more splash of color in my life.
julie
posted on May 6, 2008 at 5:18 PM
Lysa wrote:
Bravo! Jill I thought you were wonderful, Between Ramona an Alex (not sure which was worse) I would have had to change the channel. Thank you for being down to earth and saying what we were all thinking. Hope your back for a second season.
posted on May 6, 2008 at 7:54 PM
Anonymous wrote:
you're amazing!! the only way i'm watching season 2 is if you come back!!!!!!!!
posted on May 6, 2008 at 9:59 PM
eric wrote:
Jill, you just crack me up! I loved when your daughter was interning at your store and you kept crank calling her - ordering chinese food, SO FUNNY! I will be your gay husband anytime!
posted on May 7, 2008 at 1:10 AM
Twanali wrote:
Jill, my sister was a big fan of the wives of Orange County. When I found out there was going to be a Housewives of NYC! I told my sister to get ready! And you ladies did not disappoint. The show touched on everything, that I love about New York. In a short condensed version.Fashion Week, The Theatre,Restaurants{The 21 Club} The Hamptons, The Private Schools, The Celebrity {Tommy Hilfiger,Neyo] The cast/people that whole NYC flavor. I,m a New Yawker, by proxy. I live in DC, but come to the city every chance I get. My 1st memory of New York, is when my uncle drove down 42nd St, and there were movie
houses on both sides of the steet.And I remember when Barneys was a conservative store where businessmen shopped, not the Designer Mecca that is today. Jill in closing on my next jaunt to The Big Apple, I'm going to stop by "Zarins" To say Hi "Jill Zarin" You are the Best.
posted on May 7, 2008 at 7:59 AM
Liz McArdle wrote:
Jill,
My husband says that if he ever comes home from work again and hears your strident, irritating voice as he comes through the door he'll toss the TV out the window. He doesn't have a thing to worry about. Your big mouth gets no more play in our home.
posted on May 7, 2008 at 1:13 PM
Lisa wrote:
Jill,
Love you girl! You really are a genuine person. Wether it's to be brutally honest or just the way you love your family. I agree with you about Alex and Simon...Be who you want to be, but "Own it". They're obviously ashamed of how they were depicted on the show or they wouldn't be giving out excuses on their behavior.
posted on May 7, 2008 at 2:32 PM
Elaine wrote:
Your my favorite! i love your sassyness your ideas and your attitude! you bring fun, warmth and class to the show...can i come to one of your dinner parties?
lol
posted on May 7, 2008 at 3:27 PM
mrs. beasley wrote:
Jill: I found you to be the mean one. You try to do one good thing for three mean/ bad things you say or do. You're one of those people who always has to be first, and thinks they give the most. You have such wonderful "connections" and just want to help people.
nope. You want to be revered and praised and stroked.
For anyone that calls anyone a meanie: how heartless and cold is that?
You have a beautiful daughter and saintly hubby : )
posted on May 7, 2008 at 3:29 PM
Michael wrote:
Jill,
You are the greatest character on the show. You are the most beautiful and well mannered of the group. I hope for success in all of your journeys.
Say might you be able to grab your own reality show on Bravo? I am buying some t-shirts ASAP! Love Ya
posted on May 7, 2008 at 4:35 PM
Kathleen Taylor wrote:
Jill -
I was thoroughly impressed by you this season. Your self assuredness, regardless of wealth or "societal stature" is something all women should strive for. Not to say that every word out of your mouth was perfect or pristine, that was hardly the case. None the less, you were true. A real woman with resources, challenges, shortcomings, humor & intelligence. It was a pleasure to "meet" you and I will gladly contribute to your designated charities. You are both an inspiration & a snapshot of truth. Thank you for sharing yourself.
KT
posted on May 8, 2008 at 2:26 AM
Jilly wrote:
Jill - You were my FAVORITE Housewife by far. I think you look and act so classy (but your not trying it comes naturally). Fromt he show you can tell you have high morals and family values.
I hope we get the pleasure of seeing you on season 2.
posted on May 8, 2008 at 11:50 AM
Grace wrote:
Jill,
You ARE the glue that binds; candid, rooted, strong, and caring. Allison must be very lucky to have you as a role model. You and Luann are the only reason we watch the show! Thank you.
posted on May 11, 2008 at 5:20 PM
Kate wrote:
Jill ~
What an entertaining show this entire series ~ yet you maintained a realness and I think perhaps what brought out the most reality was when the show filmed you with your sister at her home.
If anything this show kept me entertained during a time when I had to depend on the moron box to keep my mind off my failing health. Your daughter's willingness to have her health exposed to the general public touched me especially as I realized if a young teenager can have such courage surely being AnOldLady with serious health issues that has found myself too public at times i too can find some courage.
Thank you to you and your family for being just who you are.
Hugs ~
Kate
posted on May 27, 2008 at 9:39 AM
Samantha Fowler wrote:
I don't mean to be nosey but what is the name of the disease that your stepson has. My friend daughter is having trouble with her heart, and the doctor can not figure out what is wrong. She is only 18 and had a heart attack. And now whatever she has has made her blind in one eye. So I was hoping to get the name of the disease and give it to her. Thank you very much, I love watching the show, but I can't stand Alex and Simon, to fake for me.
posted on May 29, 2008 at 9:24 AM
BeccaBoo wrote:
I read the other girls blogs and comment and I have to say that you're the only one to be getting such positive feedback... YOU GO GIRL!!! You seem to be very genuine and you say what most others are afraid to. You catch some flack (is that even a word?!) for refusing to sit behind Ramona at the fashion show but I don't blame you... I would'nt have sat behind that heffer either after the way she treated you! Anyways, keep doing what you do! Can't wait until second season!
posted on June 2, 2008 at 11:25 PM